After the groom escaped from marriage, she married Jiangmen

Chapter 128
Few people didn't notice Zheng Sitian's emotion, but they had deep admiration for Zheng Siyan.

Zheng Siyan talked about her own situation and confided for a while, but she didn't want to talk about her own problems, so she talked about other things.It has been more than seven years since Zheng Siyan left the capital with her husband's family. When she walked into the capital again, she felt that many people and things were different. Go ahead to the place where the guests are received.

"Sister-in-law, I have something to say to you." Walking to the reception area in front of the guests, several people did not sit together again. Lu Hanzhi greeted the acquaintance's female relatives, and was about to look for Mrs. Zheng when he was caught Zheng Sitian pulled the corner of her clothes.

Lu Hanzhi and Zheng Sitian just met each other, and they are relatives. Lu Hanzhi also had a good impression of Zheng Sitian, a cousin. Hearing that she had something to say to him, he sat down with her and said, "What's wrong with Cousin Sweet?" thing?"

Zheng Sitian pursed her lips, as if hesitating for a moment, she still said: "Cousin-in-law, just after getting married, my cousin left you to go to the border, are you angry with my cousin?"

When Cheng Junze was ordered by the emperor to go to war, both the Cheng family and the Lu family's elders felt that she had been wronged. While comforting her, they told her to wait for Cheng Junze to come back and ask Cheng Junze to make amends to her.Lu Hanzhi is not an ignorant person. Cheng Junze's order to go to war is one of the emperor's orders, and the other is the responsibility of a general. Since Lu Hanzhi agreed to marry him, he will not be angry because of this. At that time, he was more worried about Cheng Junze's safety.

Hearing Zheng Sitian's question, Lu Hanzhi shook his head and said, "My husband's expedition is under the emperor's order and his responsibility as a general. How can I blame him? Besides, although he kept me in the capital, he treated me with sincere love, and my grandmother and mother also loved me." Cherish and take care of me, this is something no one can ask for."

"However, my cousin just married into the Cheng family. The Cheng family is not bad, and it's a strange place for my cousin. Doesn't my cousin feel lonely and afraid?" Zheng Sitian looked at Lu Han.

Lu Hanzhi understood a little bit, the little girl probably had some pre-marital anxiety.In the previous life, they fell in love freely, and when they got along with each other, they slowly talked about marriage, and some people would feel anxious. What's more, at this time, the parents are in charge of the marriage, and the unmarried couples rarely see each other before they get married.Although the parents of the girl's family will try their best to choose a reliable husband-in-law for their daughter, for a fifteen or sixteen-year-old girl, going to a strange place and getting along with a group of almost strangers is somewhat a little bit Nervous and scared.

Zheng Sitian actually knew that her fiancé studied with her grandfather and grew up under the eyes of Zheng's family. She believed that when they got married in the future, the other party would not bully her.But she also heard from the little sisters around her that so-and-so got married, was bullied by her husband's family, and embarrassed by her mother-in-law. Seeing that the wedding date is not far away, the little girl is inevitably worried and afraid, and sometimes even thinks about not getting married.

"I'm a little bit afraid, but I thought, I'm married, and the Cheng family is my family. How can my family hurt me? If you think about it this way, you won't be afraid." Lu Hanzhi doesn't know how to comfort this stage For fear of teaching other people's children wrongly, she thought carefully before answering, "Besides, I thought about it at the time. Although I married into the Cheng family, my grandparents, my parents, and my brothers all In the capital, whenever I am wronged, they will definitely help me out, so I don’t have to be afraid when I think about it.”

On the one hand, I want to comfort Zheng Sitian and tell her not to think about it and scare herself. On the other hand, I also need to worry that Zheng Sitian will listen to her comfort and don't trust her future husband's family wholeheartedly. These words.

"Yes, grandparents, grandparents, and parents must be towards me." Although it is not possible to worry about her husband's family treating her badly before she is married, she obviously loves her parents, compared to her future husband who has not really gotten along with her. Home can give her a sense of security.

Seeing her like this, Lu Hanzhi knew that she felt more at ease, and then persuaded her: "That is the husband's family that my grandfather chose for you. No matter what, it is impossible to be a wicked person. My cousin is smart and beautiful. We will get along well in the future." Why don't they like their cousin? But people have to get along with each other. At the beginning, they will be somewhat unfamiliar. After getting along a lot, they will naturally have a relationship. Even if there is a little friction between relatives, they will also get along Inclusive."

"Will my cousin and aunt also have one?" Zheng Sitian saw Lu Hanzhi for the first time, but she felt that this cousin met all the requirements of a lady. , and my aunt is also gentle and generous, she thinks there will be no conflicts between the two!

"How can anyone fully meet other people's expectations!" Lu Han saw Zheng Sitian's thoughts at a glance, "Everyone has a different personality, different ideas, and different ways of dealing with things. Big and small conflicts. My mother treats me very well, but when dealing with things, she will have different ideas to some extent, but as long as it is for the good of the family, let’s talk about it and choose the most suitable method.”

"Will the aunt be angry?" Zheng Sitian also thought about what would happen to her when she married in the future, and how to deal with it. Hearing Lu Hanzhi's talk about possible disagreements with her mother-in-law, she inevitably brought herself into it. So I always feel embarrassed, saying that I should be filial to my parents-in-law, but if I have to listen to the other party, I will be wronged, if I don't listen, I am afraid of offending the elders.

"Of course not!" At this time, there is a saying that a daughter-in-law has survived for many years to become a mother-in-law. In this era of filial piety, a daughter-in-law is at a disadvantage in front of her mother-in-law. There are also those who are sensible and cherish their daughter-in-law.

What's more, a wealthy family does not marry a daughter-in-law for the purpose of marrying a submissive little girl. In addition to taking care of her husband and having children, the daughter-in-law also has to manage the inner courtyard and raise the children.It is said that marrying a good daughter-in-law for three generations will not worry about it, but anyone with a vision wants to marry someone who is assertive and capable of taking care of things, not someone who is obedient and dare not say anything.

Hearing what Lu Hanzhi said, Zheng Sitian felt more at ease. She also has a sister-in-law, but if she asked, they probably wouldn't tell the truth. mother to go.Lu Hanzhi was different. They were married for less than a year, and they were relatives but did not live under the same roof. Obviously, they could tell the truth to her. Sure enough, this cousin was not hiding anything. She could tell that Lu Hanzhi was intentionally enlighten her.

(End of this chapter)