The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

Seeing Li Sanniang's astonished expression, Danniang, that is, the woman with breast nucleus, changed her face slightly, and after a while, under Li Sanniang's sincere gaze, she still explained why she asked such a question.

It turned out that Danniang was afraid that after getting breast nucleus, the reason why she would not be able to breastfeed her child in the future was that if she gave birth to a baby in the future, it would cost money to find a nanny again, and Danniang's family could not afford the money. overhead;

The second is that Danniang is afraid that her illness will affect her childbirth in the future, because she has not yet given birth to her son.

"I'm not afraid of the female doctor's jokes. I gave birth to my first daughter on the [-]th, and then I gave birth to my second daughter, and then I was pregnant with my third daughter. However, my third daughter was unlucky and died at birth.

After stopping for two years, Siya was born.

I just gave birth to Wuya last year, and now I have had it for more than a year. I didn't expect to have such a disease. I was very worried, so I came to the medical hall to have a look. "

Li Sanniang saw that the woman was only in her early twenties, but she had already given birth five times, and she had given birth many times in succession, which was too exhausting for her vitality.

"Lady, the breast nucleus on your body is not a big deal now, but I have diagnosed the deficiency of qi and blood, spleen and kidney disharmony, and emotional discomfort on my lady, so I really need to take care of it.

If you want to conceive again, you should take good care of yourself, and it will be a matter of course. "

Danniang's brows were wrinkled again, and her already sickly face was looking bad at this moment.

Li Sanniang didn't try to persuade her any more, she picked up a pen and wrote down the poem, while waiting for the ink to dry, Li Sanniang thought about it and said a few more words: "My lady, this issue of heirs depends entirely on the reconciliation of men and women.

Having boys and girls is not optional.

Even if you want a son, you have to take care of yourself, otherwise, the child will be difficult to raise. If there is no mother to take care of it, how will the child in front grow up? "

Naturally, Li Sanniang can't argue with Danniang, it's a matter of probability to give birth to a boy and a girl, it's a matter of the male's Y chromosome not being given to the next generation, it depends on the man, it has nothing to do with the girl.

This is a matter of genes, unless you use artificial test tubes in the laboratory to select fertilized embryos and choose males and females.

Otherwise, this is a matter of probability, where can we make choices?
But Danniang heard Li Sanniang's comforting words, but she didn't know what she thought of, and she shed tears.

"If you can't have another son, I'll find Widow Wang to give birth. If she can give birth to two sons, she can give birth to a third!"

"You old hen that doesn't lay eggs, my grandson's family married you, it's really bad luck for the ancestors for eight lifetimes!"

"Haha, sister-in-law, you deserve to eat chicken and meat? I gave birth to two grandchildren for the Sun family. What did you give birth to? A litter of girls are born to work hard!"

These are all tolerable, Danniang is thinking of Sanya who was drowned in the water basin by her mother-in-law when she was just born.

Originally, two girls were born, and the mother-in-law and Lang Xu were already unhappy, but in the end, the third baby she gave birth to was still a girl!
Frustrated, for some reason, the mother-in-law didn't stop the newborn baby, who was crying like a kitten, and put her head face down in the water basin. After a few breaths of effort, he was drowned directly.

To the outside world, it was only said that the little baby's life was not good, and he would be out of breath in the next life.

After giving birth to Siya for the fourth time, the mother-in-law wanted to drown directly. Danniang didn't care about her weak body just after giving birth, so she snatched the little girl back from the mother-in-law with bare feet. .

There was still blood on her lower body, and Dan Niang yelled at her mother-in-law like crazy: "This is my son, whoever wants to kill her, I will die! I will bring the son to die with you!"

The mother-in-law was frightened, and said tremblingly, "Okay, if you have the ability, you can raise it yourself. Our family doesn't raise idlers, so your eldest wife can raise this baby by yourself."

Danniang went to the field during the day, mended at night, worked day and night, and finally supported Sanya.

Erlang, Danniang still wants to have a baby, but not because her mother-in-law and Lang Xu want it, but if Da Ya and their brothers get married in the future, what should they do if they don't have the support of their mother's family?

After giving birth to Wuya a year ago, both Sun's mother-in-law and Lang Xu were disheartened.

If it weren't for Danniang's ability to work so hard that most of the money she earned went into her mother-in-law's pocket, she might have been kicked out by the Sun family long ago.

Li Sanniang looked at Danniang crying forbearance and aggrieved, really didn't know if she could say something, so she handed over her handkerchief.

"If you have any difficulties, you can go to the Women's Support Association in Changshoufang, and there should be some solutions for you."

Tanniang, who still had tears on her face, gratefully accepted the handkerchief that Li Sanniang handed over. After Li Sanniang handed over the prescription, she watched Danniang and her mother-in-law take the medicine from the medicine cabinet and went out.

Dan Niang was walking on the road carrying the medicine bag, and the woman who had been by her side just now asked, "Dan Niang, do you really want to reconcile?

You divorced, what about Da Ya and the four sisters? "

The mother-in-law, who usually followed Danniang to Chang'an City to set up a stall to sell vegetables, was Li Granny who lived in a village.

"Grandma, I will take them away.

This female doctor, when I was selling vegetables, I heard from the girls in the city that she is a capable and kind-hearted person.

The female doctor's name is Li Sanniang, her family lives in Changshoufang, and she runs a medical clinic.

Their Li family also opened a league called the Women's Support Association, which is dedicated to helping girls like me who are soaking in bitter soup.

I've thought it all out," Danniang couldn't read, but looked at the note in her hand, folded it and put it in her inner pocket.

"The next time I look for a chance, I'll take this note to the league to see if I can find a way to help me reconcile Li successfully.

I'm not in good health now, but I didn't rely on the Sun family to raise Da Ya and the others. "

Mrs. Li knew that Danniang had something in mind, so she didn't say anything, but Tanniang started talking, "Grandma, I can't stay in Sun's house anymore, Sun Dalang and I won't have a son.

I also want to give birth to a son, but what can I do if I don't live up to my stomach?

I overheard my mother-in-law in the first ten days saying that she was going to sell Da Ya, saying that she wanted to use it for the second room's grandson to study. In order to sell more money, she actually wanted to sell Da Ya to that dirty place!
I can't stay in the Sun's house anymore, I have to take the children away, leaving the Sun's house is our way of life. "

When we arrived at the chariot and horse shop, we spent a few copper coins to get on the cart, but the donkey cart was not moving fast, and it took half an hour before we left Chang'an City.

After getting off the car on the official road and carrying the basket on their backs, Danniang and Mrs. Li went to the village, and they separated when they reached the fork in the road.

Just entering the yard, the real eight-year-old, actually only a little over seven years old, sees Danniang coming back, happily withdraws her hand from the cold water basin, and goes to ladle water for Danniang to wash her hands.

"Leave the beans, and I'll wash them later, Auntie.

You are small, what should you do if your hands are frozen? "

Danniang had already made up her mind to make up with her, but this time she saw that her mother-in-law asked her to do this kind of work, and her desire to make up was even stronger.

Self PUA is the scariest thing.

Frankly speaking, although I know reproductive rights and freedom, I really can't understand the kind of women who voluntarily undergo abortion in order to have sons.

Of course, people don't need my understanding.

It's just that miscarriage is not only a problem for female fetuses, but also hurts the body. . . .

I am in Shandong, and I know a sister, eight years, eight years, five or six miscarriages, and finally gave birth to a son last year.

From having my eldest daughter in my 20s to now in my 30s, I have been seeking a child for almost 10 years. I am really convinced.

On the day that sister gave birth to her son, she posted it on Moments. Looking at it, it would not be an exaggeration to say that she was in her 40s.