Hu Qiang's Decision

Frankly speaking, Hu Qiang had always felt strange about this daughter named Hu Tao.

After all, she was indeed her own child physically, but emotionally there seemed to be something missing.

If I say it reluctantly, it kind of means taking over by force.

But after that long, honest conversation, something in his heart was touched.

For the first time, he truly realized how good, sensible, and caring this cheap daughter was.

After hearing her words, Hu Qiang was not only distressed but also moved.

For the first time in his life, he truly felt like a father.

Because of this, Hu Qiang strengthened his determination to remain single.

Because he didn't want to easily find an incompetent woman to come in and be an incompetent stepmother for Xiao Hutao.

Unless she really treats Xiao Hutao as her own.

But such women are rare, and Hu Qiang has long given up hope.

Anyway, he had never seen a stepmother who was truly kind to other people's children in his previous life.

If you think about it carefully, he now has a biological mother and a biological child. If his income keeps up, his life will not be too comfortable. Why is he so reluctant to find another woman to marry?

But then again.

After Xiao Hutao's impact before, Hu Qiang was already touched in his heart.

Now Ye Zhenzhen once again brought up the words he had used to deceive her.

Hu Qiang suddenly felt.

It seems, probably, really necessary for me to resolve the emotional issues left over from my previous life.

Even if it was for nothing else, even if it was just to make his daughter feel at ease so that his mother and daughter would no longer worry about him, he should do this.

He was too selfish before and always considered himself when doing things.

But he ignored the fact that he was no longer a person.

Nowadays, too many people care about themselves.

He shouldn't continue to talk about his ex-wife running away from home, and continue to mistreat her to gain sympathy.

After all, others don't know, but he himself knows it very well.

He didn't file for divorce or return to being single before. It wasn't because he was afraid that his mother would force him to marry, nor because he didn't want to harm other women, nor because he just wanted to bear it alone without causing trouble to others...

Those reasons are all false and Hu Qiang’s excuses!

The fundamental reason is still laziness!

That's right, to be honest, Hu Qiang has never solved the problem of his ex-wife running away before, but he is just lazy and has no other special reason.

The other reasons are just lies created to cover up his laziness and fear of trouble.

It was like he had hemorrhoids in his previous life, and the hemorrhoids were very serious, but he was always afraid of the trouble, never dared to make up his mind to cut them off completely, and kept finding various reasons not to go to the hospital.

When he finally suffered from hemorrhoids again and finally decided to have them removed, he ended up traveling through time.

Although the things are different, the principle is the same.

To put it bluntly, if you don't go for divorce, there is no inside story. It's just Hu Qiang's lazy and selfish nature that is at work.

Then I thought about why he accomplished nothing in his previous life.

Is it just bad luck and fate?

Probably not.

After all, strictly speaking, his starting point in his previous life was no worse than most people.

At least his childhood was intact, and his parents died after he grew up.

Even a little cold-blooded, in a sense, the death of his parents in his previous life was actually more beneficial to him.

But even so, he never looked like a good person in his previous life. He always gave up halfway in everything he did and never succeeded in anything.

If he hadn't inherited his parents' inheritance from his previous life, he wouldn't be cool at all.

Although there were indeed many objective reasons for his failure in his previous life.

But the reasons are a little more subjective.

In the final analysis, he was very average in his previous life, and he still has the characteristics that many losers have in common.

Such as laziness, fear of trouble, thinking too much and doing too little.

The previous life was a total failure, so should we continue in this life?
I have already failed my parents' expectations in my previous life. Do I have to fail the expectations of other people who care about me in this life?
If I really continue like this, I am afraid that even with the blessing of the system, the future will not be very good.

Even if he can fool everyone, he can't fool his own heart.

These thoughts all appeared in an instant and were not under Hu Qiang's control at all.

It's like clicking on the screen to fast forward 32 times.

It felt as if he had had these thoughts for a long time, but they had been suppressed in the corner of his mind, never found, and lived in confusion.

Now, after being stimulated by her daughter, Ye Zhenzhen mentioned it again.

It was as if the seal had been unlocked, allowing his suppressed thoughts to rush out uncontrollably.

That's right, at this moment, Hu Qiang made a decision.

He decided to take advantage of the time he had during this vacation to find a lawyer to help him file for divorce.

At least let’s get back to being single first.

Being single again, saying goodbye to the past completely, can also reassure his daughter, mother, and everyone else who cares about him.

Living in a sympathetic manner may give you a small advantage.

But in fact, we really lost our future!

Some things should be resolved.It's not good for anyone to keep putting it off like this.

After he figured it out, Hu Qiang suddenly laughed.

Then he spoke first, breaking the silence caused by Ye Zhenzhen's words just now.

"Thank you, thank you, Zhen Zhen!" Hu Qiang said with a smile.

"Uh? Huh?" Ye Zhenzhen, who was looking at her parents seriously, was stunned. She obviously didn't expect Hu Qiang to say that.

"Thank me for what?" Ye Zhenzhen asked subconsciously.

Hu Qiang just smiled and shook his head, and then continued to smile: "Thank you, I have a complete enlightenment."

"Ah?" Ye Zhenzhen was confused, "What kind of epiphany?"

Hu Qiang did not explain. Instead, he took a long breath as if he had put down his burden, and then looked at Father Ye and Mother Ye with a gentle expression.

"Uncle and aunt, I'll stop here regarding my matters. After all, you two are both smart people. What is the truth? In fact, by now, I believe you all already know the truth."

"However, although my relationship with Zhen Zhen is fake, our friendship is real."

"So as Zhen Zhen's good friend and neighbor, I also have something I want to tell you sincerely. I wonder if you are willing to listen."

Father Ye sighed: "Just say it, you don't have to be so polite."

Mother Ye also looked at Hu Qiang and nodded without saying anything, but her meaning was the same as that of Father Ye.

Hu Qiang smiled: "Uncle and aunt, what I want to say is that I can understand and sympathize with your concern for Zhen Zhen.

From your standpoint, I think you did nothing wrong.

After all, I am also a father, and I also have a daughter, so I put myself in my shoes and think about it. If my daughter grows up and does not fall in love or get married in her 30s, I might get angry too. "

After smiling slightly and waving to Ye Zhenzhen, who had upturned eyebrows, Hu Qiang continued to say to Father Ye and Mother Ye:

“But, uncle and aunt, times have changed.

These days are no longer the days in the past when parents took care of everything.

It is no longer an era when children must obey their parents.

Now, we can't just do things based on our own preferences and ideas, we need to listen more to our children's real thoughts, and then seek common ground while reserving differences to find a solution that satisfies everyone. "

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang sighed and said: "Before, I was just like you, always thinking that I was the father and that I knew my daughter very well, but my daughter was very young and not sensible at all.

So I always make my own decisions without having a serious conversation with my daughter or asking her about her true intentions.

For example, in order to let my daughter win at the starting line, I signed her up for many classes without asking her.

Later, I listened to other people's words and thought that my daughter hated studying and didn't like the study class, so I wanted to cancel it for her.

Fortunately, because of one incident, I went to have a calm chat with my daughter for the first time, and then I understood her real demands and wishes, and also the real reason why she was naughty and troublesome in the past.

It turns out that my daughter doesn’t really hate attending tutoring classes and study classes. She is just afraid that attending classes will cost me a lot of money, that my burden will be too heavy, and she doesn’t want me to work too hard. "

After shaking his head with a wry smile, Hu Qiang continued to look at Father Ye and Mother Ye and said: "Then, my wife, um, ex-wife ran away from home and has not returned yet.

I thought the child always wanted to wait for his mother to come back, so he never went for divorce.

But in fact, my child has known the truth for a long time and has long wanted me to get out of the past and start a new life.

It was then that I realized that it was me who had been unable to get out.

It’s not that I’m still blaming myself, and I’m not really waiting for my wife to come back.

I'm just afraid of trouble. I'm used to living like this and can't get out of my comfort zone.

Thanks to my daughter’s words and Zhen Zhen’s reminder just now, I was enlightened and awakened.

I...forget it, don't talk about me, that's not the point. "

After shaking his head again, Hu Qiang took a deep breath and said seriously to Father Ye: "Uncle, what I mean is very simple.

Zhen Zhen is very good, very good.

And not only does she have a super high IQ, but her emotional intelligence in dealing with people is also very high, at least much higher than mine.

In other words, she is not a newbie in life, but a person who understands life very well.

For such a person who is excellent in all aspects, I think she must have her own life plan.

Therefore, as a parent, if you have a daughter who is excellent in all aspects and sees everything clearly.

Then should we let go as much as possible, try not to influence her, influence her, and let this daughter, who is excellent in all aspects, follow the path she planned.

Maybe in your eyes, Zhenzhen's views on love and marriage are childish, and you don't understand them either.

But in fact, she may have already known what kind of love and marriage she wants, and she has been silently looking for the person she wants.

On the contrary, if you insist on interfering, let Zhen Zhen find someone she doesn't love to deal with her against her will.

This kind of love and marriage will definitely make Zhen Zhen feel unhappy. Such a relationship will definitely not last long in the future. In the end, it will only cause harm to Zhen Zhen.

So, I understand your feelings, but I don't agree with your actions.

That's all for others.

But Zhen Zhen is different.

She is a very independent and thoughtful person who knows what she wants and what she wants to do.

Even if you are her parents, you may not be more independent or smarter than her.

Therefore, as a friend of Zhenzhen, I am also a father of a daughter.

I solemnly hope that you can let go completely, stop interfering with her, and let Zhen Zhen freely choose her path in life.

This is the best choice for both Zhenzhen and you.

After I have finished speaking, the key to where to go next depends on your uncle and aunt. "(End of chapter)