After the groom escaped from marriage, she married Jiangmen

"You, please don't worry so much." Madam Lu shook her head, "Minzhi likes to go out because he wants to see more and hear more, not because he doesn't care about friendship and is unsteady. Think about it, if he goes elsewhere, What are you doing? Are you not sending local products back so that your relatives can see and taste them?"

The Lu family is not an aristocratic family and does not have hereditary titles. They care more about cultivating their children to become talents.The prosperity of the family depends on the male to lead the family, so the Lu family is more pampering towards their daughters, but has always been strict with their men.Of the three grandsons in this generation, Lu Qingzhi is calm and steady, and is not bad at reading. As the eldest grandson, not to mention how outstanding he is, he will have no problem leading the Lu family to make steady progress in the future.Lu Hengzhi has a straightforward personality. Although he behaves a bit recklessly, he is still young after all. He will naturally change his attitude as he gets more experience and becomes more sensible in the future.

But when it comes to being smart and sharp, it must be Lu Minzhi who ranks second.He has been smarter than his elder brother and cousin since he was a child. When he was young, he was a little playful and active, but gradually he became more sensible. Although he liked to travel around, he did not delay studying to test for fame.If Lu Minzhi just wanted to see the sights of various places and travel around with the money given by his family, Mrs. Lu would also have to worry about Lu Minzhi's future. But Lu Minzhi can make money by himself and still have some savings, and there is no need to play wildly when he goes out. I still have my parents and family in mind, so this is not a big problem.

"You are a blind mother." Mrs. Lu smiled and shook her head, "Minzhi is a good and responsible boy. Since he agreed to marry a wife, he knows the responsibility of marrying a wife. Just wait and see. Dear, you won’t think about running out all day long.”

Mrs. Jiang was not sure what her son was thinking, but thinking that her mother-in-law was always right about people, she nodded and said: "How can I compare to mother? Isn't it a habit to worry about my children?"

"Who says it's not?" Ms. Yu answered from the side. It was just the Chinese New Year and there wasn't much to do at home. She just sat talking to her mother-in-law and eldest sister-in-law. On the other hand, Lu Qingzhi's wife Han, who had to worry about family affairs and two children, greeted Lu Hanzhi. After a few words, he got busy.Lu Ting was married, and Lu Yan said that she was gone, but Mrs. Yu was worried about her siblings Lu Yazhi and Lu Hengzhi, and she couldn't calm down for a moment. "Ya Zhen sent a letter before, saying that the children have grown up, but it's a pity that now The road is far away and it’s hard to even meet him.”

"How are you, eldest sister?" Since something happened to He's family, the whole family moved back to their hometown, and the only exchanges with the capital were letters and rituals.Sending letters is not easy. Lu Hanzhi has also written to Lu Yazhi, but the distance is far and he has not received a reply from her yet.However, the Lu family is Lu Yazhi's natal family, and it is not easy to communicate with others. The Lu family can always receive her letters.

"It's far away from the capital, so naturally it's not as prosperous as the capital. Fortunately, a small place also has its advantages. As Yazhi said, the He family has a lot of fertile land. Mr. He and his son have set up a private school there. The whole family My life is quite stable." Mrs. Yu didn't know whether she should feel sorry for her daughter or be grateful that the He family could return home safely. Lu Yazhi spoke of the good things about the life there, but did not talk about the remoteness there. , the whole family has lost their fame, and it is no longer possible to be an official. After all, it is a pity.

"It's the best outcome if the whole family can escape unscathed." Mrs. Lu has experienced a lot and has seen a lot. It is common for a family to have its ups and downs, and it was not unreasonable that the whole family was destroyed in that incident. , the He family can save their family. Although they can no longer be officials, people are always important.What's more, although the official positions and honors of the He family and his son were taken away, it did not harm the descendants. When the children grow up and obtain the honors in the future, they will naturally get better.

"Mother is right," Yazhi said. Although life became more difficult after returning to his hometown, life became more comfortable. The daughter-in-law thought about it. The son-in-law was not sensible before, and Yazhi suffered a lot of grievances. After that incident , the only one who accompanies her son-in-law is Yazhi. Now Yazhi is helping her mother-in-law take care of the house, which is a blessing in disguise." Mrs. Yu sighed and said this, but she still felt that her daughter's life was bitter. It was bitter before, but now It's a hard life.

Mrs. Lu and Mrs. Lu didn't comment on this. With so many things happening to the He family, if Lu Yazhi still can't stand up, all the hardships and joys he has now will only be temporary. It should be noted that there is a saying: It is easy to change the country, but it is hard to change the nature.

However, Mrs. Yu talked about her daughter's situation and then mentioned her son.Mrs. Yu had always wanted to betroth her natal niece to Lu Hengzhi, and had previously tacitly approved of Yu Suying's tricks on Lu Hengzhi. As Lu Hanzhi, who had watched the incident, Lu Hanzhi really couldn't understand that Mrs. Yu had to marry a person with not so good character. What kind of mentality does it have to give a niece to her own son?

Regarding this matter, Mrs. Lu's attitude was similar to what Lu Hanzhi thought.Mrs. Lu has no idea of ​​asking her grandchildren to cling to the powerful. She is clean and has no problem with her character. The children themselves have no objections, so the marriage can be concluded.Even though the Yu family has some shortcomings compared to the Lu family, as long as the woman has good conduct and her grandson doesn't object, she is willing to marry her.But Yu Suying's performance in this matter was really bad, and Lu Hengzhi himself was very resistant, so Mrs. Lu never let go.

Mrs. Yu brought up this matter today because she wanted to take advantage of the Chinese New Year and Lu Hanzhi and his wife to return to her parents' home. She thought that while Mrs. Lu was happy, she might agree to it, so she mentioned the matter again, "Hengzhi's age is also Not too young, not to mention that Suying is a girl, so we can’t delay her like this. Although Hengzhi hasn’t obtained any honors yet, but he wants to start a family, wouldn’t it be a good idea to start a family first and then start a career!”

Lu Hanzhi only felt that Lu Yazhi could not grasp the key points and was really following the Yu family in that he could not understand everything clearly.If the Yu family hadn't been confused and wanted to give their niece to Lu Hengzhi, how could the Yu family have kept Yu Suying without an engagement until now?In fact, the attitude of the Lu family has always been clear. If Yu didn't insist on it, there would be no need to mention it again.

"You are Hengzhi's mother. If you insist on getting him engaged, none of us can stop it." Mrs. Lu looked at Mrs. Yu. At first, the second son had no ability and no success. When they married him, they considered Who knows that Mrs. Yu is actually calm-minded and good-tempered, but she is also extremely stubborn when it comes to things she has set her sights on, "But you always have to consider Hengzhi's feelings. If you don't want Hengzhi to blame you in the future, this matter Just think about it carefully."

If Mrs. Lu objected fiercely, Mrs. Yu had already thought of a lot of words to respond, but after hearing Mrs. Lu's sincere words, she didn't know how to respond for a moment, but she was a little unconvinced in her heart, thinking about her. What is so bad about my niece that she deserves the whole family’s disdain!