Years: Salted fish life since going to the countryside.

Chapter 1542 The Situation of the Han Sisters

There are many reasons why Han Erjie and Han Sanmei are upset about their partners, but there are mainly two reasons.

First, it is a question of personal vision and family conditions.

Although Han's father and mother, like most people of this era, favored boys over girls, they would not mistreat their daughters.

Han Li also cares about the lives of his sisters, so the Han sisters have higher standards in choosing partners than their peers.

In terms of family conditions, the Han family's living conditions used to be quite good, at least they were among the best in the entire Mianhua Hutong.

When Han Li began to give back to his family, the Han family's living standards improved to a higher level.

After Han Li got married and returned to the city to attend university, Qi Xiaomei went to Fengze Garden to learn a craft, the Yun sisters and He Mi became pregnant, and a child was born, the Han family's living standard improved steadily.

Even if Han Li went abroad to study and taught in Hong Kong, everyone in the Han family was working, and everyone's salary and quota were very high, so food was not a problem at all.

With no worries about food ingredients and the help of little sister Qi's cooking skills, the Han family can be said to be ahead of most families when it comes to food.

Clothes? Dress? Dress up?
This aspect is even less of a problem, as the Han family has people who can go abroad.

Moreover, Han Li has always been generous to his family. Every time he comes back from outside, he brings gifts for his family.

Maybe it’s because clothes are the most worry-free and hassle-free gifts at this time.

Even though some of the clothes cannot be worn outside now, Han Li will still buy them. Even if his family can only wear them at home, he thinks it is worth the money to make them happy.

In the Han family's situation, the two sisters look down on people with average conditions.

Second, the situation of marriage in China is rather complicated, and the situation of college students is even more complicated.

(Speaking of this, don't be misled by those movies, TV shows, and entertainment works. We should look at the laws and regulations and draw conclusions based on the actual situation.)
Back to the topic, although there is an age limit for marriage now, not many people actually wait until they reach the required age to get married. The vast majority of people still believe that they are adults at the age of 18.

(In many places, the age of majority is 16.)
Therefore, at this time, even in the old city, getting married before the legal age is still a very common phenomenon.

Those who don't have a job don't care about this at all when they get married. As long as they are 18 years old and have a partner, they can get married.

This is because, in the Marriage Law promulgated in 53, there are no regulations that forcibly deny "common-law marriages".

Since there is nothing denying it in the relevant national regulations, many people believe that this kind of "common-law marriage" is legal, and they or their children can get married when they turn 18.

The two families getting married only need to set up a few tables of wine, invite relatives, good friends, and neighbors to sit down and act as witnesses, and then they are a legal couple. When they reach the legal age, they can get a marriage certificate.

Marriage-related regulations do not deny such things, and of course no unit would be involved in such a thankless task that offends people both inside and outside.

Those who have jobs cannot be so casual. If they want to get married, "common-law marriage" is not feasible.

Because they have to go through the "marriage registration" route, which means they have to reach the legal age to get married, otherwise it will be difficult to pass the unit's review.

Although this is the case, the household registration management is not so strict at this time. Our country is a society that values ​​human relationships.

Those who want to get married but are not old enough, all they need to do is find an acquaintance, give him two packs of cigarettes and at most have a drink, and that will change their age to the eligible age for marriage.

At this point, you should have guessed the second situation that the Han sisters are facing. That is age. The second sister Han was born in March 57, and she is 3 years old this year.

Han Sanmei and Han Li are twins. They were born in September 58 and are 9 years old this year. It can be said that they are now considered older unmarried women.

Men who are still unmarried at this age either have poor family conditions or are bad people.

Some big guys may ask, how bad can the people who can stay in the city be in this era?
This is true in general. People in that era valued having many children, but the reality is that only boys are the backbone of the family.

At that time, people wanted to have as many children as they wanted, and almost all families would not stop until they gave birth to a boy.

In addition, those excellent, beautiful and good-looking girls in the countryside want to move to the city, which leads to the situation that there are more girls than boys in the city.

In addition, during the period when people had to go to the countryside to work as sent-down youths when they reached a certain age, there were regulations that exempted them from the obligation to do so after getting married.

When girls cannot find a job and face the prospect of moving to the countryside, many of them choose to get married.

Therefore, in those years in the city, even men from ordinary families would not lack marriage partners.

Moreover, he would pick and choose to marry those girls who are good-looking, desirable and well-educated.

One thing is that the quality of the girls is quite good, but the most important thing is that the wives married at this time are more reassuring than the wives that some men married or were married to after the class division.

Under such circumstances, those girls would rather go to the countryside to join the production team, and from then on they would live a life facing the loess and back to the sky, with no rest all year round.

Moreover, it is the kind of life where I don’t know when I can return to the city and I can’t see the future.
They won't marry those people either. You can probably imagine how bad their family situation or character is.

Of course there are also widowers whose wives have died, or divorced people.

Considering the family situation of Han Erjie and Han Sanmei, they simply look down on such people and cannot accept the situation of becoming a stepmother to others after marrying them.

To take a step back, even if Han's second sister and third sister took a fancy to this kind of person, or were fooled by sweet words, Han's father, mother, and the Han family would not agree.

Therefore, in the case of Han Erjie and Han Sanmei, the most suitable partner for them is among the recent college graduates who are not married.

However, in this era, there are more male college students than female college students.

However, male college students are now much rarer and more popular than female college students.

Every one of these unmarried male college students is being pursued and introduced to a partner.

Even male college students whose wives have died or who are divorced are still very popular in today's market.

Therefore, the current situation of Han Erjie and Han Sanmei is that they are introduced to many candidates every day, but there are almost no ones they like.

After the two sisters of the Han family finished complaining, Mother Han looked at them and said helplessly.

"Well, let's wait and see. When your brother calls home next time, ask for his opinion."

(End of this chapter)