After the groom escaped from marriage, she married Jiangmen

Where did Mrs. Yu want to ask Mrs. Jiang? Originally, she was a little unconfident about this relative, so she tried to mention it to Mrs. Jiang, just to test it out and see if her in-laws would object.Seeing Jiang's attitude, Yu's heart was not happy, and his heart was half cold.

There is no rule in the Lu family that marriages must be married to the Gongqing family, but judging from the marriage of the eldest son and daughter, Lu Qingzhi and Lu Hanzhi initially decided to be the children of Lu Yun's classmate, and they could be regarded as the right family. The marriage of the Li family failed, but Lu Hanzhi The last one to marry was Ning Guogong's eldest son. Not to mention his noble background, he himself was young and promising.Not to mention when we arrived at Lu Minzhi, the Chen family was a scholarly family, and they were married to King Jing's mansion. The girls in his family had just reached the age of Ji, so there were quite a few people who came to propose marriage.

Seeing that the women of the long house marry well, Mrs. Yu is not without envy, but more often she wants to pull her natal family back.Especially after the accident in the He family, Yu only felt that the world is impermanent, even if the family status is high, the ups and downs can happen overnight, so it is better to get married with the Yu family. She is a biological niece, so when she gets married, she will naturally have one heart with her. When Lu Hengzhi wins the exam and becomes an official, he can pull out his mother's family for a while.

Mrs. Jiang understood Yu's thoughts. Seeing her determined appearance, she no longer wanted to persuade her. Seeing her disappointed and resentful appearance, she just thought it was better not to talk about this matter.After all, the Lu family had a happy event today, and Jiang Shi didn't want to have any more quarrels with his sister-in-law on such a good day, so he sighed and said: "Today is a good day for Ting girl to get married, let's talk about other things in the future!"

Yu shrugged, forced a smile, and said, "That's it, I'll go get busy first."

Mrs. Yu led the people out, Mrs. Jiang looked down at the grandson in her arms, teased the child, and then said to Lu Hanzhi: "Your second uncle and aunt are in charge of your third brother's affairs. You didn't ask much in the past. Why? Did you make your second aunt dissatisfied today?"

Lu Hanzhi brought up what happened yesterday, and said, "Didn't I think that the third brother is my own cousin, and he is more important than Yu's cousin!"

Hearing what Lu Hanzhi said, Jiang shook her head and said, "You are a good girl, you put your mind into this. It's a shame that your second aunt still treats her wholeheartedly as a daughter-in-law."

When Lu Qingzhi was discussing marriage, the Jiang family also thought about getting closer, but the Jiang family didn't have any girls of the right age, so they gave up.So in Jiang's view, it's not a problem to marry each other, what's problematic is Yu's attitude, and judging from this matter, there are some problems with Yu Suying's conduct.

From Jiang's point of view, Yu Suying is also 14 years old. Girls at this age are already discussing marriage, and there is nothing wrong with some of her own thoughts, as long as she doesn't cross the rules.But it's fine if Yu Suying has Yu's help in matching up, and she uses such means in private to try to confirm the relationship, and she loses the restraint and self-respect that a girl's family should have. Wife, use this kind of method that is not on the table.

"Forget it, what your second aunt has made up her mind on will not be changed easily. After all, your third brother is her own son, and we can't interfere in such matters." Jiang shook her head. Although she was an aunt, Lu Hengzhi's parents both Now, it's not her turn to make the decision for Lu Hengzhi.

"Then there's no other way?" Lu Hanzhi felt that she couldn't persuade people in this era to give up the idea of ​​kissing and getting closer, but whether the people around her can stop it or try to stop it is a matter of a lifetime.

"If your third younger brother has made up his mind, he can explain it to your grandparents, and he can't change it," Jiang replied. After all, getting married is a good thing for two surnames. Although it is the parents who make the decisions, you should ask your own children what they want. After all, no one wants to make a resentful couple, "It's just that we can't say anything. The situation of the Yu family is there. Although we don't mean that, if the truth spreads, others will say that our family dislikes the poor and loves the rich!"

If it's his own child, as long as the child is good, he will bear the reputation of disliking the poor and loving the rich. For someone as stubborn and ungrateful as Mrs. Yu, Mrs. Jiang is not willing to get into trouble for nothing.

Lu Hanzhi nodded. This is the reason. Although the parents decide the marriage of the children of the Lu family, they will also ask the children what they want. If they are really unhappy, they will not force them. It's a lifelong marriage.But in the general environment at this time, the Lu family will not allow free love and marriage. If something goes wrong, it will not only affect her for the rest of her life, but also affect the entire Lu family.So if Lu Hengzhi didn't take the initiative to express his dissatisfaction, then the elders would acquiesce that he was not that unhappy, and of course they would not object to his mother's betrothal to him.

"Okay, your third brother is not a child anymore, why should you, a sister, worry about his affairs?" Seeing Lu Hanzhi's thoughtful look, Mrs. Jiang reminded her not to intervene too much. If this kind of thing is good, everyone will be happy, if it is not good, it will be a bit annoying.

"I know," Lu Hanzhi nodded. When Lu Hengzhi asks for help, she will help, but if he really wants to interfere in the marriage, there are many things to consider. "On the contrary, my second aunt came to my mother early in the morning just to ask this ? She has already decided, and she still asks her mother what to do?"

"It's not for this purpose. Your second aunt is making arrangements for Ting girl's marriage. She can't make up her mind in some places, so come and ask me." The aunt is decent, but Jiang has to grasp the overall situation.Besides, although Mrs. Yu has arranged for Lu Yazhi's marriage, from Mrs. Yu's point of view, the two are different.

Lu Yazhi is Yu's own daughter, and she will do her best to take care of Lu Yazhi, so that Lu Yazhi can get married in a good manner. On the other hand, Lu Yazhi is her own daughter, even if there are any shortcomings, Lu Yazhi will not marry her. Blame Yu.But Lu Ting is different. As a concubine, Lu Ting's marriage cannot surpass Lu Yazhi and Lu Hanzhi, but what Yu Shi cares more about is that this marriage reflects her ability and tolerance as a aunt. , Let people say that she is not good.

"I see that everything has been arranged properly. Shouldn't we just follow the procedure today?" Lu Hanzhi learned management from Mrs. Jiang before she got married, and learned a lot from Mrs. Zheng after she got married, but she is a junior, more Follow along, I haven't managed such a big thing by myself.

"Everything that can be arranged has been arranged, but when it comes to things, we have to adapt to the situation." Jiang did not joke about Lu Hanzhi, who didn't come here at this time, it seems easy at first, but it is inevitable to encounter various problems when you really get started, "You Ah, I have to learn from your mother-in-law!"