Quickly wear the white moonlight of crazy batches

Chapter 181 Hello, Sister 23
About the etiology of Yan Ning.

Ye Nanjin once chatted with Yan's father and Yan's mother.

Normally speaking, Yan Ning lives in a very happy family environment, and there is no problem with his original family, so why does he suffer from such severe bipolar disorder?

Yan's mother said to her: "When Yan Ning was eight years old, they fostered him at his uncle's house... But Yan Ning's condition did not get worse at that time, and we often went to visit him at his uncle's house, and he didn't It's like you've been bullied."

But the psychiatrist once contacted them, saying that something must have happened to Yan Ning when he lived in his uncle's house, which caused him to have this change.

But what is the specific situation, the doctor can't tell them clearly.

Ye Nanjin nodded: "This is a basic cause, so what is the cause of his illness?"

Often some of the pain experienced as a child does not show up at the time.

These pains will only be triggered when he experiences certain things after he grows up.

For example, if a child suffers from psychological trauma due to quarrels between parents when he was young, this bed will not appear in childhood, and it will not even appear in adulthood.

But when the child is an adult and married, she may become timid, or become very restless and irritable.

Over time, emotions accumulated and exploded into symptoms.

Ye Nanjin wanted to know what was the cause of Yan Ning's illness.

Yan's mother thought for a while: "Yan Ning was in good condition when he was in school, but after going to work...he is not normal."

"Has he told you that he has any pressure after work, or does he feel uncomfortable?"

"No." Yan's mother was very sure, but after thinking for a while, Yan's mother said: "Oh, yes, Yan Ning is a perfectionist. He was the top student in school when he was in school. You also know that starting a company is not that simple, and winning or losing in the business field is a common thing, and it is even normal to be harmed by shareholders."

Ye Nanjin probably understood.

Because of some childhood experiences, Yan Ning made him pursue the perfection of things.

When he was in school, he was perfect in every way.

He has excellent grades and good physical fitness. Although he is a bit autistic and has seen a psychiatrist, at that time he just felt stressed because of his excessive pursuit of perfection, and his emotional problems had not yet reached their peak.

And when he went to work, the pressure immediately exploded.

So his bipolar disorder is because of his incomparable desire for perfection, and he will become crazy because of a little imperfection.

Get back to the present.

Ye Nanjin looked at the newspapers in his hand: "Do you think the word "perfect" should exist?"

Yan Ning frowned: "Why shouldn't it? When things are perfect, everyone will be happy, right?"

Perfection is the most desirable thing in this world.

He doesn't think it's wrong to strive for perfection.

Ye Nanjin said lightly: "Pursuing perfection is not wrong, but you have to understand that perfection does not exist in the world. Even if it exists, the price you have to pay for it is too heavy. When the pursuit of perfection becomes too heavy , then this perfection itself is no longer perfect.”

Yan Ning: "..."

Ye Nanjin's words were too convoluted.

But Yan Ning understood.

This is also the point where Yan Ning is very broken.

He hopes that everything can become perfect, including his mentality, but he can't.

(End of this chapter)