The compound criticizes the beauties who are pure and flirtatious

Gu Beihuai kept looking at Grandma Zhang, trying to make her understand what he meant.

Grandma Zhang saw it, but pretended not to see it. As for Tang Chuxia, she laughed dryly and said: "Grandma Zhang, I am responding to the call of the country and determined to be a woman in the new era. I cannot be bound by etiquette and rules. Women of this era need to have their own ideas!”

She sounded lofty, but she actually had only one intention.

"As a woman of the new era, I like the freedom of marriage. So I choose not to have a wedding to save resources and not to be bound by various procedures. Do you always say it's okay?"

Grandma Zhang smiled very happily and even patted Gu Beihuai on the shoulder: "Xiao Gu, you are an interesting daughter-in-law. She is indeed interesting!"

Tang Chuxia secretly let out a breath, really afraid that a bad answer would make both Gu Beihuai and Grandma Zhang suspicious of her.

At this time, she could clearly see that Gu Beihuai was also relieved. It was estimated that Gu Beihuai had no choice in today's meeting, otherwise he would not have revealed any information to her. With an ordinary person like Grandma Zhang, she could do it in the sky. Ji's supervision behind the scenes shows that he is very insightful into people's hearts.

This kind of insight is not the same as Gu Beihuai's.

Gu Beihuai heard it directly and could do it whether he thought about it or not, but Grandma Zhang analyzed it and summarized it based on many years of experience.

To describe it in one word: people become better with age!
Gu Beihuai obviously also had this concern, so he didn't prompt Tang Chuxia too much.

Grandma Zhang did not ask why Tang Chuxia did not hold a wedding. She seemed to believe her and said to her: "Women in the new era should have independent ideas!"

I don't know if she agrees with her point of view, but one thing is that she will never deny Tang Chuxia's statement.

After all, it is also a kind of advocacy and support in today's era. Women must eventually come out, have independent thoughts, and break free from the shackles of their hearts.

In recent decades, in order to prove that women are no worse than men, women have even taken up the title of holding half of the sky. They work hard and are hardworking. They are business experts on the outside and family experts on the inside.

But women like this are too tired.

But times need to change, and some people always have to make sacrifices.

When Tang Chuxia said these words, she felt ashamed in her heart.

Compared with the consciousness of women in this era, she stood on the shoulders of the times, grew up eating the dividends, and finally expanded her horizons. Now she uses today's ideas to make people recognize her.

Somewhat unethical.

But in Grandma Zhang's view, although Tang Chuxia was trying to argue for not having a wedding, she was indeed engaging in a new behavior.

"If women want to awaken and develop, they must make some sacrifices, but Xiao Tang, you are still too young!"

What is a wedding for women?
Many people say that it is a change of identity, but Grandma Zhang took Tang Chuxia's hand and patiently explained: "A wedding is not a preparation for your identity, it is a ceremony and recognition you give yourself. It is your preparation." Before entering into marriage, I will make an explanation for your youth!"

On this day, everyone hangs around the bride, hoping that everything will be perfect. They just want the bride to be happy, just because after this day, a girl has to bear multiple identity changes, and the responsibilities on her shoulders become heavier. .

"Grandma Zhang, I know what you mean, but for me, my life, my marriage, including my past, don't need any sense of ritual to prove it. If I lose my former self when I get into marriage, then I have to What’s the point of marriage? Is it just to carry on the family line?”

Tang Chuxia glanced at Gu Beihuai and continued without hesitation.

"Women have contributed too much in the development of the times. Many people praise women and great mothers. But is it a choice for us to be women? Praising mothers can make mothers willingly devote their lives to raising children. Generation?" Tang Chuxia knew that what she was saying was a little painful when she stood up and spoke.

But when the conversation reached this point, she wanted to argue.

"I don't want to hold a wedding ceremony. I do have a bit of a rebellious mind in it. I don't want to accept the world's definition of women, and I don't want to change into the role of wife, daughter-in-law, or mother. I just want to be Tang Chuxia and a more selfish woman. I I want to live for myself, and everything else comes second!”

Tang Chuxia saw that Grandma Zhang had stopped talking, and she didn't know if her words would offend her, but she didn't think it was important.

In just a few seconds of silence, she saw Grandma Zhang's frown turn into a smile, and her heart dropped.

"Good boy, I thought everyone was confused by those titles and would forget themselves for those praises!"

Grandma Zhang was very emotional.

"Actually, I also know that praising itself is a good thing, but excessive praising and deifying a character will bring shackles!"

Maybe Grandma Zhang could agree with Tang Chuxia's words, which made Tang Chuxia feel a little confused.

She thought that someone like Grandma Zhang who came from the last century would be disgusted with her idea. After all, sacrifice has always been synonymous with women.

But what Grandma Zhang said now is not the same as what many people want.

As for Gu Beihuai next to him, he was lost in thought.

He was thinking, why did Tang Chuxia say this?

Does she have some opinions about herself?
Maybe he still didn't know enough, but he saw many sides of Tang Chuxia. She seemed to be always full of vitality, but she would instantly switch to a decadent state. She was really brave in the face of difficulties, and she was absolutely unambiguous when enjoying herself.

Laughing and cursing.

These four words fully explain the living conditions of early summer in Tang Dynasty.

But many times, Gu Beihuai couldn't feel Tang Chuxia's heart. She seemed very approachable. Anyone seemed to be able to become friends with her and accept her quickly.

But she is very difficult to approach.

Her heart is always wrapped in a layer of fog that cannot be easily torn apart.

But Tang Chuxia's words today made Gu Beihuai realize that she might have never bothered to integrate with today's thoughts. She always stayed away from everyone's definitions and looked at everything around her indifferently.

An old man and a young man had a heated discussion about women's ideological consciousness, which made Gu Beihuai unable to intervene and could only passively listen to their conversation.

Just when Tang Chuxia was still thinking about discussing the manifestations of women's self-awakening with Grandma Zhang, Grandma Zhang's words brought the conversation between the two people back to life instantly.

"Son, if we want to develop, change, and break away from the shackles of the past, some people must make sacrifices. If we don't sacrifice, who can we count on?" (End of Chapter)