The little chef in the era made a fortune by raising a baby

Chapter 177
"It's better not to give birth if you don't raise it. It's the child who suffers when born."

Zhao An'an sighed: "This Zi Shan Zi Mei's biological parents, I won't talk about it after my father passed away. There is a saying that a mother is strong, but not all mothers love their children."

"Sometimes! Parents only want to have fun for a while. After having a child, they are not ready to be parents. They themselves are at a loss. How can they take care of and raise good children!"

Zhao An'an has seen too many children who are abandoned and adopted, or left to fend for themselves, or patriarchal, pampering boys and abusing girls.

Boys can get the best things and love from the family, while girls not only have to take care of themselves, but also have to do the work of the whole family, and may even be called to earn money at a young age.

In comparison, although the original owner's mother, Chen Yuzhu, was also patriarchal, she was already much better than some others.

"Sister-in-law, you and my eldest brother are definitely not irresponsible parents, but if you look at some children from other families in the village, let's take Xiao Lin as an example! What kind of life did Xiao Lin live when he was a child? How did his parents treat him?"

"And our father, do you think our father looks like a father at all? He never cares about the life or death of his children or mother. If he has money, he will drink it, and if he has no money, he will drink it on credit. Drunk mad."

"When I was young, my elder brother, my second brother, and my mother lived in fear for a long time."

"But our father is like this, and my mother didn't leave us three brothers and sisters. My father is like this. If I say something harsh, I might as well die! If my mother is dead, I don't have to pay him so much money on credit."

"Zi Shan Zi Mei is different. Their father passed away. If their mother hadn't left the two children and ran away, Xiao Lin would have helped raise them with money."

"Their father saved Xiao Rin. Xiao Rin is a person who values ​​love and righteousness. If Miss Zhu Lan doesn't run away, she will be able to raise two children by herself. With Xiao Rin's help, life will not be too difficult."

"Look at Xiao Lin taking the two children back, didn't they bring them to five years old alone?!"

"Right now, raising children in the village is all about food and clothes, and that's it. But I don't think so. I want my two children to go to school."

"There is a saying that knowledge changes destiny, and reading makes the future, so sister-in-law, you and my eldest brother must also let Xiaowen Xiaoyue go to school. You must not be like other people who say that girls grow up to marry anyway. If you read this book, you will read such words in vain.”

Zhao Anan picked up the water glass and took a sip, moistened his throat and said: "If you are short of Xiaoyue's tuition money, then my aunt will pay for Xiaoyue. In short, Xiaoyue must go to this school."

"We can't give birth without raising them, or we can raise them without teaching them. This is absolutely impossible."

"When a child is born, it is a blank sheet of paper. What adults write on the blank sheet of paper determines what they will be like in the future. Parental education is very important."

Zhao An'an's words made Liu Xiumei fall into deep thought. She never thought before that there are so many things to pay attention to when it comes to childbirth and being a parent.

When they were old enough, someone came to the door to say kiss, and then they liked each other with the man. The parents of the two families discussed it, then picked a date to get engaged, and then they got married.

After getting married, it seems to be a matter of course to live and have children. When you are pregnant, you will have a baby. After the first one is older, you will have the second. Most people in the village have two children. After giving birth to a son, they want a daughter. If you want a daughter after giving birth to a son, you have to make up the word "good".

Some people who have two sons or two daughters are not very happy behind the scenes, especially those who have two daughters. In their place, patriarchy is very serious.

The ideas of the older generation, which are taught from ear to ear, will inevitably be subtly influenced after a long time.

After hearing Zhao An'an's words now, Liu Xiumei felt that she had been hasty in giving birth.

But the child has already been born and raised so big, she can't stuff it back, can't she?

But Liu Xiumei secretly thought that she would have to walk more with sister-in-law An An in the future. She hadn't noticed it before, but now she knows that sister-in-law is capable and thoughtful than many people.

Especially after hearing from sister-in-law An'an that Xiaoyue's tuition money had to be paid together, she knew that she was worried that she and Zhao Dagang would not let Xiaoyue go to school.

It's good for my sister-in-law to have such a heart, but they can't take advantage of her. The most important thing is not to let Xiaoyue hate them in the future.

Originally, there were a lot of eccentric parents in the village. They had to be parents who were well-balanced.

Liu Xiumei thought about this, and said seriously: "An'an, don't worry, I won't let Xiaoyue go to school, you are right, this is a baby! You can't just give birth to these two children, Zi Shan Zi Mei , can be regarded as a blessing in disguise.”

"If their mothers were here, their mothers might not think like you. These two children are lucky to meet you and Xiao Lin."

When the two were talking, Zishan Zimei was eating potato chips. Xiao Zimei didn't quite understand what they were talking about, but Xiao Zishan listened.

As the future scientist boss in the book, Xiao Zishan has a very high IQ.

However, the future doctor in the book suddenly became enlightened after junior high school, and then made great progress all the way.

Zhao Anan touched the little heads of the siblings, "Zi Shanzi is so beautiful, obedient, obedient and capable, it's their mother's loss that their mother doesn't want them."

"By the way, Ann, have you heard?"

Liu Xiumei suddenly remembered the comments she heard when she went to Chenjiacun to deliver things a few days ago, "They said that Zhu Lanmei remarried a coal boss."

"The coal boss is rich, and now Miss Zhu Lan is a rich man's wife."

"The people in Chenjia Village said that they don't know if she is married to a rich man and will come to pick up her two children to live with her in the future!"

Zhao An'an's reaction was flat. She knew about Zhu Lanmei's marriage to the coal boss, but taking the two children to live with her was out of the question.

If there is no accident in the coal mine in the future, Zhu Lanmei will never come to see these two children for the rest of her life.

Zhao Anan reached out and rubbed the heads of the two brothers and sisters, and asked, "Zi Shan Zi Mei, if your mother comes to pick you up to live a good life, will you go?"

Xiao Zimei looked at her in a daze, "Isn't our mother you?"

This was what Xiao Zishan taught her to say at the beginning, so that she could say nice things in her mouth and please Zhao An'an, so they could fill their stomachs.

"I'm talking about your own mother, I'm just your stepmother!" Zhao An'an knew that Xiao Zimei didn't understand, but Xiao Zishan absolutely understood.

(End of this chapter)