The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

Li Sanniang looked at Sun Chunlan, who had her head lowered and her mood was visibly depressed, and felt a little sorry for her.

"You kid, why did you get into trouble again?"

Li Sanniang stretched out her hand and held Sun Chunlan's hand, holding Sun Chunlan's slightly cold fingertips with her warm palm. She sighed softly, and then said softly: "Look up, it's not like you are sick. Your fault is God's fault, so what do you do?

Don't be responsible for irrelevant mistakes. "

"Sister-in-law, me"

Sun Chunlan looked at Li Sanniang's gentle and strong eyes, and couldn't say what she wanted to say.

"You are your grandma's baby, you are lucky to be able to come to this world.

Didn’t you just think about it a few years ago?

How can we fall into confusion again because of other people's words? "

"Sister-in-law, I am...I."

Li Sanniang raised her hand to lick Sun Chunlan's fallen hair, and then she smiled at Sun Chunlan and said, "You have been in my school for a long time and you have done well in your studies. Otherwise, I would not have recruited you to this obstetrics and gynecology department." Come to the church to do the work.

Chunlan, a girl doesn’t just have to give birth to children in this world.

The value of a girl’s life is not just about giving birth to children!

Haven't you already known this truth? "

Li Sanniang knew that Chunlan was just getting older, and she herself couldn't look at each other like other girls because of her physical illness. It was the most common and happiest time to find a good husband. days.

Sun Chunlan was not sad that she could not find a son-in-law, she was sad that she had no choice.

This is like a situation in modern society. There is a difference between DINK families who actively choose not to have children and those who have to choose not to have children because of their own illnesses.

The subjective right to choose is the key!

"I can" and "I have to" are two completely different states.

"Chunlan, you are a female doctor at the Obstetrics and Gynecology Center in Chang'an City, a girl who receives a monthly salary from the court. You support yourself on your own. What an amazing thing this is!

Just one thing is enough for you to stand in front of others with your head held high! "

Li Sanniang's words were full of power, and Sun Chunlan slowly raised her head because of these words.

"I know you are holding back grievances in your heart, Chunlan, think about it. You are still young. You still have a good life for decades to come. Do you want to think about this every day for decades to come?

There are so many other things that can be done in this life, and having children is by no means the only important thing.

Just like your grandma said, in the future, if you save money, go to the Salesian Hospital and ask for a little girl to come to your home and raise her well, and experience being a grandma for once. Except that you didn’t give birth to her, you will raise her well. Wouldn't it be nice to have her?

Chunlan, in the days to come, do you still have many choices to make?

Why only think about this unchangeable point? "

After Li Sanniang saw that the confusion on Sun Chunlan's face was much lessened, she looked at her and asked: "Okay, think about what I said when you look back.

Now, I have to ask you, your grandma and grandma’s thoughts are their thoughts, so how do you think about it yourself?

Do you think Zhang Wulang is a good match for you?

Or, do you think Zhang Wulang is not a good match for you?

Otherwise, do you think you need a good match right now? "

Sun Chunlan was stunned by Li Sanniang's question. Her eyes were unfocused and she murmured: "How do I feel?"

After Li Sanniang asked, she did not rush Sun Chunlan, who was obviously lost in her own thoughts. She waited silently.

After a while, maybe a stick of incense, Sun Chunlan came back to her senses.

"Sister-in-law, I don't know, I don't know what I should think?"

Li Sanniang reached out and patted the back of Sun Chunlan's hand twice, and said to her in a gentle voice: "It doesn't matter, if you don't know now, then you don't know.

Go back and think about it for yourself and ask yourself, what do you really want?

What can you accept between the pros and cons? "

"Sister-in-law, how do you think I should choose?" "You child, this is not what I think. This is your life-long event, and what you think is the most important thing.

Don't care if it's me, your grandma or your aunt, our words are just for reference. This is a major event in your life, and you will be the one who will live it in the future. Naturally, you have to be happy and feel good about it. "

"Sister-in-law, please tell me, please tell me, I am very confused right now.

I both think grandma is right and grandma is right, but I really don’t know what to do. "

After Li Sanniang thought about it, she said to Sun Chunlan: "You have to think about this matter yourself and make a choice. No one else can make the decision for you.

However, I am thinking that there must be girls in your situation, and you can ask one of them to find out information about this. "

When Sun Chunlan heard what Li Sanniang said, her eyes suddenly lit up.

"If you are willing to spend a few extra bucks, you can go to a shop that specializes in selling news and buy this kind of news.

Let’s see what other girls who can’t have babies do?

What kind of life do those among them who are married to Lin's son-in-law live?

What are the conditions for finding a son-in-law?

Those who haven't found a son-in-law, are they just living like that? Or did you say you adopted a child? "

"Sister Sanniang is still smart!

Yes, I might as well go see how other people live their lives first, and then think about my own affairs! "

Li Sanniang stood up, "It's just that everyone's situation is different, their thoughts are different, and what they can afford is also different.

Just remember, nothing in this world is perfect, and if there are good things, there must be bad things.

It just depends on how you choose. "

After talking to Sun Chunlan, Li Sanniang looked at Tianshi and knew that it would be too late if she didn't leave.

In this way, Li Sanniang patted Sun Chunlan on the shoulder and encouraged her: "No matter what, you still have to do your job well now.

This is the foundation of your life in this world. Others are not unimportant, but this is the most important. "

Seeing Sun Chunlan nodding heavily, Li Sanniang turned around and walked out.

In the carriage back to the Imperial Medical Office, Song Fuling was very curious about what kind of whisper Sun Chunlan had with Li Sanniang, and why they kept talking for so long?

"You, I can't tell you more about this matter.

From now on, if Chunlan is willing to tell you, you will naturally know. "

"Hehe, master, I'm just curious.

Okay, okay, I won't ask anymore. "

On the other side, a lot of people gathered at the entrance of the alley where Sun Chunlan's house was located, because Zhang Wulang actually brought Zhang Xiaolang and brought four gifts with the matchmaker.

Thank you *with tears* for voting 4 monthly votes. Thank you very much for your support and encouragement!

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What is reliable?

parents? companion? Or children?

No, the most reliable person is yourself!

Even, when you are good enough, you will become the support of your parents, partner and children!