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Chapter 16 I saw a mother who was desperate for her child
At this moment, the security guard in the reception room brought Li Kun who was on crutches.He saw the video posted in the campus group and saw his mother go crazy in front of the teacher. He came to the school from home on crutches.The bandaged wound burst open again, and the donated blood seeped out, which was shocking to watch.

Seeing his mother's agitated state, Li Kun lost control of his own emotions and smashed his fists against the wall like crazy.Say it out loud, "I hate you, I hate you, I hate everything, and I will never go to school again!"

When Li Kun's mother saw her son, she seemed to have gained a new life, but when she heard her son hate her and was about to drop out of school, she completely collapsed: "You promised mother that you will become famous and earn a lot of money in the future. Money, if you want people who look down on our mother and child to be trampled under our feet, have you forgotten?"

"Mom, can you go home, can you stop doing this, shall we go home first?"

Pan Xishi had never seen Li Kun so excited before, please Director Zhang to appease Li Kun's mother, Zixuan helped Li Kun to the meeting room where no one was there, Shang Yunxuan looked at Pan Xishi's back, and immediately followed.

In the meeting room, Pan Xishi didn't preach or criticize, but said to Li Kun: "You sit here, and you will go to the hospital with the teacher to get bandaged again, and leave the rest to Teacher Pan."

Li Kun choked up and said, "Teacher Pan, I have caused you trouble. My mother is not in good health, and she didn't mean it. I hope you can forgive her."

Pan Xishi said to Li Kun: "Your mother just wants to protect you. She doesn't know what method to use, and there is no other way. The teacher can forgive you. You should also forgive your mother, you know?"

Li Kun said, "Mr. Pan, aren't you angry with my mother?"

Pan Xishi said: "From the standpoint of the teacher, your mother's actions are indeed a bit extreme, but as a mother, she is willing to stand up for the child, lest the child make a mistake. This shows that she loves you very much."

Li Kun gradually calmed down, looking at Teacher Pan leaving and facing his back, his eyes were red again.Shang Yunxuan said to Li Kun: "Your teacher Pan just scolded me for your leg yesterday, and you made such a move today, it will be even more difficult for her to explain to the leader. Man, what? Is it worth getting excited about such a big deal?"

Out of his trust in Pan Xishi, Li Kun tried his best to control his emotions. Facing the male teacher, he said: "I saw a video posted by a classmate in the grade group. I don't care if my mother is hysterical at home." I can bear it, but let my classmates see that I can't bear it, and I don't want my mother to cause trouble for Teacher Pan."

Shang Yunxuan said: "Do you know why the students recorded videos and posted them in the group?"

Li Kun shook his head and nodded again: "Because they want more people to see the embarrassing scene and make fun of people."

Shang Yunxuan shook his head: "Your mother's mood is indeed a little too excited today, but you can find out in private later, all the students around you now, which one of their parents hasn't lost their temper with them at home, how many Parents know that because of educating their children with cerebral hemorrhage and heart disease, they drive their children into lunatics at home. They all know it. You, a man, don’t have the ability to bear it at all, so you can’t do it.”

"But none of their parents made trouble at school!"

Shang Yunxuan put on a straight face: "Didn't you listen to what Teacher Pan said just now? Your mother, although there are indeed problems with her methods and emotional management, but if you suffer any bullying and injustice at school She can run to protect you regardless of the treatment. Such a mother is better than those parents who put all the pressure on their children and let the children bear it alone for the sake of their own face.

I think you are not a primary school student anymore. As a man who is about to grow up, you should be able to see the essence through the phenomenon, instead of sticking to these small faces and emotions. "

Shang Yunxuan said: "Teacher Shang, what you said is true?"

"Of course it is true. Use your head to think about what it would be like to be taught by your parents when you are surrounded by classmates at home. Some people don't laugh when they see the video but empathize with them. As for those who laugh, let them laugh out loud. , anyway, it’s not like you haven’t laughed at others, when you play football, who peed your pants, you guys are called jokes when you meet, don’t think I don’t know!”

Together with the school doctor, Shang Yunxuan sent Li Kun to the hospital for bandages, and then sent him home himself.When he came back from school, Pan Xishi's communication with Li Kun's mother was coming to an end, and the parent's emotions gradually calmed down.

He watched Pan Xishi communicate with his parents very patiently from a distance, with calm eyes, as if he was the same as the female teacher he knew.

Pan Xishi said to the parents in a low voice: "Mother Li Kun, although I teach Chinese, I used to teach junior high school English in addition to Chinese in the institution.

I will seize the time after school to give Li Kun a separate lecture on the content of the class.Never let your children drop their grades because of their injuries.Then for the mid-term exam, I will find time to go to my home alone to invigilate the exam for my child, so that he can grasp his own learning situation during this period. Do you think this will work? "

Li Kun's mother hesitated, as if she had been unable to make up her mind, and was even worried about something.Shang Yunxuan came over immediately, and then Pan Xishi said: "I teach mathematics, and Li Kun accidentally fell because I took the children to play football. I can go home with Teacher Shang to give lectures to the children. Until his leg is healed and he can go to school normally."

When Li Kun's mother heard this sentence, her eyes stood up again: "You are the teacher who took my son to play football. Did you do it on purpose?"

Shang Yunxuan said: "I am really sorry about this matter. I am Shang Yunxuan, a math teacher. If you have any anger, you can attack me. After all, I am directly responsible. Please don't embarrass Teacher Pan."

Pan Xishi originally thought that Li Kun's mother would "explode" again because of Shang Yunxuan's words, but unexpectedly, the parent's tone suddenly changed, from anger to surprise: "You are the best math teacher in your grade , Teacher Shang?"

Pan Xishi's mouth became O-shaped, and he was too surprised to speak.Shang Yunxuan denied it without hesitation and said: "Every teacher in our school is very good. I still say that if I want to be held accountable, I should be the one who is the most responsible. Whether I am Li Kun's classmate or not I am responsible for the teacher in the class.”

Li Kun's mother immediately said: "Teacher Shang, you said this yourself, don't go back!"

Shang Yunxuan said: "Although I have never taught Class [-], I am very familiar with the children in Class [-]. You can ask them if I have never said anything. I have never broken my promise to any student." Pass. "

Li Kun's mother said: "I don't care about anything else, anyway, what you just said to teach my son will definitely count!"

"Don't worry, during the time Li Kun is at home with a leg injury and can't go to class, the math will be on me!"

Li Kun's mother stood up immediately, and said to Li Kun's mother with eyes full of gratitude: "Don't worry, I will never break my promise."

Pan Xishi looked at Shang Yunxuan and Li Kun's mother from the side, three black lines were drawn above his head, and several crows spread their wings and flew high.She wasted so much energy, and she was spitting like stars flying wildly, but she couldn't compare with Shang Yunxuan's few words. So this is the difference between a "famous teacher" and a substitute teacher?I really have to not succumb to reality!

But when Pan Xishi was doubting his life, Li Kun's mother, who had just walked to the school gate with her, asked in a low voice, "Mr. Pan, you don't think I'm making trouble for no reason, do you?"

Pan Xishi was stunned for a moment because of the 180-degree turn of the parents' attitude, then thought for a while and said: "Today's incident is indeed an oolong. As teachers, we feel very wronged, and the school is also shocked. If the parents treat you like this The teacher is on guard and doesn't ask indiscriminately, and comes to the school to make troubles.

This not only affects the normal teaching work, but also has a very bad impact on the physical and mental health of the children. At the same time, if the most basic relationship of trust is lost between teachers and students, parents and schools, this will have a negative impact on our entire educational work. A fatal blow, the ultimate victim is the child. "

Li Kun's mother said: "I know the truth, but I'm not afraid of [-], just in case. I hope you can understand as a mother, seeing a good child go to school and then sent to the hospital. Our family Some things have happened recently, and I am also very insecure, and I can't help but think about it."

Pan Xishi said: "I understand that parents are now under a lot of pressure and anxiety, and the focus of many family lives is on children, so they are very sensitive to children's affairs.

As teachers, we cannot demand parents with the highest moral standards, and we should never underestimate the anger of a mother, and I also envy Li Kun for having a mother who is desperate for him.At least I personally only feel a headache for what you do, but I don't feel disgusted by what you do as a mother. "

Li Kun's mother nodded, and her eyes turned red again in an instant.

"I have no choice. I only have this child. The child is everything to me. We are just ordinary people. We have nowhere to go. Our eyes are dark. There is no other way but to find a school. I am afraid that my child will be killed." If you bully him, if there are any serious consequences, a family like ours can't stand it."

"You don't have to worry about this. I assure you that all children in my class will be treated fairly and justly. What happened to Li Kun was just an accident. We are very sorry. You really don't have to worry about it."

After sending Li Kun's mother away, Shang Yunxuan let out a long sigh of relief, feeling that he had lingering fears when he met such a difficult parent.If all the parents were like Li Kun's mother, they would really dare not take their children to exercise in the future. It would be safest to keep the children in the classroom, and there would be no need to worry about parents coming to school to make trouble.

Pan Xishi said: "Actually, I think it is really difficult to deal with Li Kun's mother from the standpoint of a teacher, but from the bottom of my heart, I don't dislike Li Kun's mother at all. In front of Li Kun's mother, I will face me. So, I say the same behind her back."

Shang Yunxuan said: "I told Li Kun that too, but you really like such a parent? Teacher Pan, are you opposing me for the sake of opposing me?"

Pan Xishi said: "It is natural for teachers to be afraid of unreasonable parents, but parents want their children not to be harmed, especially parents with less favorable family conditions. This is the only way they can protect their children. It's human nature. What does it have to do with you when I express my point of view? Teacher Shang, you are the most narcissistic person I have ever met. "

Watching Pan Xishi's leaving back, Shang Yunxuan was at a loss, unable to understand what she meant.

Pan Xishi chose to walk home today, and the trees on both sides began to turn yellow and fall.Winter is coming soon.A poem reads like this: The boundless fallen trees are rustling, and the endless Yangtze River is rolling in.Every time she thinks of this poem, she always interprets the second half of the line as the love of her parents.

It is often said that in this world, only fatherly love and motherly love are born without asking for anything in return.No matter what kind of mistakes the child made, she (he) is still their child in the eyes of their parents. There is a short story that an old mother in her 80s walked thousands of miles, carrying sacks from a remote rural area Step by step, he walked to the prison in the city to visit his son.A criminal in the eyes of others is still a son in the eyes of a mother.

Although she has never experienced these Pan Xishis in her own body, she has seen too much in the people around her, and she envies them from the bottom of her heart.I remember when I was in junior high school, I was always laughed at by the boys at the front and back desks.Once she finally couldn't bear it anymore, some people didn't call back, they would never know how powerful you are.A girl got into a fight with a boy in her class.

The teacher immediately called the parents.At that time, my grandmother was not in good health, and in desperation, Pan Xishi gave the teacher the phone number of his parents' home.But it never occurred to her that her mother and second sister were at home, and because the second sister had gastritis and kept vomiting and diarrhea, Song Jiahui directly told the teacher that it was all Pan Xishi's fault and asked her to apologize to her classmates, she had no time to care about these things.

That was the first time Pan Xishi in adolescence or Girls' Generation Pan Xishi needed help from their parents, and it could just end in disappointment.

The cousin of my brother-in-law's family suffered from a male classmate's abuse during college, and she was wronged and cried after returning home, but finally chose to open her heart to her parents and brother.My uncle and his son ran to the school together and beat up the boy who caused the accident, and asked the school leaders to punish the boy, and even expelled him from school. Leading units to go.

The school asked the boy to write an apology for the inspection. To be honest, he did not treat this matter as a very serious matter. After all, it did not cause a very serious fact.This kind of thing is common both in college and in society.

The school publicly reports criticism, asks students to write written inspections, and rules parents.But my uncle was not forgiving. He told the teachers and leaders that this may not be a big problem for you, but if something goes wrong with my child, it is a big problem for our whole family.For a father, it is unacceptable and absolutely unacceptable for a daughter to lose a hair.

Later, under my uncle's reluctance, the school continued to investigate and found that this boy had harassed and followed female classmates more than once in the study room. Many girls were embarrassed to mention it to their parents and classmates, so they just endured it. , The way to choose to protect yourself is to go to the study room less at night.In the end, this guy was punished. Some girls who had been harassed dared to talk to those around them. Some girls' boyfriends punched him one after another, and this guy dropped out of school on his own initiative.In the future, if such a person wants to do such a bad thing again, he will think carefully about the consequences.

When Pan Xishi was growing up, no one ever stood up for her. The education she received since she was a child was to learn from disadvantages and learn from others.There is nothing wrong with this kind of education, and it is more in line with traditional Chinese education, but when you are a minor, you need your parents as a strong backing.

When she had not yet formed her outlook on life, she had conflicts with other people outside. She was formed into the habit of calming down and not daring to argue with reason. If the other party took the initiative to apologize, it would be a big deal and should Choose to say it's okay right away.Being honest and sensible is the label her elders put on her, and when she encounters delicious and fun things, she should first let other people show that she is educated.

When encountering provocations from the other party, you should choose to lower your posture to ease conflicts. Even when encountering a dispute between someone who favors you and someone who has conflicts with you, you should first think of pleasing the person who bullies you. You just don’t want to have any conflicts. It doesn't matter if people cause trouble, even if you are wronged, or even make people who are close to you feel wronged.

But later, as Pan Xishi grew older and experienced more, she discovered that wronging herself in this world would not make the world a better place, and would only blur the boundary between good and evil, and she would not live happily, and would even become Make life worse.

And it took her so much time to understand that all she needed was a fist from her father, or a mother desperately protecting her child in front of others.

So, why should she dislike a mother who is dedicated to her child, she admires, envies, and is happy for the student, even if the underage boy is still blaming his mother for making him look ugly in front of his classmates.

Things in the world are like this. What you complain about may be something that many people yearn for but can't get.At least she, as a teacher, will not dislike a mother who is still in her early years just because she finds it difficult.

I am afraid that no one can understand these feelings, so Shang Yunxuan feels that it is normal for him to be duplicity.

(End of this chapter)