Forty has a hurdle

Chapter 46

"What's the rush? What time? Also, Zhao Hongming, I interrupted you a few times to scold Zhao Huan tonight. What do you mean?"

Unexpectedly, what Zhao Hongming said before going to bed made Qin Yali explode in an instant.

Faced with her husband's seemingly indifferent but actually irresponsible mentality, Qin Yali was furious.

"No, my wife, the exam results are already here. Even if you scold him to death tonight, it won't change anything. Why don't you tell him well and let him try to do well in the exam next time!"

Zhao Hongming patiently explained.

Qixing Middle School's admission rate to the five key high schools in Hanzhou is generally around 40%. That is to say, as long as Zhao Huan's ranking is basically above 300, he has a great chance of being promoted to Hanzhou Focus on high school.

From Zhao Hongming's point of view, Zhao Huan's grades this time were not too bad. Except for the geography subject that he failed in, the other subjects should reflect Zhao Huan's true level.

Now that he knows where his child's bottom line is, as long as he can help him catch it in a targeted manner in the future, he can definitely catch it. Therefore, Zhao Hongming still feels a little regretful about Zhao Huan's test results this time, but Not as anxious to get angry as his wife.

"Zhao Hongming, are you really stupid or just pretending to be stupid?" Qin Yali sat up, "What is our goal? Have you forgotten?"

Target?

The five key high schools that Hanzhou belongs to?

No, it should be said that Qin Yali has only one goal, and that is Hanzhou No. [-] Middle School.

Hanzhou No. [-] Middle School is the leader among the five municipal high schools, and it is the key point.

Every year, all the students in Shangqingbei, Hanzhou City, come from this high school.

This high school is undoubtedly a temple in the hearts of all students and parents.

The other four key high schools in Hanzhou, in comparison, are a bit worse than Hanzhou No. [-] Middle School, and the school rate is not as high as that of Hanzhou No. [-] Middle School. something else.

"Hanzhou No. [-] Middle School is very difficult to take. According to Huanhuan's current grades, I'm afraid it's a bit difficult. Let's consider other schools. Don't set the goal so high for the time being?"

Zhao Hongming pondered for a while and asked carefully.

"Difficult exam? What's so difficult about it? Didn't I also come from this school? I think back when we were in junior high school."

Qin Yali scoffed at her husband's words, she herself is a student who graduated from Hanzhou No. [-] Middle School, so she naturally hoped that Zhao Huan could go to Hanzhou No. [-] Middle School to study.

"Oh, don't always compare yourself with your children. The times are different. At that time, how could we have so many external interference factors? Who is not only thinking about learning?"

"Also, you shouldn't keep comparing Zhao Huan and Wang Zirui tonight. You didn't see that Huanhuan's face was so ugly back then."

Zhixue.com has a Buddy Companion in the APP. As long as you add other people as friends, you can compare them with other people's various subjects. Although what he shows is only the grade, there is no specific score display, but you can generally guess Come up with some points.

Wang Zirui was in the same class as Zhao Huan, and his mother was also teaching at Beicheng Primary School. Originally, Wang Zirui was going to Hanzhou to go to middle school, but for some reason, he came back to Qixing again.

Because the two had known each other since elementary school, and now they are in the same class, so Zhao Huan and Wang Zirui became good friends in a short period of time, and they often went to and from school together.

"Ugly? I just want to find someone who is better than him to stimulate him, so that he will work harder!" Qin Yali said. "At such a young age, don't you even have this resistance to frustration?"

Zhao Hongming looked at his wife speechlessly.

For so many years, Qin Yali took Zhao Huan by herself and was inseparable all day long. Whether it was in life or study, she took care of Zhao Huan meticulously. She really raised Zhao Huan as a precious son. .

When Zhao Huan was in the fourth grade of elementary school, Zhao Hongming bought a bicycle as a birthday present for his son. At that time, many students in Zhao Huan's class bought bicycles. On weekends, several students would go out to play together.

Zhao Hongming finally taught Zhao Huan how to ride a bicycle in the community, but Qin Yali disagreed with Zhao Huan's life and death to ride a bicycle and play outside alone. As long as Zhao Huan rides a bicycle, someone from Zhao Hongming or Qin Yali must be present to watch, for fear of what might happen Accident.

This is the case in the community, let alone Zhao Huan riding a bicycle alone to find classmates outside.

Later, Zhao Huan was not in the mood to ride a bicycle by himself, and gradually lost interest in cycling.

This frustration resistance should be cultivated gradually. It does not mean that if your parents say a word, the child will develop the resistance to frustration.

Qin Yali couldn't see Zhao Huan's essence clearly, but Zhao Hongming was very sober.

"Then in the future, when it's time to let go, let go, don't pack too much, and give your child more opportunities to do some things. If you fail, or do something wrong, won't his frustration tolerance come out?" ?”

The clock had already pointed to 12:30 in the morning, and Zhao Hongming didn't want to continue discussing with his wife.

Every time, as long as they started to talk about the children, the two would definitely quarrel. Zhao Hongming felt that he hadn't reached that point tonight, so he quickly ended the topic.

"Let go, let go, you, Zhao Hongming, will say this, Zhao Huan, this kid, was used to being wild with his grandfather when he was a child, and it took me a lot of trouble to change his temper."

"Qin Yali, enough is enough!"

Hearing his wife bring the topic to Zhao Huan's grandparents, Zhao Hongming was a little annoyed.

Before going to kindergarten, Zhao Huan was placed in his hometown and left with Zhao Hongming's parents.

Grandparents bring grandchildren, isn't that the same as bringing the little emperor?
As long as the grandson asks for something, the grandparents will all agree. If the stars and the moon are not too high in the sky, they can pick it off and give it to the grandson.

It is also because of the experience of the past few years that Zhao Huan has formed some bad habits since he was a child. Sometimes he becomes stubborn and can really give you a headache.

Fortunately, after reaching the age of kindergarten, Qin Yali brought Zhao Huan back, and at the same time discovered some bad things about Zhao Huan.

After several years of corrections, Qin Yali thought she had corrected Zhao Huan's bad habits.

But from time to time, I still have some resentment towards Zhao Hongming's parents.

Zhao Hongming's idea is different from his wife's.

When parents are old and help them take care of their children, they should be more grateful than complaining that their parents did not take care of their children well.

It is human nature for grandparents to love their grandchildren, and it is also a family happiness. Why should you criticize the two old people who have paid for their grandchildren too much!
The husband and wife had talked about this topic several times before, and each time they broke up unhappy. This time, Qin Yali brought it up again inexplicably, and it was simply dragged from the ground to the sky. How can I teach Zhao Hongming not to be angry!

　I am also a sheep, all kinds of uncomfortable, alas!

　　
　
(End of this chapter)