I go north, you go south

Chapter 140
Xu Huan was stunned for a moment, and then smiled casually: "This...it's true."

"But do you think he did it on purpose? It's just his usual way of picking up girls?" Xu Huan immediately questioned Mo Ziwen's character.

Seeing Xu Huan looking at the ceiling with a tangled face, Nan Zishu already had an idea of ​​Xu Huan's thoughts in his heart.

"Xiao Huan, can you tell now whether it is after these things that you think about Mo Ziwen carefully, and the change in your opinion about him; or whether you listened to a certain sentence or something he did. There was a sudden change in concept?"

A rather serious question from Nan Zishu made Xu Huan a little confused: "Shu Shu, the two questions you mentioned...is there any difference?"

Nan Zishu smiled, obviously guessing that Xu Huan would be puzzled: "Of course there is a difference. Look, if you think carefully about your opinion of Mo Ziwen after a series of things happened, then you Every detail that happened will be put into the judgment standard, so that the judgment after careful consideration will be more comprehensive and calm.

"On the contrary, if you only have an instant change in your opinion of him because of the sudden psychological impact of a certain sentence or behavior of his, it will usually be biased. Because he may deliberately put a certain sentence or behavior Certain behaviors are amplified in order to influence your perception."

Unsurprisingly, these words made Xu Huan silent for a while.

"Shu Shu, if you don't say that, I really haven't found such a difference."

Xu Huan also couldn't help analyzing: "When I was with Zhang Ziying before, he just magnified some small details, which moved me and made others think that he was considerate and considerate.

"So much so that I overlooked his particularly trashy side."

Xu Huan couldn't help curling his lips when he said this.

"But Mo Ziwen is different." Xu Huan's eyes suddenly became serious: "I met him in the worst impression. His sweet words and sugar-coated bullets even had some counterproductive effects on me at first. .

"But it was indeed the chance to get along with him later, which made me think about him in the past two days, and I have some changes in him.

"I don't even know what to say about him now."

Xu Huan sighed, leaned back on the table again, and continued to ask his "psychological mentor" Nan Zishu: "Shu Shu, if the first situation is like what you said, can I really try it with Mo Ziwen?" ?”

Nan Zishu also looked like a mentor, and asked very patiently: "Have you made up your mind?"

Xu Huan glanced at her resentfully: "Of course not."

"Then I don't think there is any need to be so anxious. You can look around as friends with him first."

Nan Zishu explained to Xu Huan unhurriedly: "Although falling in love is not as solemn as getting married, after all, you have to give your true feelings, not to mention that Zhang Ziying had such a big influence on you before, I am sure about this matter. Be more cautious.

"And you don't have to think that being a friend is hanging on him. A lot of relationships start with friends. Sometimes the relationship built from friendship is stronger than love. At that time, two people understand each other, trust each other, and stay together It is also a matter of course.

"The most important thing is, if Mo Ziwen doesn't even want to be friends with you and only asks you to be his girlfriend, then I think his motives need to be investigated."

(End of this chapter)