Mrs. Quanfu wants to leave

Chapter 273 Praiseful and Sad
The old lady Lu sighed, "It's a good thing for children to make progress, but it also depends on the timing. If you say that Qilang is wrong, Qilang is also right. He is not worse than his brothers, but is it a good thing to be an official now?"

The old lady finally talked about it with Lu Fenghe on the car back.

"I heard that Qilang asked your uncle to make a fuss about this matter several times. If your uncle didn't let go, Qilang wanted to separate the family. Let alone mentioning the separation of the family in Xifu, he said that your uncle and second uncle are both good and there is no separation. family reason."

"What I know is that Qilang wants to separate from the same family in order to become an official. Those who don't know think it's because his wife came out to gossip about our house, and we forced them to separate."

"Miss Qilang was imprisoned in the Buddhist hall by your uncle and grandmother. I didn't want her to disturb Qilang's mind, but Qilang is simply obsessed with ghosts."

Lu Fenghe had a bold guess, "The uncle and grandma are me..."

The old lady Lu nodded, "If you can't persuade Qilang, let Qilang stay at home to keep his filial piety."

Lu Fenghe was in a bad mood, holding her grandmother's hand without saying a word, she thought that her uncle and grandmother had some kind of emergency, but she didn't expect it to be settled by herself.

"Your great-aunt left a last word, she wants to watch over her children and grandchildren, don't leave Piling during the filial piety."

"Second uncle and third brother can't leave too?"

Old lady Lu nodded, "I can't leave."

Lu Fenghe has mixed tastes, a thin old lady like her uncle and grandmother, for the sake of her children and grandchildren, she is not afraid of death.

The old lady Lu knew more than Lu Fenghe, and thought more.

In fact, the elders knew in their hearts that it was not a good time to become an official at this time, not to mention Shen Nanxun's incident, the possibility of being an official at this time was far higher than that of becoming famous.

The big house has an academy, there is Uncle Lu's family, the third and fourth rooms have kept children who can go to school, no matter what, they can always be preserved.

But the Erfang is not necessarily the case. The Erfang business is usually started because of the Lu family's property before. The Lu family's property is gradually taken back into the hands of the Li branch, and the Erfang gradually loses its support.

If it was Lu Qilang, Erfang was the only one who had fame and knowledge and then folded in. In the future, if something happened, Erfang would have no chance to stand up.

Not to mention that the first and second families are of the same clan and branch, it's okay for the older generation to say it, and when the older generation is old, it will become a polite remark.

In fact, because Xifu has taken care of the Lu family's business for many years, many shopkeepers only know Sanlang and don't know the Lu family, which has already made Uncle Lu and Lu Erlang dissatisfied. up.

Sun's death not only blocked Lu Qilang's way to become an official, but also blocked Lu Sanlang's way to control his business.

But Lu Sanlang and Lu Qilang are grandchildren after all, and the grandchildren of this dynasty can keep their filial piety for one year.

After one year, if the long house still cannot get back the business, it means the long house is incompetent.Lu Qilang hasn't figured it out yet, it's just him asking for trouble.

Lu Zhan is doing well. Only when the Second Grandpa Lu is doing well, can Old Master Lu remember his younger brother's love.

After thinking about it, Mrs. Sun had no choice but to settle it herself. If she could stop the way of her grandchildren, she did not die in vain. If she couldn't stop her, then she did her best.

Mrs. Lu arrived in the West Mansion earlier, and she saw the note left by Mrs. Sun, so she still didn't understand.

Lu Fenghe didn't expect that his great-aunt would come up with such a trick in order to prevent the third brother and the seventh brother from fighting over the long house.

She suddenly thought of the scene of the second uncle knocking on the edge of the bed at night. She was afraid that the heartache of the second uncle's mother's death was real, and the regret that she couldn't stop her son from making his mother sacrifice so far was also true.

Lu Fenghe sent the old lady back, ate with the old lady, and persuaded the old lady to lie down for a while before going back to the third bedroom.

When Mrs. Zhao knew she was back, she called her first. Both children were in Mrs. Zhao's yard.

"I have already written a letter to your father. The old lady in Xifu is gone. Your father and brother don't need to come back for the funeral, but we are in Piling, so we can't go away. Our mansion also has to keep mourning for the old lady for three months and go to Kuizhou Just wait until Qi Qi is burned."

For one thing, they are cousins, and keeping the filial piety is all based on the will, and keeping it until the funeral can be regarded as full of will.

Second, it is the female relatives who go there, and it is not so strict for the family members of the husband's family to observe filial piety and attend funerals for them.

"How about the date of the funeral?" Zhao Shi asked Lu Fenghe, the West Mansion was still in chaos when Zhao Shi left.

Lu Fenghe nodded, "Forget it, I'll be dead for 24 days, I have to wait for my uncle's family to come over."

Mrs. Zhao nodded. This time is still relatively short. At this time, the mourning period varies from time to time, some are as long as more than a year, and some people are buried in a hurry the next day.

Twenty days can even be considered short.

"Available?"

"I've used it, and I came back after using it with my grandmother."

"Then go to the meeting. You should be kneeling tomorrow. Your father and brother are not here. Even though you are a married aunt, you can't be lazy."

Lu Fenghe nodded in response, "Understood."

Although most people in the Lu family didn't think there was anything wrong with Lu Fenghe returning home, they didn't treat the daughters-in-law of the Lu family as outsiders either.

But this era is like this, it is always an era where men are superior to women.

The time for mourning and keeping filial piety is roughly divided into five categories: chopping, Qishou, great merit, minor merit, and silk hemp, according to the length of mourning.

The beheading is the heaviest, the three years of mourning, the clothes made of the thickest raw linen, most of the ministers are the king, the son is the father, and the wife is the husband.

The second is the decline of Qi, wearing rough raw sackcloth, and is divided into four grades according to the length of mourning, whether to use a staff or not.

First class: Three years of Qi decline, that is, three years of mourning, with a stick.It is used when the father has died first, the son is the mother, and the unmarried daughter is the mother.

The second class: the period of the decline of the rod, that is, one year of mourning and the use of the rod.It is used when the father is still alive, the son is the mother, the unmarried daughter is the mother, and the husband is the wife.

The third class: the Qi decline period without a stick, that is, one year of mourning without a stick.Applicable to grandparents, uncles, brothers, unmarried sisters, and married daughters as parents.

Fourth class: three months of Qi decline, that is, three months of mourning, without sticks.Suitable for great-grandparents, great-grandparents.

The great merit is inferior to the first-class mourning clothes of Qi Shuai. It is made of cooked linen, which is finer and denser than raw linen.In September of mourning, no staff is used.Applicable to married aunts, cousins, and unmarried cousins.

The first-class mourning clothes for minor gongs, which are inferior to those for major gongs, are made of cooked linen, while those for major gongs are finer and finer.In mourning in May, no staff is used.Applicable to descendant grandparents, cousins, grandbrothers, married cousins, and maternal grandparents.

Linen, the lightest first-class mourning dress, made of the finest cooked linen.In mourning for three months, no staff is used.Applicable to clan great-grandparents, clan grandparents, clan parents, and uncles, aunts, cousins, parents-in-law, etc. with foreign surnames.

Mrs. Sun has gone, but Lu Zhan is still alive. Even his own son, Lu Erye, only needs to use a stick and mourn for one year.

Lu Sanlang, Lu Liulang, Lu Qilang and other relatives and grandchildren need not use sticks and wear mourning for one year.

As for nephews such as Uncle Lu, Third Master Lu, and Fourth Master Lu, they wear familiar hemp, and they don't use sticks when they mourn in September.

When Lu Dalang waited for his nephew and grandson, he wore hemp and mourned for five months.

As for a married woman like Lu Fenghe, she is the lightest, she wears sackcloth, doesn't use a staff, and wears mourning for three months.

(End of this chapter)