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Chapter 31 Only Mommy Thinks That Way
Chang Yuan feels really tired. My daughter-in-law is a perfectionist. Since she was studying, she not only excels in her studies and looks beautiful, she is also favored by her tutors. Over time, she has developed a character of being extremely strong and not falling behind. character.There is no doubt that his daughter-in-law is excellent in all aspects, but sometimes it is true that he feels tired.Especially after having a child, even with a high degree of education, Pan Xihong still has the physique of resenting women. Sometimes she is really like a woman in the market, which makes people feel bored.

Pan Xihong didn't want to do this either, but if she had to think about it from her point of view, she would indeed feel anxious for her.Just over [-] years old, from the prime of life to the mother of children, encountering bottlenecks in her career, she inevitably has appearance anxiety. The most important thing is that because of having a child, her whole heart will be influenced by the child. Anger, sorrow and joy.

Xiaoxiao was in the strawberry shed today, not only did she not interact with other parents and children, but also suddenly yelled because of a child approaching, which lasted for a long time.What Pan Xihong couldn't accept the most was that Xiaoxiao didn't lose her temper like normal, but she couldn't even say a word, and the ear-piercing screams stimulated her nerves. Seeing her daughter at that time, she was at a loss and burst into tears Eyes.

There are many children who are as old as Xiaoxiao who went to pick together. Their language skills are already very good. At least the children’s eyes and smiles can interact with people. Only Xiaoxiao is like a little goose. , no, like an outlier among children.

Pan Xihong hugged her daughter, a bad thought kept circling in her mind, but she couldn't tell anyone, not even her husband.Chang Yuan said: "Xiaoxiao is only two years old, and it is normal to not be able to speak. My mother said that I could only speak when I was three years old. Learning is okay, which indicates that one generation is better than the next.”

Looking at her carefree husband with no experience in childcare, and seeing the smile on his face at this time, Pan Xihong felt particularly dazzling: "You don't know anything, you don't care about Xiaoxiao at all, and you can tell you I don't understand, I'm so sick of it."

Pan Xihong's voice suddenly rose a few notches, and Chang Yuan, who had endured it for a long time, couldn't help losing his temper: "Pan Xihong, should you see a psychiatrist? My parents have problems raising children, and grandparents have problems raising children." Question, now even I have problems with my daughter's education, are you crazy? If you want me to say, you are too hypocritical, where is Lin Daiyu in real life? You are also 30 years old, can you be more mature, Down to earth?"

Pan Xihong was stunned for a moment, she had some words in her throat but she couldn't tell her husband, she also wished she was Lin Daiyu, everything was just sentimental, she was hypocritical, everything was her own fantasy.

On the weekend, Pan Xishi went to Li Kun's house again.Li Kun received the teacher's WeChat in advance and stayed at home to wait.Pan Xishi told the mother and son her thoughts straight to the point.Pan Xishi said to Li Kun's mother: "I feel the same about your anxiety at the moment. But I think this is just the beginning of a new stage of life. It's normal to not adapt. Sooner or later you will get through it with strength. It's just Li Kun's situation now. It’s quite special, just in time for middle school graduation, time waits for no one.”

Li Kun's mother is in a very stable mood now. She accepts what Pan Xishi said just now: "I dragged the child down. It is not easy for Li Kun. When I meet such parents, the child is wronged. I will look for a job tomorrow." , he does not need the teacher's support, I am a mother, I should bear the child's life and studies!"

Li Kun said: "Mom, it's impossible for you to do a good job now. If you really care about me, you can honestly stay at home to recuperate and wait until the illness recovers."

Pan Xishi said: "Li Kun, if my mother only relies on rest, it may take a long time to heal her disease, and she herself will also suffer from pain. If she receives treatment, she may recover soon. You can go out to work, and you don't need the sponsorship of your teacher!"

When Li Kun heard Pan Xishi's words, his eyes lit up instantly. After all, he was still a child. He only thought that he was a man and should shoulder the heavy responsibility of supporting the family, but he didn't think that if his mother recovered from her illness as soon as possible, she would not so painful.

Pan Xishi hurriedly pursued the victory, took out a card and put it on the table: "Here is 6000 yuan, which is for my mother's medical treatment. When my mother's illness is cured, I can work and earn money, and I will return it to the teacher a little bit." .”

Li Kun looked at the young teacher in front of him, seeming to be struggling.

"You have no right to say no!" Pan Xishi said to Li Kun, "Mom's treatment is the most important thing now. You can make choices for your own destiny, but you can't make choices for your mother, right?"

In the end, Li Kun accepted Pan Xishi's loan.With tears in his eyes, he expressed that he would definitely let his mother receive proper treatment and get better as soon as possible, and he would also study hard to repay the teacher.

Pan Xishi felt a little ashamed of the students' sincere thanks.Because her ability is very meager, Shang Yunxuan is the one who advises and contributes more in this matter. Instead, she wants to be an "unsung hero". I can't bear it.

On Monday, Pan Xishi asked Shang Yunxuan, "How do you know that Li Kun will definitely accept it?"

Shang Yunxuan said: "Because there is no mother in the world who does not love children, children can feel this love, so even children will be naughty and make their parents angry, but when encountering things, they will cherish their own from the bottom of their hearts. Mom, this is human nature, animals will feed back, let alone children!"

Pan Xishi said: "Are you so sure that a mother will love her child?"

Shang Yunxuan said: "Of course, there may be children who don't love their mothers, but there is no mother who doesn't love their children. Maybe in the past, there may be uneven distribution in multi-children families, but which one is bitten by ten fingers?" It hurts, how can you not love?"

Pan Xishi said: "Then what if the child never feels the mother's love?"

Shang Yunxuan thought for a while and said, "Then maybe the fate between the mother and the child is shallow, but I believe that love is always there."

"Are you sure?"

Shang Yunxuan solemnly promised: "I guarantee it with my life!"

Pan Xishi sneered: "Then your life is not guaranteed at all!"

Shang Yunxuan coughed violently, as if he had been greatly stimulated.

Pan Xishi said: "I saw that your mother must love you very much. I heard that the boys in Xingang are special mothers. It seems that it may be true!"

Shang Yunxuan said: "In fact, the most talked about boys in Xingang is not this, but that the mothers-in-law in Xingang love their sons-in-law very much."

For some reason, Pan Xishi suddenly thought of her mother. If she gets married in the future, the other half will probably only get picky and ridiculed by the other half.

Does anyone who has a mother in this world necessarily have maternal love?Probably only this kind of mother boy would think so!
Shang Yan secretly found Pan Xishi, and he happily said to her, "Thank you, auntie!"

This was the first time Shang Yan called Aunt Pan Xishi in school, and she nervously looked around, fearing that there would be another Shang Yunxuan lurking nearby.They didn't have three chapters of agreement, but they kept it tacitly. Shang Yan disdained to admit that the head teacher was an aunt with whom he didn't know very well, and wished to get rid of it completely. Pan Xishi was even more afraid of getting into unnecessary trouble.From childhood to adulthood, the Pan family gave her no good things, but troubles!
"You'd better shut up!" Pan Xishi scowled at Shang Yan.

Shang Yan wasn't angry at all, and said with a smile, "I'll just call this time at school!"

In front of Pan Xishi, Li Kun asked so solemnly to keep Shang Yan a secret. He once placed Shang Yan in a super important position, thinking that if this good friend knew the truth of the matter, his sky would collapse.But when the mother's condition improved, she couldn't wait to share it with her best friend, and finally told the whole story.

"You have to keep it a secret for Li Kun!" Pan Xishi, who is also an adult with strong self-esteem, told Shang Yan worriedly.

"Teacher Pan, don't worry! I will keep the secret, and I will be happy for my good friend from the bottom of my heart. I promise, I will study hard in the future, and I will never be foolish like before, even if I am with Li Kun. Teacher's reply."

Pan Xishi cut it, and looked at the brat in front of him with disdain: "Learning is for yourself, never for others!"

On Monday morning, Pan Xihong came to the office with a dazed expression. Her good colleague Li Yali ran over and said mysteriously, "I heard that the list of professors who will go to Shanghai University for academic exchange has come down. Guess who they are?"

Pan Xihong said: "It's better to spend more time to study how to teach if you do these tricks every day. If you are not interested, it doesn't matter who I am."

Li Yali shook her head and said, "Xihong, you are becoming less and less like the teacher Pan I know now. You used to be super interested in these things. You have to be strong and you can't be left behind in anything."

Pan Xihong said: "It's not necessarily necessary to fight for these false names to make progress. It's enough to teach well. And now I really can't take care of it. I don't have time to study these miscellaneous things. Now I don't have time to do it. Now I am the mother of the child, so I might as well spend more time with my daughter when I have time!"

Li Yali smiled and said: "Don't be a mother with one child. You are the fastest and best body recovery among the novice mothers I have ever seen. You are also the most hardworking body management I have ever seen. You are still on maternity leave. If you go to the gym, most people can't do it. But I found that you were really a little anxious about your appearance."

Pan Xihong said: "I'm not anxious, I just have requirements for my own life, do you have no class in the morning, are you so free?"

Li Yali said mysteriously: "It has nothing to do with you, so I won't gossip with you. I just saw that your husband and wife are on the list for this meeting."

Pan Xihong raised her eyebrows and asked, "Chang Yuan is on a business trip again, 'Niang Niang' is with him?"

(End of this chapter)