Your majesty, Empress Xianyu doesn't want to leave the cold palace

Chapter 725 I Care About You
Qi Ranran: "In the courtroom, they are stating the facts of the case, and what they say is stereotyped.
Besides, there are so many people watching, once it is spread, there will be a lot of discussion, and it is not pleasant to spread it. "

Originally, society puts a lot of pressure on women.

When guaranteeing the rights and interests of women, it is of course necessary to minimize possible harm.

"Don't you don't want to listen to what I say,

Society is more tolerant of men than women.
This is true in all dynasties.

Among men, there are some domestic violence, greedy for money, lustful, and gambling.
There are also many who sell their children, daughters and wives,
What if it is really unfortunate to marry such a person? "

The same is true in history.

The status of men is generally higher than that of women.

They will make a series of stringent requirements,
Women are required to learn women's training, three obediences and four virtues, virtuous and generous, and women are required to bind their feet.

What's more, they will favor boys over girls to the point of drowning a newborn girl.

But even so, there were times in history when women were as tolerant to women as in the Tang and Song dynasties.

It's man-made.

It can be seen that this can be achieved.

"Men and women have different structures, so empathy and sympathy are different.
How could the magistrate really feel the difficulties of a woman,
Only women can understand women better,
Only then can we be more patient and be able to compare our hearts with our hearts. "

Yu Wenchen listened to her words and remained silent.

But there is no denying that there is truth in her words.

Seeing that he didn't object, Qi Ranran continued to express her opinion,
"That's what I thought, this organization about the Society for the Defense of Women is called... 'The Women's Club',
Women who encounter difficulties can turn to here for help.
Here, to help them rebuild their confidence,
Let them be confident, self-reliant and self-reliant,
Let the most ordinary people live with dignity,
To protect their life and health, freedom of life, reputation and property,

Let them have the confidence to stand in the world. "

Marriage is a type of relationship.

But a woman does not necessarily have to be completely bound in this relationship for a lifetime.

They can also have interests, have friends, and have a broad world.

You can live well without relying on your natal family or husband.

"I think, if you have family conflicts, you can go here for help first.
can be solved,

If you can't solve it, you should go to court, and then go to court,

After all, the original intention of establishing the "Women's Society" was not to intensify conflicts, but to solve problems.

Of course, I'm not saying that all women are good,

If a woman does something wrong, she shall be punished according to the law,

What I'm saying is mainly to protect those who are in trouble, don't know how to solve it, and have nowhere to turn. "

There are scumbags among men, and there are scumbags among women.

You can't kill them all with one stick.

"I know that the relationship between the female lead inside and the male lead outside is the mainstream,

I didn't want to completely overthrow the change in the past. "

This pattern exists even in modern times.

But apart from the family, modern women have independent personalities and beliefs,
And all of this is too difficult for women in Beiyu.

"I just think that always relying on one side will always become a kind of inequality after a long time.

And in this unequal relationship, contradictions will arise.

Contradictions come together, and all kinds of things happen one after another.

In my opinion, relying on everything is not a good thing,
In getting along, two people need to rely on each other, support each other, appreciate each other,
Such a relationship can go a long way. "

Yu Wenchen listened to her words and looked sideways,
I saw her small and small, leaning against him,
But what she said has great energy,
It seems that there is a luminous soul hidden in her small body.

He understood what she meant, what is needed in a marriage is not muddling along, not being attached like a dodder,
Instead, evenly matched, to be each other's support and belief,
Be the pillar and rely on each other in life, so that both parties will become better.

Come to think of it, the relationship between them is the same.

She can be coquettish, and he often says he is coquettish,
But he knew that she was never squeamish,

Although it was a bit mischievous and troublesome, I never saw her take a step back in business.

In my impression, she said many things that sound deviant.

But if you think about it deeply, it's not hard to find her true intentions.

What she wants is equality, freedom, respect,
Even if you can't reach it at this time, you will slowly work hard in that direction.

Her concern is not only for those around her,

Even strangers who meet by chance, she will not hesitate to help,
You can exert as much force as you can,
Don't be stingy, and don't care about the price you need to pay.

It's really hard not to like her like this.

Day after day, the love grows deeper and deeper.

After Qi Ranran finished her thoughts, seeing that he had been silent, she turned her head to look, and saw his absent-minded eyes.

Biting his lower lip, he felt a little uncertain.

I thought to myself, did I talk too much?
Pulling his little finger, he made a weak sound,
"Are you unhappy?"

Yu Wenchen was distracted by her words, and when his eyes were clear, he saw Xiao Xianyu raised his head with a worried expression on his face.

He calmly said,
"Why do you ask such a question?"

Qi Ranran pursed her lips, and finally told the truth,
"You didn't speak for a long time, I thought you were angry."

"You did a good thing, why should you be angry as a husband?"

Qi Ranran breathed a sigh of relief,

"It's fine if you don't get angry."

She thought that he would feel too deviant when he heard her words in the thoughts that he had grown up from a young age.

But he listened patiently and patiently.

Seeing her shoulders slump with relief, Yu Wenchen suddenly became interested,

"So worried about being angry with your husband?"

The gaze I met with him was extremely sincere,
"Shouldn't it be?"

"..."

Her voice is soft, falling into my ears in the dead of night, especially with the power to comfort people's hearts,
"We are husband and wife,
I do have something I want to do, but I also care about your emotions,

As a husband and wife, of course I need to think differently,
You have the pressure you need to face. I am your wife, so naturally I should care about you and take care of your emotions.

There should be some trouble between us, let's discuss it,
How can I really make it out of my temper when I think of it. "

like him,
When he hears ideas that are contrary to his consciousness, he will subconsciously frown, hesitate, and be puzzled.
But he will not rush to refute, but will listen to her thoughts patiently, and then express his doubts.

This is his habit, and it is also the trust and respect formed between him and her.

From Yu Wenchen's point of view, she said a lot.

And what she wants to express the most is——

I care about you.

Whether it's happiness or negative emotions, she cares about them and is willing to share them.

Qi Ranran didn't wait for his voice, but when she looked again, she saw a beautiful smile on the corner of his lips,

"What are you laughing about?"

Yu Wenchen admitted frankly,

"For my husband, I think my father-in-law has raised a good daughter."

PS: In the Tang Dynasty, there was the earliest Women's Federation "Women's Society"

(End of this chapter)