Crazy

Chapter 370

Everyone sighed.Ignorance and widow-style parenting are all over the screen. Many sisters feel the same way, telling their own sufferings, saying that they are also tired and sick, and they don’t know when they may die.

Simple is also very emotional, "We feel very sorry for your sister, so we girls must take care of ourselves and take care of ourselves. Don't think that you will become a superman when you get married and become a mother. You must know that children It’s not about you alone, it’s about the whole family, and the members of this family should actually take on the responsibility of raising children.”

"We have also encountered such cases before, that is, the young couple did not plan to have children when they first got married, because their jobs were not stable yet, but their parents urged them, and the elder sister urged them to give birth to a child for their grandfather. The grandma brought them to save them from being bored. Then they gave birth, but the grandpa and grandma only came to visit once in a while. On weekdays, they would travel with the eldest aunt to play in the mountains and rivers, so uncomfortable. But this daughter-in-law is suffering, and she is alone at home with the children Not to mention, I have to suffer ridicule from my parents-in-law and elder sister, which means that she is stingy, and she is not willing to spend any money, nor is she willing to go out to play..."

"So, why do we have children? Before we decide to have children, no, before we decide to get married, we must think clearly. Children are our own. Those who say they will bring up children for themselves may not necessarily help you, even if they are themselves. The biological parents of our parents may change their minds temporarily or break their promises for various reasons. Therefore, we must have the ability and energy to raise children before we want this child, otherwise, our lives will only be messed up, and our own His life has since become very passive.”

"Of course, this is a bit off topic. The reason why I repeat this topic is because I really think, sister, let me tell the truth, your family has its own problems. Why, although you didn't say it, I can see Come out, the status of your father should be dominant, your mother should have no right to speak, and may be subject to domestic/violence from your father... And the three of you, siblings, grew up in this shadow when you were young... Yes, I think you are right, ask me why I can see it?"

"This is not based on intuition, but I deduce it from the way you express it and the content you deliberately avoided. Especially when it comes to your second sister's untimely death, your family is too insensitive, I say It shouldn’t be sharp, right? Why, because you clearly knew what happened to her at that time, but you cared about her very little, gave her warmth, gave her support, and didn’t persuade her to change her way of life... Angry and sad It's unfortunate, sister, if you could give your brother the corresponding care and warmth at the beginning, I believe he would not have come to this point."

The girl got a little angry, "Daddy, I know what you said, isn't it too late now, I'm here to find a way, not to listen to your analysis of how my family got to this point."

Simply sighed, "Does my method really work? You don't know very well how to find your brother. Aren't you struggling to find him? Then what's the use of my suggestion? Sister, If you really want to change the status quo, it’s never too late to start. Remember, family relationships need to be managed and maintained, not just remembered when we need them.”

(End of this chapter)