Hu Qiang's Decision

Chapter 333 At least talk about a relationship first
As soon as Chris's mother finished speaking, the scene fell silent for a moment.

Soon, Chris smiled and said to her mother: "Mom, it's nothing, Qiang and I just had a little conflict before, and he was upset, so he said that on purpose. In fact, our relationship has always been very good, right?"

Speaking of this, Chris looked at Hu Qiang and gave him a glare, obviously telling Hu Qiang to come back quickly.

Hu Qiang hesitated, not knowing whether to follow Chris's words or stick to his own opinion.

In fact, what Hu Qiang said just now was just forced by Chris's mother, and then he was impulsive.

Of course, from the bottom of his heart, Hu Qiang really didn't want to continue playing, but he didn't want to irritate Chris's mother either.

Now Chris wants to go back by herself, and Hu Qiang doesn't know how to choose for a while.

"Qiang, talk!" Seeing that Hu Qiang kept frowning and remained silent, Chris urged, "You were just angry, right?"

Speaking of this, Chris came to Hu Qiang's side and whispered to him: "Don't forget about my mother's situation, please help!"

Just when Hu Qiang started to be in trouble, Chris's mother suddenly said: "Okay, Xiaojie, don't make things difficult for him. It's already this time, why are you lying? Do you really think we are confused?"

"Mom!" Chris looked at her mother, "Actually..."

"Okay!" Mother Chrissy waved her hand, then pinched the bridge of her nose with the other hand, "I don't want to hear you lie anymore, tell the truth."

"Yeah." Chris's father also spoke at this time, "Xiaojie, don't insist anymore, tell the truth, I can't stand it anymore."

Speaking of this, Chris' father added:
"Don't worry, your mother is not very angry now, because when we came here, we have already considered the matter of you finding someone to pretend to be your boyfriend, and we have already prepared mentally, but if you continue like this, let alone your mother, I will be angry Already!"

Chris's eyes widened: "What, when you came here, you already considered that I would find someone to pretend to be a boyfriend?"

Chris's father nodded and sighed: "More than that, the boyfriend you told us in the video before, we suspected it was fake, but we were just not sure, that's why we made this trip to Shanghai. "

Chris frowned, and then looked at her mother: "Mom, you just said that when I sent you the group photo last night, you noticed something was wrong. What is wrong? Where did you show the flaw?"

Chris's mother shook her head, and was about to speak when she suddenly remembered something.

I saw Chris's mother turned her head and said to her wife: "Old Yuan, take Xiao Hu out for a stroll, and I will talk to my daughter alone."

Chris's father smiled, and then said to Hu Qiang: "Little Hu, why don't we go out first and find a place to have a cup of tea? By the way, chat?"

"Okay, no problem." Hu Qiang immediately nodded with a smile, "I know the coffee shop here is quite good. It not only has coffee, but also has a lot of good tea. Why don't we go there?"

"I want to do what I want, but I dare not ask for it." Chris's father chuckled, "Then let's go, and leave this place to their mother and daughter."

After speaking, Chris's father left the room with Hu Qiang.

After the two of them left, Chris's mother smiled slightly and said to Chris:
"Daughter, they are all gone, and I will tell you something heartfelt.

In fact, if you have ever been in a relationship in a serious way, you will know where the problem is, but you have not, you have no love experience at all, so you have made some basic mistakes. "

Chris was stunned: "What do you mean?"

Mother Chrissy continued: "It's very simple. When people get along with each other, they must follow a certain social distance. Different relationships have different distances.

This sense of distance is often a subconscious expression. Unless you realize it and perform it deliberately, you will often subconsciously distance yourself from the other party.

For example, between you and ordinary friends, you will subconsciously maintain a social distance, and you will not be too close to each other.

But I am your mother, when I am with you, I will subconsciously get closer, such as subconsciously touching hands and shoulders, which is not a problem.

But the relationship between family is not the closest. The real closest relationship is actually the relationship between lovers.

Just like this photo! "

Speaking of this, Chris's mother took out her mobile phone and called up the photo of her and Hu Qiang that Chris sent yesterday.

"Look." Chris's mother pointed to the photo and said, "Although you two are sitting together, there is still a big gap between your bodies, and you are not close to each other, which shows that the relationship between you two is not too close. .

If you just met, it would be fine to subconsciously distance yourself, but you have known each other for half a year. Normally, this should be the best time for your relationship.

But even so, there is still a subconscious distance between you, which is very problematic.

Of course, just this photo doesn't explain the problem. After all, couples are more restrained, otherwise, there would be no such word as respecting each other as guests.

However, the way you looked when you entered the door today, I knew you two were a fake couple. "

Chris frowned: "Is there anything wrong with the way you entered the door?"

Mother Chrissy smiled faintly: "When you entered the door before, you were in front and he was behind, and when you walked in one after the other, you were half a body away from each other. This is obviously an ordinary social distance, and Not the distance between lovers."

Chris frowned and said, "Is this nothing? Among many couples, when the man meets the woman's parents for the first time, it's normal for the man to be more restrained and restrained, right? You can't still kiss me in front of the parents, right?"

Chris's mother was taken aback for a moment, then shook her head immediately: "This, of course, is not only from this, but also from observing your movements, demeanor and micro-expressions.

From your movements and expressions, I can see that this little Hu's movements are a little stiff and unnatural, while you are a little nervous. "

Speaking of this, Chris's mother sighed: "Xiaojie, you are my daughter, I watched you grow up, I know exactly what subconscious actions you have.

Once you are nervous, you will subconsciously stroke the hair next to your ear.

This time you brought Xiao Hu into the door, and you subconsciously stroked the hair next to your ear, which obviously showed that you were nervous.

It's fine if it's normal nervousness, but you deliberately behaved naturally, and even deliberately grabbed Xiao Hu's hand.

When you grabbed Xiao Hu's hand before, I saw Xiao Hu shrank back subconsciously before being held by you, and his behavior afterwards was also very unnatural.

It's just one thing, so many unnatural things add up, it's very abnormal. "

"So you just deliberately urged the marriage immediately?" Chris asked, "Actually, you want to finally verify and see if we are real?"

"Yes!" Chris's mother smiled, "If you are real, Xiao Hu must be fine, but his face changed at that time, and he tried to evade in various ways, then I knew that you were fake .”

"Amazing!" Chris clapped her hands, "Mom, it's a pity that you don't become a detective."

Chris's mother shook her head: "I don't want to, but you lied to me again and again, and I had to be ill for a long time."

"Mom." Chris stopped pretending this time, walked over directly, sat next to her mother and held her hand, "I didn't mean to lie to you, but, but you keep urging me, urging me , It made me dizzy, so I made such a bad move out of desperation."

Chris's mother sighed, and patted the back of Chris's hand:
"Xiaojie, mom also knows that urging you to get married is not good, and I don't want to keep urging you to get married. I feel annoyed when I see this kind of thing.

But there are some things that are often confused by the authorities and clear by the bystanders, and the words of the old people are often justified.

I know that you young people like to be independent women and single nobles now.

But Xiaojie, those poisonous chicken soups, you can just listen to them, but you must not believe them yourself.

This woman, she still needs to fall in love in a serious way, find a partner in a serious way, get married in a serious way, and then give birth to a baby honestly. This is the real happiness.

You are still young now, and you don't feel the importance of family and relatives.

But when you are as old as us, unable to do anything, and still sick, you will know the importance of family members.

When you are old, our old couple may have left long ago and can no longer take care of you. At that time, who can take care of you by your side?Isn't it your wife and your children?
Don't listen to anything about entering a nursing home, that kind of thing is not reliable at all.

Do you really want to be alone when you grow old, without a wife or children? "

Chris bit her lips and lowered her head: "Mom, to be honest, of course I also want to find a serious boyfriend, have a good relationship, and then get married and have children, but, but for this kind of thing, there must be some fate." ?
I can't feel that I have reached my age, so I just casually pull one over on the street, right?

When looking for a partner, you have to look pleasing to the eye, otherwise, if two people are arguing all day long, it's better to be alone.

So, it's not that I want to be a single nobleman, nor do I want to look for it, it's just that I'm too busy with work, and I don't have time to look for someone everywhere, and even if I look, I can't find a suitable one. "

Chris's mother frowned: "Then what exactly do you want? Is there any standard? If you don't have time, I can help you find it."

Chris sighed: "Actually, I don't have any standards. I'm a man with no bad habits. I can't be shorter than me, and my education can't be much lower than mine. At least I went to college, and then, just treat me well."

"That's all?" Chrissy's mother asked.

"That's all." Chris nodded and said, "By the way, I have to look at it pleasing to the eye. If it makes me uncomfortable, that's not okay."

Chris's mother shook her head: "Oh, your requirements may not seem high, but they are actually very high! Let me tell you, you haven't been in a serious relationship until now, so your requirements are too high."

"Am I still demanding?" Chris pursed her lips.

"I don't think it's high! I didn't ask the other party to have a higher income than me, nor did I ask the other party to have a house, a car, or a bride price.

Anyway, it’s not okay to be shorter than me, I don’t want to take it out and lose face.

Not to mention those with bad habits, such people are absolutely unreliable.

Those who haven't gone to college are also not good. After we get together, we have no common topics, and soon we have nothing to say.

You see, my requirements are actually not high, they are the most basic.

I'm looking for a boyfriend, not a father. If the other party doesn't even have these conditions, then it's better not to.

In short, I will not force myself to be with someone I don't like just to get married. "

Chris's mother nodded, and then smiled slightly: "Xiaojie, have you ever thought that the man you want has already appeared a long time ago, and he is far away and right in front of you!"

Chris frowned: "It has appeared a long time ago? It's far away from the sky and right in front of us? What do you mean?"

But soon, Chris thought of something: "Wait, you don't want to say that you are strong, do you? No, no, no, you already know that he is fake, so why are you still talking about him?"

Chris's mother smiled: "That's right, I'm talking about Xiao Hu, but if you think about it carefully, doesn't Xiao Hu meet your requirements."

Immediately afterwards, Chris's mother counted her fingers and said: "Look, first of all, his height is not bad, at least 1.8 meters, he fits well with you, not shorter than you.

Then he is about the same age as you, a little younger than you, but better.

Bad habits, he must not smoke, because there are no traces of smoking on his hands.

It's not clear about drinking, but judging by his face, whoring and gambling are definitely not related. He doesn't have that kind of hostility, but looks very gentle.

A person's words and deeds cannot deceive others. Xiao Hu's demeanor after entering the door shows that he is a very educated person. Such a person is the most suitable person to be a husband.

Also, didn't you say that he is a department manager, is that true? "

"Yes, he is indeed a department manager." Chris nodded, "But he has just been appointed, not even three months."

"That's okay." Chris's mother smiled, "Although he only became a manager at this age, which is a bit late, it just shows that he is a late bloomer.

Besides, this also shows that he has at least been to college, otherwise your company wouldn't want him, right? "

"That's true." Chris nodded.

Chris's mother said again: "Look, he is of the right height, has no bad habits, and has a suitable education background. He meets all the conditions you want.

Then, you are willing to ask him to pretend to be your boyfriend, which means that you at least have a good impression of him, at least you don't hate him, isn't this the perfect boyfriend candidate?

And I think he is good-looking, gentle and polite, otherwise he will make mistakes, you might as well be friends with him. "

Chris frowned: "Mom, no, he, he can't."

"Why?" Chris's mother frowned and asked, "Daughter, I think he's not bad, so don't be too picky, just try it first."

"It's not this." Chris shook her head, "This is better, him, he has actually been married and has a child."

"What?" Chris's mother was shocked, "No way? It doesn't look like it."

"It's true." Chris said, "I know his situation very well, just listen to me and tell you carefully."

Immediately afterwards, Chris briefly told what she knew about Hu Qiang's family background.

When Kris's mother heard that Hu Qiang was married, had a daughter who just entered elementary school, and his wife had been away for four years, and there was a mother with dementia, she immediately frowned.

"Look." Chris sighed, seeming a little pity.

"Hu Qiang has a relatively good personality and is a good guy, but his ability and performance are not outstanding, and he just dawdles in the company all day long. He is a typical old bastard.

To be honest, he was able to stay in the company for ten years without being fired, and even became a manager. I was quite surprised to hear the news myself.

That's all, the key point is that his family situation is not very good, there are old and young, there are two oil bottles, how can I be with him, isn't this asking for trouble? "

But who knows, Chris's mother squinted her eyes instead: "No, from what you said, I think this Hu Qiang is very suitable."

"Mom, what are you talking about?" Chris asked with a frown.

Mother Chrissy smiled, looked at the door subconsciously, then got up and walked over, opened the door and looked.

After making sure that there was no one outside the door, and no one was pasting the door to eavesdrop, Mother Chrissy went back to the sofa and sat down.

After that, Chris's mother said softly: "Xiaojie, in fact, you only saw the appearance, not the essence. In fact, in my opinion, this Hu Qiang is really a rare commodity!"

"Extraordinary goods?" Chris frowned.

Chris's mother nodded: "First of all, let's talk about working ability.

He was able to stay in your company for ten years without being dismissed, and then he was promoted to be a manager ten years later. This must have his merits. Otherwise, how could it be possible for him to stay for ten years and not leave?

Therefore, don't underestimate him. Hu Qiang should be very skilled. Maybe even if you are fired by the company, he might not be fired. "

"Impossible, absolutely impossible!" Chris shook her head, "It's just a fluke that he wasn't fired.

I am different, I am Lisa's confidant, and Lisa is our big leader here, or the big boss' confidant, no one in the group will fire Lisa, and as long as Lisa does not fail, I will be fine, So it is impossible for the company to fire me, so don't worry! "

Chris's mother shook her head: "Okay, let's talk about the second thing, that is to be specific!

In fact, after his wife left, Hu Qiang would not mess around, take care of the children wholeheartedly, and take care of the mother. Isn't this quality not high enough?
He can treat his children and mother wholeheartedly, and when you are with him in the future, he will also treat you wholeheartedly and will never betray.

Easy to ask for priceless treasures, rare lovers.

In today's society, people are impetuous. There are really not many reliable good men like this. Most of them say that they are good men on the surface, but they are all male thieves and prostitutes behind their backs.

But this Hu Qiang is different. He has passed the test of time and is obviously a really good man.

The word "reliable" is the most important thing for women.

Then there is his family problem, which is what you said, but in my opinion, this is actually nothing. "

After a pause, Chris's mother lowered her voice and said: "First of all, her mother, since her mother has Alzheimer's disease, it seems to be quite serious from what you said, but it's not good to say, in fact, she won't live long. .

So, if you want to fall in love with Hu Qiang, you will have to suffer for a few years, at least three years, and at most five years, and his mother will probably leave, so this is not a big problem for you.

As for his daughter, it was even less of a problem.

The daughter is not a son, so she doesn't have much trouble getting along with her in daily life, and she will marry when she grows up, so she doesn't need to think about the house issue.

Therefore, Hu Qiang's problems all look bad on the surface, but when you think about it carefully, they are actually not bad.

Of course, if you are ten years younger, we won't consider him anymore.

But you will be 40 years old now.

At your age, it's really hard to find.

After all, you have to know that this man is different from a woman. A man with good conditions is about the same age as you. Everyone likes girls in their twenties. How could they find you?
Therefore, don't think about those men who are really well-qualified and have a strong sense of professionalism, the possibility is unlikely.

But this kind of man who seems to have flaws, but in fact has few flaws, and is very handsome, is what you should focus on. "

Speaking of this, Chris's mother sighed: "Xiaojie, time is not forgiving, as someone who has experienced it, I have to remind you a few words.

This woman is fine even before forty, through exercise and makeup, she can maintain it a little bit.

But once the age of 40 is over, the vigor and vigor will drop significantly, and various diseases will start to come uninvited.

At that time, let alone having a baby, you will even feel lack of energy in daily life.

If you are still carrying it alone by then, it will be really hard.

So, now you really should hurry up, hurry up and get married and have children right away while it’s still okay, and it will be really dangerous if you procrastinate, understand? "

"But..." Chris still hesitated.

"Let's try it first." Chris's mother smiled slightly.

"It's okay, you can get in touch with Xiao Hu first, try it, at least start a relationship.

Listen to me, I think Xiao Hu is a good kid, with a good appearance and a good personality.

If you follow him, at least you won't be angry, and he can take good care of you.

As for how much money he has and how little money he has, and the problem of two oil bottles, that's not a problem.

Look beyond the surface to see the essence.

It's not that you really lack money, what you lack is a good man who can love others.

At that time, you can also take care of the outside, and he will take care of the inside.

That's not the case with your dad.

Back then, I was the one who worked hard outside, and it was your father who took care of me at home.

Otherwise, how can we have the current business of our family?
Do you really think that being a teacher can earn so much money?

Didn't I rely on my brain to work and make money from teaching supplementary materials?

Rely on your father?What can he do?
Besides teaching and serving people, what else can he do?

Girl, if you are so capable, you will definitely be promising in the future.

So, you don't need to find any elite career man, what you need most is actually a good backing like your father, understand? "

Chris thought for a while, frowned, and then nodded: "That's right...well, I'll just listen to you, let's try to get in touch with him first."

"That's right!" Mother Chrissy patted her daughter's hand with a beaming smile.

"Listen to me, Mom won't hurt you, Xiao Hu is indeed a good man, sooner or later he will be robbed by many people, you must hurry up!
After all, you are no longer a girl in your twenties, and there is no time for self-willedness! "

(End of this chapter)