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The first question asks whether to insist on getting married at this time if no suitable marriage partner is found within the best childbearing time. "

The affirmative debaters know that if they follow the opponent's thinking to answer, they may face a pressing situation in the follow-up.

So you have to jump out and answer within your own framework.

Only in this way can the matter of 'getting married in a hurry' not appear blind.

This is the conclusion reached by several debaters on the affirmative side after some discussion.

Pros and Cons Three Debates: "First of all, 'hurrying up time' means to hurry up mentally and physically, not necessarily to finish before a certain deadline."

"It's like we go to work at eight and now it's 07:30 and we need to get on the road and avoid being late as much as possible."

"After we hit the road in time, we probably avoided being late."

"However, there is still a certain probability that you will be late. This is not something that can be controlled by humans."

"But the result must be much earlier than not rushing to work."

"The same is true for getting married in a hurry."

"Marrying within the optimal reproductive window results in the healthiest children and faster maternal recovery."

"So we still insist that we need to rush to get married, and it is necessary to hurry."

After this passage was finished, several debaters on the positive side breathed a sigh of relief.

Finally brought the situation back.

The audience who supported the affirmative view also applauded the debater's performance.

"That's right!"

"It's always right to hurry up, don't take your time until you can't find a good partner in the end."

"I heard that it is easy to recover when you are young, so it is better to marry early and give birth as early as possible!"

"But people of the older generation, like my grandma and grandma, lived very long after giving birth to five or six children. The age difference between their children is more than ten years old. The two old people lived to be over 80 years old. There is no harm in being born late. Let's talk about the body."

"That's right, and physical fitness doesn't just depend on age. Those who exercise regularly are in much better health than young people who don't exercise. They also recover quickly."

"You are all thinking about having children, but we single dogs can't even find a partner, and there is no way to force ourselves to contact people who are not interested in us."

"That's why people like you have to hurry even more. Only by getting to know more people can we have a higher probability of finding someone who is willing to contact and communicate!"

"That's right! In fact, I kind of wanted to give up."

"Be positive. A good lover also needs to be fought for by oneself. After all, everyone is willing to come here to listen to this debate. In fact, they are all eager to find a better way of life that suits them. I think you are too. , so you have to be consistent with your heart in action, come on!"

This debate competition not only makes the contestants think, but also makes the audience aware of their real needs.

Although some people talk about getting married and having children, they can relax the requirements for their marriage partners.

But when asked the corresponding question by the opposing debater just now, I found that I was unwilling to give in.

I also worry about a series of unsatisfactory or even catastrophic things that may happen after marrying an unsuitable person.

So I began to remind myself that when making a decision, we must consider many aspects before acting.

There are also some people, although they keep saying that they won't get married if they can't find a suitable partner, it doesn't matter if they don't get married for the rest of their lives.

But deep down in their hearts, there is a desire for a better married life, but they subconsciously think that they may not be able to find such a partner, nor can they reach their ideal level, so they behave very Buddhist.

After listening to the debater's words, I also began to feel the need to follow my heart.

Don't say awkwardly that you don't need it anymore, but try to find it, what if you meet the ideal other half?
The three debates on the stage continued to state their views.

"Then answer the second question of the opposing side - why are we obsessed with getting married and having children, and whether it is just to leave descendants who are related to us by blood."

"I think everyone has their own ideal life."

"Things that can make people persistent must be the things that their hearts desire and need the most."

"For us, being married allows us to have a loving partner and a happy marriage."

"Having a child allows us to feel the process of conceiving life, experience and witness the happiness and joy of a young life growing up from childhood to adulthood."

"If we say that some people's dreams are poetry and distant places, some people's dreams are success and fame, and some people's dreams are disarming and returning to the fields."

"Then our dream is to have a real and ordinary happy life."

"Our longing is the smell of fireworks in the world, which is the most soothing to the hearts of ordinary people."

"Fundamentally speaking, getting married and having children is our understanding of a happy life and our tireless pursuit."

The sound of the square and three debates reverberated throughout the large venue through microphones and multiple speakers.

It is difficult for many people to face their true inner needs and express them calmly.

However, because of its truthfulness and frankness, it directly hit the hearts of countless audiences and aroused strong resonance.

The applause at the scene once again sounded for the debaters on the stage.

The audience's desire for discussion was also stimulated again.

"This speech is very good! It is worthy of being a student of Yanjing Institute of Higher Education."

"I said what everyone was embarrassed to say in life."

"In fact, these words are not only for the person concerned, but probably also express the aspirations of many elders who urge everyone to get married."

A girl with a low ponytail suddenly said such a sentence.

Just sitting next to her was an elderly man who gave an answer.

"Girl, you are right. Middle-aged and elderly people of our age can't open the mouth to say to our children, I hope you live a happy life, so I want you to get married early."

"The clichés we say are also passed down from the previous generation. But they are gone, and even we are gone."

"This is not only a nostalgia for the previous generation, but also a sustenance for the younger generation."

Hearing the elder's emotion, the next second, the girl with the low ponytail blushed for no reason.

She thought about the situation in her own family and what her parents had said to her.

Because the family was urging the marriage so hard, the two sides had many violent quarrels.

She repeatedly refused to continue contact with people she didn't feel comfortable with, making her parents think that she was determined not to get married.

Faced with anxious questions from his parents, he was embarrassed to say that he refused because he wanted to pursue true happiness.

She knew that she had a lot of things to say to her relatives, so it just occurred to her just now that maybe her parents were the same.

Such alexithymia is common among Chinese people.

This is especially true for those with more traditional thinking.

The reason for her refusal to go on a blind date to get married is for her happiness, and her parents' urge to marry her is actually for her happiness.

She suddenly felt that she should try to talk to her parents about her true thoughts in the future.

At this time, there was a sudden commotion nearby.

"I'll go! Jiang Qin also saw our debate contest!! She even replied!!"