Forty has a hurdle

Chapter 150 Not Prepared
Towards evening, Zhao Hongming came back.

At this moment, Zhao Huan was cooking in the kitchen with Qin Yali.

Zhao Huan kept stirring the pot with a spatula in his hand, while Qin Yali stood aside and gave instructions.

Zhao Hongming glanced at the kitchen in surprise, then entered the bedroom.

He took out a mobile phone from his pocket, it was Zhao Huan's mobile phone whose screen was broken by him earlier.

Yes, he bowed his head to his son.

When he was in the bedroom with his wife, he thought a lot.

Especially when he thought of the story about the charcoal-burning girl that the upstairs neighbor once told him.

Zhao Hongming never thought that something similar would happen to him.

It never occurred to me that the distance between myself and my child is only a few meters.

In the bedroom, his wife was crying while holding him, Zhao Hongming's legs were trembling, and he was terrified.

It took a long time before the couple recovered from their fear.

People without children may never experience this state.

Whether it is on the Internet or in books, there is a saying that a woman is weak by nature, but a mother is strong.

There was once a mother who lifted the car that was holding her child up and rescued the child by herself.

Zhao Hongming didn't know if this was an exaggeration, but he knew that if something happened to Zhao Huan today, he would fall into a dark abyss for the rest of his life and never come out.

Those who have not experienced the same situation may never realize how cruel it is when you see your child stepping into desperation.

Zhao Hongming didn't want to go through the feeling of tearing and despair in his heart again.

"Old Zhao, I want to call Zhao Huan's English teacher."

After dinner, Zhao Huan took the basketball to play on the court in the community.

The couple hid aside and observed for a long time, and finally confirmed that Zhao Huan seemed to be fine, so they walked around the trails in the community and started to walk.

"Huh? Why?"

Zhao Hongming looked at his wife with some puzzlement.

Is the wife planning to tell Mr. Chen what Zhao Huan did yesterday?

However, this is not something glorious. If Teacher Chen accidentally leaked the word, the impact on Zhao Huan would be immeasurable.

And, judging from now, Zhao Huan seems to have regained his composure.

According to Zhao Hongming's thinking, the couple observed slowly, and then deliberately guided Zhao Huan, that should be able to bring Zhao Huan back to calm again.

"Well, Huanhuan has a very good impression of Mr. Chen, and I also heard from Zhao Huan that Mr. Chen also likes playing basketball. Usually in school, Mr. Chen would play with the students!

She and the students can blend together. "

Qin Yali stopped and turned her head to look at her husband, "Didn't you notice? Huanhuan is very resistant to what Huanhuan is preaching to the two of us now. We must find someone who can convince him to do ideological work .

I think Mr. Chen is a very suitable candidate. "

"That's fine, but you have to make it clear to Mr. Chen that this matter about Huanhuan must be kept secret." Zhao Hongming hesitated for a while, but agreed with his wife.

Although his thoughts were correct before, just like what his wife said, Zhao Huan is very disgusted with the parents' preaching now, so it's better to try another person.

After obtaining her husband's consent, Qin Yali began to call Teacher Chen, and after chatting for a few words, Qin Yali said: "I made an appointment with Teacher Chen, I'll go."

With that said, Qin Yali was about to leave.

"Hey, wait a minute, I'll go home and pack some tea leaves from my hometown during the Chinese New Year, and you can bring them to Mr. Chen."

Zhao Hongming quickly grabbed his wife.

After finishing speaking, he ran to his apartment building.

A few minutes later, Zhao Hongming reappeared in front of Qin Yali carrying a bag.

Qin Yali took the bag, nodded to her husband, and left in a hurry.

His wife left, and Zhao Hongming also lost the interest to continue walking.

Follow the same road and return to the vicinity of the basketball court.

He sat down on a stone bench that was mostly covered by tree branches, and lit a cigarette.

"Pass the ball, pass the ball!"

"Wow, it's in, this three-step basket is good!"

On the court, Zhao Huan was playing basketball with several other students in the community.

From time to time, their loud voices were heard.

Around the basketball court, there are some adults who like basketball, and they are also watching. Some people have even changed their clothes and are ready to go up and compete with the students.

Looking at Zhao Huan who was sweating recklessly on the court, Zhao Hongming was in a daze.

In Zhao Huan's body, it was completely impossible to see that something that almost destroyed the whole family happened at noon.

Does this kid have a big heart, or has his mentality been completely adjusted?
Zhao Hongming felt that he couldn't keep up with his son's changes now.

It is also completely impossible to speculate on the son's psychology.

However, looking at Zhao Huan's current state, Zhao Hongming felt inexplicably at ease.

As long as the child is fine, everything else is trivial.

The competition on the court lasted until around ten o'clock in the evening.

Seeing that Zhao Huan finished greeting the others, left the stadium, and walked home, Zhao Hongming slowly got up and followed Zhao Huan from a distance.

Just because there's nothing wrong now, doesn't mean there's really nothing wrong.

Although the incident at noon had passed, Zhao Hongming's heart was still shrouded in a haze.

When it was almost eleven o'clock, Zhao Huan had already washed up and slept for a while, and Qin Yali came slowly.

"How is it? What did Teacher Chen say?"

Zhao Hongming waited patiently for his wife to finish washing and walked into the bedroom before he asked.

"Ms. Chen agreed. She said that she would ask Huanhuan to play golf tomorrow." Qin Yali's brows slightly relaxed, her face relaxed.

"Play ball?"

Zhao Hongming was surprised by Teacher Chen's proposal.

"Yes, tomorrow morning, she will ask Huanhuan to play in the gymnasium." Qin Yali affirmed.

"Did Mr. Chen take those tea leaves?"

Zhao Hongming didn't continue to ask further questions. Since Teacher Chen chose this way to talk to Huanhuan, she naturally had her reasons, so he asked.

"Accepted. Didn't you see that I didn't carry the bag when I came back? But Teacher Chen said that if she doesn't accept it, we might think that she doesn't want to try her best to enlighten Huanhuan."

Qin Yali said.

Thinking of when Teacher Chen said this, she couldn't help but raise the corners of her mouth slightly.

"Tsk tsk, look at the way Mr. Chen handles things, it's worth learning from us!"

Zhao Hongming sighed a little.

"Then you have to wake up Huanhuan early tomorrow morning and send him to the gym." Zhao Hongming told his wife and went to work the night shift.

Lying on the bed, Qin Yali opened her eyes wide, recalling the scene of meeting Teacher Chen tonight.

Some words that Teacher Chen said made her feel deeply moved.

"Actually, this is not the first time I have encountered Zhao Huan's situation. Before that, some parents came to me because their children had suicidal tendencies or symptoms.

According to your description just now, I personally think that Zhao Huan is not the kind of person who violates his own life at will. It is more likely that he did those actions unconsciously, or that he wanted to express his respect for you with such actions. Parental dissatisfaction. "

Qin Yali and Teacher Chen sat opposite each other. After listening to Qin Yali's story, Teacher Chen said something.

After a pause, Teacher Chen continued: "Actually, you are also a teacher, and you should also know that you have to relax in both study and life. When you face various problems with your children, quarreling or doing something is all right. Not the best way to resolve conflicts."

"Well, I know that too, but when faced with problems with my own child, I seem to be completely stupid, and I can't think of any way to resolve the current conflict."

Qin Yali smiled wryly.

"This is the tragedy of us being teachers! We can teach other people's children well, but we can't teach our own children well.

The situation you mentioned happens to most teachers, including myself.”

Teacher Chen nodded in understanding.

Especially for children who have entered adolescence, their appearance has completely changed from when they were in elementary school.

Parents who pay a lot of attention to their children will often enter the irritable period with their children at this stage.

They couldn't accept such a big change in their child at all, and they were still immersed in the state of obedience that their child had in elementary school and couldn't get out.

Sometimes, it is not that the child is not ready for puberty, but the parents are not ready for the change of the child.

(End of this chapter)