From the power of space to the heavens 2

Chapter 1284 1283. The strong are fearless, so they are invincible!

"So, how are you going to help me?"

Lu Yuan was a little confused.

After all, although this existence claiming to be his past incarnation spoke in a rather mysterious way, talking about forty-nine and one and the power of the mind, he could still understand it. To put it bluntly, his mentality was not enough to control the forty-eight powers. It can also be said that a person's virtue is not worthy of his position and is more likely to bring disaster. However, the problem is that mentality is something that cannot be artificially helped and corrected, let alone improved. If it were possible, there would not be so many patients with mental illness in modern society. In the final analysis, it is still up to one to let go.

In other words, figure it out for yourself.

of course.

A good environment is also necessary.

The reason why there are so many patients with mental illness in modern society is mainly because the pressure of modern society is too great and the population is too large. Human nature is like this. People instinctively compete for everything. Although, most people are just pushed by the tide of the times, only a very small number of people can control the direction they are going. Only even fewer people can control the tide of the times, choose which direction to push, and how many people to take with them.

Therefore, under the same basic configuration.

The pressures in daily life in a big country with a population of over one billion and in an ordinary country with a population of tens of millions are definitely different.

Because the allocation ratio of resources is different.

Even though competition still exists.

Even though human desires are endless.

Once you have a house, you want a big house.

Once you have a big house, you want many big houses.

But a person's ability is limited.

If a person does not know how to share profits.

No matter what he does, he can't become big and strong.

To use a folk saying.

A hero with three gangs.

Therefore, even if competition still exists and the strong still occupy most of the wealth, what is left to the weak, or the vast majority of people, are still the few resources in this country. But the population base is there, the quality of life is still guaranteed, and people's hearts will naturally be at peace, because after all, what the people want is just to have a stable meal. They will support whoever can fill their stomachs and give them a long-term job. It's that simple.

Therefore, the quality of your mentality mainly depends on the amount of pressure and your own ability to withstand pressure. The amount of pressure and your own ability to withstand pressure mainly depend on the influence of the environment. The influence of the environment depends on objective reality conditions, which are all inevitable.

To put it bluntly.

If everyone’s food, clothing, housing and transportation are guaranteed.

The pressure is naturally not that great.

It is precisely because we cannot change the reality.

So, everyone can only change themselves.

Including various welfare benefits related to having children in modern society.

When feeding yourself is a problem.

How could they have the mind to reproduce?

Therefore, the principle is still the same today.

If the entity claiming to be the past incarnation used some means beyond the scope of understanding to forcibly change a person's mentality, it is theoretically feasible. After all, they are all people who can control the soul, and modifying memory can only be said to be a trivial matter. When a person's memory is modified, his three views will also change accordingly. Although the shell on the surface is still the same, the core inside is actually a different person. The mentality does undergo some unpredictable changes, because the perception of many things has undergone different changes. It is possible that the ability to withstand pressure is stronger, or it may become weaker.

However, after using this method to change him, is he really still himself?

The answer is obviously no.

If we do not use these means that are beyond our understanding, it would be extremely difficult to adjust a person's mentality. No matter who it is, even if you are so powerful that the universe is your plaything, it would be very difficult to help people adjust their mentality.

Because the human heart is fragile.

There is no way to use any coercive means.

If you use too much force, it will break.

Therefore, when the cost of breaking is not something that can be borne, one can only use pure techniques to reach people's hearts and try to change them.

And as everyone knows.

The skill of using little force to achieve a great result is always ranked first.

Needless to say, how difficult it is.

However, for this existence that claims to be in the past tense, although it is not easy to change Lu Yuan's mentality without affecting Lu Yuan's soul, it is not impossible.

Hear Lu Yuan’s question.

smiled.

Then, he said calmly: "Speaking of methods, I really don't have any effective subjective methods, but objective methods do exist... The most basic objective method is chatting. If you want a high-sounding word, I think discussing the Tao is also a good adjective... Of course, whether you are willing to discuss the Tao with me is up to you, and whether the discussion will produce any results is also up to you. In the final analysis, the more you argue, the clearer the truth becomes. I wonder if you agree?"

"That's very lofty."

"Actually, it's the same trick played by the psychiatrist."

“Talk to the patients.”

“Know what’s going on in the patient’s mind.”

“Then use an opposite hedge to balance it out.”

“For example, when facing a patient who has lost hope in the world, what is needed is not encouragement, but to stimulate the patient’s curiosity about the world. We have to admit that curiosity is the best desire for knowledge, and when a person has a desire for knowledge, he will act to satisfy this desire… But in the final analysis, it is still mainly about the patient’s self-help, and only self-help can cure the root cause.”

"otherwise."

"Try your best 10,000 times, but it's still just a temporary solution, not a permanent one."

Lu Yuan didn't mind having a discussion with his past self in front of him, or rather, they were already in the process of having a discussion. After all, no matter how high-sounding the words were, they were all plain and simple in reality. The essence of a discussion was for both parties to exchange their thoughts, opinions on a matter, or views on the world. It was a bit like a polemical person's argument, but different from a polemical person, who refuted for the sake of refutation, while a discussion was to clarify the truth, to see who made more sense, and then, to learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses and correct one's own ideas.

There is no absolute right or wrong in this world.

There is no absolute perfection either.

Therefore, pruning is necessary.

Regarding this point, neither Lu Yuan nor his past body standing opposite him would refute it, because this is the fact.

Therefore, Lu Yuan’s words had just fallen.

Then the person opposite took over the conversation.

Then, he continued, "Your mentality has tended to be stable now. Strictly speaking, there is no need to correct it. Because of this, I want to discuss the future with you, not the present and the past... Because you have always been pessimistic about the future. I am not saying that this is bad, because you and I grew up in different environments, and your views on the world are also different, including the choices you make on certain things... But people should not lose hope. At least when facing a desperate situation, a pessimistic attitude cannot be the pillar that supports you to move forward, but hope can... You should not deny it, right?"

"Of course I won't deny it."

“Although I don’t think that this pessimistic attitude I have is a bad one.”

“This world is too cruel.”

"pessimistic."

"It allows me to skip unnecessary fantasies." "Or, in other words, it allows me to avoid the pain."

Lu Yuan agreed with most of the content in the speech.

But another part of the content was refuted.

However, some hurtful words should be said by this past body.

Even if it sounds quite rude.

But it is still quite necessary to say it.

"In fact, your pessimistic attitude stems from your distrust of this world... or rather, it is born out of your malicious desire to spy on human nature."

“But think about it the other way around.”

"What qualifications do you have to promote pessimism?"

"Based on your experience in Douluo."

"Tang Hao really doesn't follow martial ethics."

"You don't have the demeanor of a strong person."

"But when you put your safety in the hands of a strong man, it is a wrong approach... because it is equivalent to handing your fate to Tang Hao. No matter what Tang Hao does, you have to bear the corresponding price... To put it bluntly, it is stupid. You think you are a time traveler, have more than ten years of experience, live in a peaceful society, and live in a reasonable society. You think that everyone in the world should be reasonable with you. If you have the upper hand in reason, it is equivalent to occupying justice and being able to control the other party... You completely ignore the nature of this world."

"So, the culprit who caused you to turn evil was indeed Tang Hao, but the reason was still your own fault... You were not sober enough, and faced a world without laws with such a naive mindset, and then you were severely taught a lesson by reality."

"In that case, what qualifications do you have to be pessimistic?"

“Ninety-nine percent of the tragedies in this world are caused by the shortcomings of the people involved.”

"At least the tragedy caused by your shortcomings did not affect other people. You only had to bear it yourself. You should feel lucky because this class is very necessary for you."

"As for your later awakening."

"Isn't it also a kind of fear?"

"Once bitten by a snake, you will be afraid of ropes for ten years!"

"You still have the mentality of a normal person. Of course, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with a normal person's mentality. I'm just saying that you're a lot further away from the mentality of a strong person."

"The attitude you have now is based solely on your own strength... To put it bluntly, it's like a poor person who has always been poor and suddenly becomes rich. He doesn't know what to do, and he doesn't even know how to spend the money... When you lose your current strength, you will be immediately defeated and your true form will be revealed. It will be difficult for you to maintain stability."

"You need to know something."

"It's harder to let go than to pick up!"

"When you have the courage to let go, you have already surpassed many ordinary people. And when you let go, you still have no regrets, and even don't judge it by honor or disgrace. This is the mentality that a strong person should have!"

"Put it more intuitively."

"The nouveau riche, the wealthy, the aristocratic family."

"For the nouveau riche, becoming rich overnight is enough to make them lose their complacency and lose their sense of reason. They simply cannot keep this windfall."

"And the nouveau riche who can hold on to this wealth can be called wealthy families, because they can control themselves and maintain their pace of life when faced with enough money, and will not be overly happy or sad because of ups and downs, which is better than many ordinary people."

"Those who are able to part with this wealth, or even decide whether to take it after clearly analyzing the pros and cons, are called aristocratic families... because they look at the long term, and do not determine success or failure based on temporary gains or losses, nor do they determine their entire lives based on temporary success."

"Let's drop this metaphor and get back to reality."

"I might ask in a more direct way."

"But you might as well think about it carefully."

"Do you have the courage to give up your power?"

"Or the courage to start over again?"

"After all, everything will change. When you give up everything you have now, your confidantes, including your teachers and friends, will all develop according to the predetermined timeline. Whether you can face this kind of change... this will determine whether you have the mentality of a strong person!"

The past self standing above the galaxy sighed leisurely.

This left Lu Yuan silent.

But some things depend on how you say them.

The past incarnation standing on the galaxy did not want to use this method to instruct Lu Yuan, but said: "The moment you hesitated, you have already lost the mentality that a strong person should have... The strong are fearless, so they are invincible... Letting go or not letting go is your choice. No one stipulates that if you can't let go of these things, you are not a strong person, and no one determines that if you let go of these things, you are a strong person... It is your heart that determines everything. You have to see your own heart clearly. There was no road in the world at the beginning, but as more people walked, the road appeared... I can't let go of everything I have, so I will carry them and move forward. Maybe I will fall on this road and get bruised and swollen, and I won't be able to get up, but I don't regret it, nor am I afraid of taking such consequences. I believe that I can definitely walk this road. At that time, who can judge whether your road is right or wrong?"

"Enlighten your mind and see your nature...unity of knowledge and action?"

"I think it's OK, so I'll try my best."

“As long as I believe in myself.”

"Then I will certainly be able to do it."

Lu Yuan suddenly understood.

Look at this past body.

In other words, ontology.

Because compared to the other party, he is considered a split soul.

A soul fragment.

He asked back, "What about you?"

“Am I considered to be carrying a heavy burden?”

"Though I don't consider them a burden."

"But compared to me being alone."

“I do think about it a lot.”

The past incarnation standing above the galaxy answered this question calmly.

Then, he added: "It's not about right or wrong, and no one can judge you as right or wrong. You have to believe in yourself and don't care what others think of you. When you do things, you can feel guilty about anyone, as long as you have a clear conscience... Although this is a bit selfish, it makes sense... Now, do you understand?"

"I think I understand."

"As to whether it is true understanding or false understanding."

"That depends on how you put it."

Lu Yuan nodded and said frankly.

Let this person who has passed away clap his hands and laugh.

Praise: "Well said... You think you understand, that's enough. As for other people's opinions, they are not you, so why should you care... Including me, it's not important either. Just walk your own path and you will be invincible. There is no need to compare yourself with anyone!"