Deliberate and affectionate

Chapter 235 Grandpa and Grandma
Seeing her hang up, Li Yuan, who was sitting next to her, said, "How is it, brother?"

Mother Li said, "He said they would come back."

Li Yuan said: "I knew it, Mom, do you think I'm right? Isn't this trick very effective?"

When Li's mother wanted to make a call, Li Yuan stopped her and said, "Mom, if you want brother to come back, you can't talk like before, don't forget how you were rejected by brother. "

Li's mother thought about it, and it was indeed the case. In the past, she had missed Li Ming many times, so she would call Li Ming and ask him to come back.

But Li Ming usually refused on the grounds that she was busy with work, and then he started to get angry. After Li Ming knew she was angry, he would hang up the phone, because he didn't want to quarrel with his mother about it.

Besides, my mother has always been like this, no matter how much she said, it would only make her more angry, so after Li Ming replied that she had no time to go back, she disconnected the phone.

Mother Li usually gets angry because of this.Because her son didn't listen to her, she felt like a failure.

That was my previous idea, but now Li's mother knows that if she wants her son to listen to her own words and do everything according to her own ideas, it will ruin her own child.

He is an independent person, how can he be completely obeyed?Everyone has their own ideas, and she shouldn't influence his choice.

It's right to care, and it's right for parents to worry about their children, but it shouldn't be if they want their children to be their own appendages.

Wanting to control everything about the child will only arouse the child's resentment in the end, and the gap between the two parties will become deeper, and the original relationship between the two parties will gradually be exhausted.

Mother Li recently went on a trip, going everywhere, saw many things that she had never seen before, and met many people.

After getting to know them, I will always chat a few words. Some people live a very good life and live happily every day.

Some people want to go out to relax because their lives are so bad.

And those who are the same age as her will definitely chat a few words about their children, and their topics are always inseparable from children.

When Li's mother heard what they said, because she didn't care about the children, or ignored the children's wishes, and forced the children to do things they didn't like, so that their children were not very willing to pay attention to them now, Li's mother felt that very worried.

Will I also become such a person, the child will no longer want to pay attention to me, and I will just stay for a while when I go home in the future, and then leave in a hurry.

Even if he forcibly keeps the child by his side, he doesn't want to say a word to his parents. Even if they stay together, they are as indifferent as strangers. What's the point of that?

What Li's mother expected in her heart was a happy family and a warm picture, not a bad life full of indifference and unwilling to say a word.

The more Li's mother heard, the more she felt that she should change a bit and stop putting pressure on Li Ming.

Although Li Ming never listened to her so-called good arrangements for him, Li's mother said so every time, and even kidnapped him morally, making Li Ming filial to his parents, which is his duty as a son.

If Li Ming listens too much, he will definitely feel annoyed, no wonder he doesn't want to go home anymore, Li's mother feels that she was too long-winded before.

Then I remembered that I was so abnormal because of Tang Yu.

When she was with Tang Yu before, she always said some guiding words in her ear, which made her feel upset and irritable.

Just when she was about to say something, Tang Yu would comfort her and tell her not to be angry.

In fact, she wasn't really angry at all, but when Tang Yu said that, she instantly became angry and felt that what Tang Yu said was right.

Maybe she didn't think there was anything wrong at first, but when Tang Yu said this, she substituted into that scene, and felt that Li Ming's actions were very wrong, and he should be more filial to himself, so she picked up the phone and called Li Ming. sea.

The end result is the same, Li Ming will of course choose to hang up the phone after hearing those meaningless words repeated countless times by Li's mother.

Li's mother once wanted him to go home to accompany his grandparents and other relatives of his natal family, but he already knew the character of his grandparents.

Grandpa and grandma only had their own son and grandson in their hearts, and they never treated him and Li Yuan as their own grandchildren.

Even though they always treat themselves and Li Yuan with an amiable appearance, Li Ming knows exactly what they are thinking.

They even wanted Li Ming to share half of the Li family's property with their grandson. They thought they were so rich anyway, so what if they gave half to their own people?

Faced with their unreasonable demands, Li Ming never responded to them, nor promised them anything else.

When Li Ming refused to help, his grandparents scolded him for being cold-blooded and heartless, and even his own brothers and sisters refused to help. As long as Li Ming is willing to take them with him, they will definitely not be so bad.

Li Ming replied directly and coldly: "I only use useful people, and those who are incapable are not eligible to join the Li family. Also, I only have one younger sister, and I have no obligation to help others."

Li Ming really didn't like the attitude of grandparents who wanted to give everything to their son.

The mother is also their daughter, but they don't care about how the mother is doing. They just see that the mother married a good person and her life has improved, so they should help her younger brother to become better.

Li Ming could tell that his grandparents often felt that his mother did not deserve such a happy life.

They thought that the person with such a good reputation should be their son. A married daughter lived a better life than the son they would rely on in the future, and she was much more beautiful.

They were a little bit dissatisfied in their hearts. If only it were their own son, they would not have to worry about it in the future.

In fact, the Tang family is not bad, but it is far inferior to the Li family.

They hoped that Li's mother would give everything to help her younger brother. Why can she live such a happy life without caring about her younger brother?

As a parent, it is shocking that a daughter should live a better life than a son.

They have become so biased that they can't even see Li's mother living well, thinking that she has robbed her brother of the glory that should have belonged to her.

They think that if only one of them can live happily, why can't it be the younger brother?Obviously, the younger brother is the one who carries on the family line for them. As a married daughter, Li's mother, no matter how good her life is, is not the glory of their Tang family.

　My family, I'm sick, let's start with a new chapter today, my head hurts, I can't bear it anymore (TT)
　　
　
(End of this chapter)