Juan Wang's mother brought Nizi to a variety show as a control group

Chapter 283 283. Let's leave early

Wen Qixuan was embarrassed by the praise.

The boy lowered his head and said in a low voice, "Oh, grandma, it's not worth much. I'm afraid you might dislike it. What can I say?"

"This child, I'm shy. What I want to say is that gifts can't be measured by money, but mainly by heart. Children don't have that much money. It's not the adults who buy expensive things. In fact, the main thing is the share in their hearts. Thinking about it, even if you bring a leaf when you come back, it means that you think of your family during the play, and it is enough to have this kind of heart." Jiang Xiuhe never felt that the gifts Wen Qixuan brought back were not good.

[The little gift is light and light, but it can represent my heart]

[So, don’t dislike the weird things our children bring back to us, it means they thought of us during the play, maybe when they saw the beautiful scenery, they thought it would be great if their parents could see it too 】

[This is the mentality when I go out to play, I will think about bringing my parents over next time, so that they can feel it too]

[While traveling, Jinchuan in October is simply a fairyland on earth, the sky is blue, the water is clear, and the air is filled with the sweet fragrance of fruits]

【Let me take a look at the photo】

[I envy those who travel in October, the children are in school, and they dare not take a day off]

[Yeah, I have children who are in my way, so I can't go anywhere on school days]

[When can we stop turning around the children]

【Waiting for children and adults】

【When will the child be old enough】

[at least the college entrance examination is over]

[People who have been here tell you that once a child grows up, it is very difficult to do something on his own, because in the eyes of parents, the child will always be a child. After the college entrance examination is over, you will still want to wait for him to graduate from university Well, after graduating from university, he would think that he is not married yet. Wait until he gets married. After getting married, he feels that the child must be taken care of by someone... It's nowhere in sight]

[Yes, so do what you want to do now]

[My best friend passed away yesterday. She was in her thirties and had cancer. I was very sad. Ever since she was dying, I have been thinking about it. What is the purpose of life? 】

【Sorrow】

【The dead are gone, the living are like this】

【Hey】

[We don't know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident, so live the present and do whatever you want]

"I agree with this point of view, but the premise is not to break the law and discipline, not to violate morality, and it is best not to have a bad influence on others, and then do what you think is right, or what makes you happy, because When to wait, there are too many uncertainties in the future.”

【My university tutor passed away last month. She was in her fifties. When I went to see her in the hospital, she told me that women must treat themselves better】

"Wen Qixuan, don't look at these bullet screens, go over there and play for a while." Jiang Xiuhe didn't want his grandson to see this.

"Okay." Wen Qixuan walked away obediently.

"I'm live broadcasting with my mother." Liang Shuang was originally sitting by the wall watching the barrage, but she has the right to speak on the topic at this moment.

【Sister Shuang is here】

【It's so pitiful for a woman to spend her whole life revolving around her children, her husband, and the stove】

[Sisters, do you know?I went to a bar last week. I left my kids with my husband and played with my girlfriends until the wee hours of the morning. It was the first time I went out after 15 years of marriage. I cried while drinking. The taste of freedom made me cry]

[Sisters, you should also go out and have a look, really, no wonder those men always like to play outside and never come back, no matter what, who doesn't like it]

[After getting married, I no longer have myself, especially after having children, I forgot that I used to be free and happy]

[I don’t know why, just looking at everyone’s posts, I feel like crying, and I haven’t gone out to have fun for a long, long time]

"I understand that women have sacrificed a lot for their families. Saying this in the live broadcast room may be maliciously misinterpreted, saying that I am a feminist, but women nowadays have multiple identities, not only to be a good wife, a good mother, and a good wife You have to be able to make money, as long as a man can make money." Jiang Xiuhe expressed his feelings.

"Of course I don't deny that men are tired of making money, but women who are tied down by daily chores are even more tired. I often see jokes like that. Men say that women are at home with children and do housework instead of going to work. Why are they tired?"

[That's what my family said, I don't help you, I don't understand you, and I make sarcastic remarks]

【Let's leave early】

[If it wasn't for the sake of the children, I really wanted to leave. My family has a pair of twins. I bring them myself. Every day is like a war.]

【I understand, a child is already at war】

[I asked my husband to experience my life for a day according to the things I do every day, and he finally understood me after a day]

[The one in my family took care of the baby for a day, and didn't do other things, so it was easy to say]

[Let him follow your daily routine, don't bring a baby]

[Looking at everyone’s messages, I’m really sad. My wish is to have three days of my own affairs, turn off my phone, not be disturbed by anyone, and find a place for myself to do nothing and just be in a daze]

【All I want in my life is riches and freedom】

"To relax occasionally, you can make an appointment with your partner, such as taking one day a week to relax, and do no housework or take care of your children on this day. This is also called work and rest, right?" Liang Shuang suggested.

【Yes, otherwise I would always be so depressed, and my resentment would break through the sky.】

[Women's illness is mostly caused by anger, so proper relaxation can adjust the mood, and it is also to better serve the family, right, just tell the target like this]

[Yes, I just have a backlog for too long, and I usually feel bored in my heart, and then I became depressed, and I kept taking medicine for treatment, and then I tried to let go, and now the depression is much better]

[Depression is also quite scary]

[Relaxation does not mean not going home, once a week gathering with friends can also adjust the mood, just eat together or something]

[Agree, spend more time with friends, you can also confide]

"Actually, we wouldn't disagree if we eat together." Jiang Xiuhe said casually.

[My family disagrees, I have many friends and often date, every time I say why we get together again]

【Hahahaha, you get together too often】

【Isn't this the same as men always entertaining】

【How often do we have frequent gatherings? It won't be every other day】

【Sometimes even every day there are appointments】

"That's indeed too frequent. You socialize more frequently than men." Jiang Xiuhe said with a smile.

[Sister, your husband is really nice to you, did your family come from the opposite side]

[It's true, my husband takes care of the children after get off work, and I'll go out to have fun]

【very nice】

【Such a man is so nice】

[My family is good for my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law does laundry, cooks and takes care of the children, so I have a lot of time, and I am very grateful to her]

[It is also good to have an elderly person to help]

[My mother-in-law used to be a teacher, so I don’t worry about her taking care of the children, and she is so nice that she will take the initiative to let me take care of my own affairs, saying that she is at home]

【Superior mother-in-law】

(End of this chapter)