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Chapter 971 On the Importance of Sons

"I gave birth, I gave birth, on April 22, the tenth day of the third month of the lunar calendar, at 32:[-] in the morning, Changqing successfully gave birth to a fat boy who weighs six catties and nine taels!"

After He Youfeng and Shen Jiayuan got the letter, they sent telegrams to Shen Hui, He Liping, He Xiaotong, as well as their hometown Xujia in the provincial capital, the county transportation team, and the Xiangyang brigade.

The news that Xu Changqing had given birth to a seven-pound son spread very quickly, and even Baizigou, who Xu Chunxi had no time to return to her natal family to announce the good news, spread all over the place.

When Mrs. Xu heard the news, she was thinking about sending a letter to her son in the past two days to ask if Xiao Mianhulu was about to give birth, so that her son would not think she was serious again.

"...Today, the Xiangyang Brigade set off [-] firecrackers, and I said, what's the matter with this year's festival? Together with their old Shen's family, they even opened an ancestral hall.

Good guy, their old Shen's family has been dispatched, saying that they are setting up a water mat the day after tomorrow.When I came back from the market, there were still many people in the market busy buying goods to go to the Shen family ancestral hall.

Originally, I wanted to go to Ximeizi (Xu Chunxi) to ask her if she wanted to send a letter or something, but then I thought about setting up the water table in the day after tomorrow, and Ximeizi will definitely come back tomorrow to announce the good news..."

Mrs. Xu was no longer interested in listening anymore, she nodded with a smile to show that she heard it, and was thinking of looking for Xu Dahua (Aunt Bai), when she also ran towards this direction.

Xu Dahua came here to talk about buying firecrackers. Her old Bai's family had already sent people to the county to buy firecrackers for celebration when the Shen family came to announce the good news in the morning.

Hearing this, Mrs. Xu didn't want to be polite and waste the money.This custom already existed here, but it was just a matter of setting off a few firecrackers.

Half of the meaning is enough, as for the old Shen's family who set off [-] firecrackers?That's her family's little Monghulu couple who led the Xiangyang Brigade to develop.

Not to mention [-] firecrackers, even [-] firecrackers are not surprising. Now who knows that the couple of her family have a bright future and are going to study abroad.

Hearing Xu Dahua say that the two brothers Bai Xinsheng had agreed with Xu Dazhu and his brothers to buy a set of firecrackers for their old Xu family, Mrs. Xu nodded.

It stands to reason that when a married woman comes to her husband's family to announce the good news, her natal family should set off firecrackers to welcome her, but she is afraid that her little boring gourd doesn't want to take Lao Xu's family as her natal family at all.

In the entire old Xu family, this boring gourd only recognizes her grandfather and second grandfather.Mrs. Xu sighed secretly, but she couldn't say anything, so she pulled Xu Dahua and listened to her while walking.

"... No one dares to talk about my wife anymore, saying that a girl is like a mother. Even Bai Mi gave birth to a big fat boy in her second child, and our Changqing is even more amazing. He was a son when he first conceived.

Me, this is really reassuring.It’s not about patriarchy, it’s okay to have a big fat boy first, and there will be no pressure for this child to have boys and girls in the future..."

Mrs. Xu thought that Xu Dahua would talk about family planning, but when she heard this, she agreed. It is true that having a son for the first time is more confident, and the life is stable.

"... It's not good to be too far away, otherwise we can see whether the child will grow up with us or Weimin, but as far as the looks of their young couple are concerned, the child should not be much different."

When Mrs. Xu heard this, a black face appeared in her mind, er, the female college student turned [-], and then slowly turned handsome, she couldn't help but nodded in agreement with amused.

"My little tiger girl should be very happy in the provincial capital right now, she's a great grandma. We, Changqing, were afraid that her mother would miss her, so we didn't even say anything about the child's pregnancy.

I didn't see any girl who grew up like our Changqing, didn't let her parents worry a little bit, and did everything by herself.This girl is so sweet. "

That's when you forget that she doesn't say a word, it's like everyone owes her virtue!Mrs. Xu shook her head with a smile, "It's just so-so, a little more sensible."

Yes, yes, my parents are young and she has been able to endure hardships since she was a child.Facing the compliments from Aunt He and the others, Bai Xiulan accepted the praise well, and was even more delighted from ear to ear.

Unlike the man in her family, she only laughed when she heard that her parents, Qingshun, gave birth to a child without even asking about the birth of a child. She still felt that her daughter was always capable.

She even gave birth to a son to help her as a mother. In the future, who would dare to say that her mother is not blessed with many sons, and the daughter she gives birth to is probably unlucky.

No matter how strict the family planning is, her parents, Qing, will have such a son with her, and if she doesn't have a son, she won't be gossiped about like her mother.

Especially her child, Weimin, is old and capable, and can make money after going to school. This time her parents have this son, so she really doesn't have to worry about being a mother.

First, there is a relationship between the two families, and then there is a son. Considering that the child of her family, Weimin, will not dare to have extraneous intentions in the future, it is better to have a son than her parents, no matter how good at studying.

After all, not everyone is better off having a son like her child's father, and it's okay if they can't have a son. Most men still want to have a son so that they can establish a family in the future.

It's not that the daughter is not good, but no matter how capable the daughter is, she is willing to recruit a son-in-law. Her mother feels that a child who can come to be a son-in-law is definitely not worthy of her daughter.

Think more!
Regarding Bai Xiulan's thoughts, Xu Qiguang can only say that his wife is thinking too much, and she always thinks that as long as she gives birth to a son, a man will not be able to run away.

Not to mention anything else, just look at the current family planning posture, there will definitely be no fewer families with only one daughter in the future, so we can live as a couple?
To say a thousand words and ten thousand words is still related to ideological awareness in the final analysis.A man must have a heart, not to mention just one son, even ten sons can't hold him back!
In other words, relying on others is worse than relying on oneself. His parents, Qing, understood this truth early on.As far as his parents are concerned, whether it is to have a son or a daughter, she can't bet on her son like a bet. That little bastard Wei Min dares to try, his parents' blue eyes can't tolerate half a grain of sand !
There's no way to say it, and when it comes to the mother of the child, she has to think wildly. She has no idea what kind of temperament the children she gave birth to have, and what are the essential differences.

Just like he said again and again in front of his face that having two daughters is good, son or not is not important, as long as the children are well-educated, it is worth it, but I still don't believe it.

It's useless to say more, many concepts have been deeply ingrained, and she can't break it if she wants to break it. She has to let her think about it slowly and comprehend it slowly.

"Fortunately, Aunt Tian went over there to guard our Changqing, and our father rushed over. When I gave birth earlier, I was still in the village. My mother was not by my side, and I was so scared to death."

"It's my fault." Xu Qiguang sighed secretly, "I left you alone in my hometown..."

"Here we go again." Bai Xiulan glared at Xu Qiguang reproachfully, "Aren't you going to work to support your family? How long do you think our father will stay there and return to Hong Kong City?"

(End of this chapter)