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Chapter 112 The Man Behind the Scenes (24)

Jiang Mo nodded, "Actually, I have been in love many times, but I found that every time I fell in love, what I got was not what I really wanted, because even though I had a girlfriend I liked very much, I knew that I would feel This woman is not as beautiful as I imagined.

It seems that he has many differences, but I didn’t find it before. I think he is perfect, but when I contacted him, I found that he also has many shortcomings, and this kind of shortcoming may be in my many times. There is no way to accept it.

This kind of shortcoming will bring me a kind of hard to accept. In fact, it is difficult to think about many things now. It is said that there are good and bad. Many people used to say that I am a scumbag.

But in fact, I haven't done anything to hurt the other party. I just think that when I find that the person I like is not as perfect as I imagined, I may not be able to accept this sense of gap.

I just have no way to tell the other party, this is my own heart.A kind of desire, because if I say this, other people will not accept it. I just do a very profound thing with my heart. In fact, I always thought that what I got was what I wanted.

But one day I suddenly found that what I got was not necessarily what I wanted, so from that moment on, I would no longer think about those messy things, I knew that it was only temporary, and there was no way to get it It lasts for a long time, because it will disappear sooner or later, why should I care so much?

If I mind, then he will always bother me, but if I don't care, then he is not a trouble for me at all, he is just a temporary thing, why should I think about him?If you believe in this thing, it is possible that when someone attacks you, you will feel very painful.

But if you don’t believe in this thing, then others will attack you, and you will think it is a very ridiculous thing. These things are all instantaneous. If you feel that you have been hurt, then this is what you allow. Because you won't be able to take damage that you don't allow.

When faced with many choices, we always have various worries. We have no way to make these choices decisively. We are always thinking forward and backward, so this state is a very uncertain state. state, and the decisions made in this state often do not bring us too good results.

Of course, I am not saying that these things are necessarily predestined, as long as you want to change from the present, then both the past and the future will change.In fact, when it comes to the past, you don’t have to take it seriously, because you can only feel the present, and the so-called past is just a fantasy in your brain.

It's like you often fantasize about some impossible things from time to time. Although those things seem very ridiculous, because they may be things that you will never experience in your life, but you will always think about something inexplicable from time to time. desire to imagine.

Maybe he is the desire in your heart, so you will fantasize, but in fact this kind of fantasy seems impossible to you.In fact, it is no different from your memory.

Because they all exist only in your imagination, only in your brain, which is just an organ of your body.

You are now using your body and all the organs in your body to experience every experience you want. We have no way to say that these are real, because you will lose your body one day, and even your brain.

You feel that you rely on him to survive in this world, because all the feelings your body brings to you will eventually be transmitted to your brain, and then there will be a kind of, um, yes, this in your mind. That's what I want, or that's how I know what I'm hurting.

Or I have gained something I particularly want. This feeling will keep you in a particularly complicated imagination, because you mistakenly think that everything you think in your brain may be true.

Because you think, those things happened, so they all really exist.But in fact if you don't cancel, then they don't exist at this moment at all.

There is a saying that is very good, life is a movie, you must not press the pause button, and do not press the pause button and then pick up the phone to take pictures, because this time means that you have not experienced your life as a protagonist The screenplay of life.

Instead, you fell directly into this script. It’s like you go to play a game. It’s just an entertainment behavior. What you want is to pass the level in the game.But one day you suddenly find that a certain place in the game is particularly beautiful, and you want to stay in that place forever, and then you forget that you are playing games.

And you also forget that this is just a game, he is a particularly false thing after all.So after you fall into it, you will be very painful, because the moment you enter first, you feel that it is real, but after a while, you will find that this so-called reality does not bring you so much feeling good.

You will blame yourself. In fact, you did not get what you wanted. You were just driven by a desire in your heart and lost your true self.

What you should do at this time is not continue to indulge in the game, be confused by those fantasies, and you should not do those meaningless things. The most important thing you should do is to find yourself, find your true self.

There are other things that could be explained in the same way.For example, if you do something, it may not give you a very good feeling, so later you will imagine this thing again and again, and let yourself keep repeating it, in the midst of that unhappiness.

You will regret and even be ashamed.Because you think that you are not doing well enough, or that there is something bad, but in fact that thing has passed, and it is false, just like you cannot experience your future at this moment.

The guilt of the past only exists in the imagination of your brain, don't be deceived by this organ.If you don't change in your life and follow your own brain's fantasy fate, you will never be able to break through yourself.

Once you can't break through, you will be taken away by this organ, and you may not know who you are in this life, and, like a string, you will do some strange and unknown things. "

(End of this chapter)