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Chapter 90 Can't Compromise
Pan Xishi actually didn't care, it was the same sentence, she didn't care about the grievances and hatreds at that time when she had no memory.The indelible memory in her heart is the lack of her father's love and mother's love since she was a child. As for other people, they are not important. Even the past of relatives at grandma's house can be ignored, let alone in her own memory An old man who never appeared!

And this old man is already terminally ill!
She and Pan Guanlin reached a consensus on this point, and it doesn't matter if she goes to act for such an "irrelevant" old man.

When he got off work, Pan Shengnan was surprised to see Pan Xishi come to him on his own initiative.Before that, she invited her younger sister to see grandma many times, but she was always rejected.

"Your father called me. Why should I care about an old man who is terminally ill? There is nothing to care about at all!"

"Here again, isn't my dad your dad?" Pan Shengnan didn't understand even more, "Since you can laugh away your grievances with others, why can't you explain it to your own parents?"

Pan Xishi said: "I don't need to reconcile with anyone, I just need to shake hands with myself. As for why I can go to see your grandma at this time but I really don't want to go to see your parents. When you see your parents, your scalp becomes tense, as if you are about to be sentenced, because you have accumulated too many unpleasant experiences one after another, so that you may not remember the specific events, but when you think of seeing them, you instinctively feel pain, So resist."

Pan Shengnan frowned: "Okay, you, I don't like to hear it anymore, it's almost over!"

Pan Xishi said: "You asked yourself, I don't like to hear the truth."

Pan Shengnan said: "You may also be able to see that I always actively pull you to participate in family activities. I hope that you and our parents can establish a relationship in the future. People can't always live in the past. I always feel that you are only 30 years old after the new year, and our parents are only in their 60s. If they can live to be more than 90 years old, you will have the opportunity to get along with each other for more than 30 years in the future. Even strangers can develop feelings Come on. But you are so resistant, I will not persuade you anymore. Because you are really too harsh on yourself and your parents!"

Pan Xishi no longer debates. She knows that everyone in this world has their own standpoint and their own point of view. The only thing you can choose is not to accept it, but don’t try to convince others. If you get tired, others will too. very tired.

Seeking common ground while reserving differences, harmony without differences is the wisdom left by our ancestors for thousands of years!

But Pan Shengnan was still very angry, because she saw her mother's forbearance and devotion in front of her mother-in-law these days, and she felt very distressed.The scene of Pan Xishi being sent away when she was a child, the two younger sisters were too young to remember clearly or even had no memory, but she was already very old, and she remembered everything clearly.As the eldest sister of the family, she didn't always have the temper of trying to make ends meet, coaxing this and that. No matter how delicate Pan Xihong was, she was beaten by her when she was young.

Pan Xishi saw that Pan Shengnan was unhappy, and thought for a while that she was just expressing a different point of view, whether the other party liked it or not, after all, she grew up watching people's faces, and now she is about 30 years old, and she still looks Other people's faces?

Don't even think about it!
Pan Xishi said directly: "I think I still have something to do, I will take a taxi to your parents' place in a while, and I won't be on your way!"

Pan Shengnan looked at the back of Pan Xishi who left as soon as he said it, and it seemed that he was walking like a stranger!She thought to herself that this person would have changed his mind, and he would not go to see grandma again. Then her father would be disappointed, and her mother would have to follow suit.

Pan Xishi didn't buy any gold jewelry for the old man he had never met.She used to honor grandma's things, but now it seems that others are not entitled to them at all.She remembered that she had bought these for Song Jiahe before, but they were all in the hands of his daughter-in-law, and she was dismissed as cheap.Therefore, many of her grievous behaviors have grown with age, and have been corrected after being severely beaten by society.

When Pan Xinyi saw the nutritional supplements that Pan Xishi brought to her grandma, she felt that she was very thoughtful, much smarter than most of the people in this house.

Grandma Pan saw Pan Xishi for the first time, looked her up and down, and concluded: "This girl is the prettiest of the four girls, most like her aunt."

It was only then that Pan Xishi realized that he still had an aunt. It was only because the older generation was more patriarchal than girls. The aunt married far away in Gansu, and she had no contact with her natal family for the rest of her life, and she completely left her to fend for herself.

She gasped, the atmosphere in this house was scary enough!

When Song Jiahui saw Pan Xishi enter the door, he became even more angry.How much she wished that this girl would never have any contact with her mother-in-law, but the other party let her down again.The two of them, mother and daughter, probably really don't get along.She also saw that this girl could have kindness towards everyone in the world, but she could never forgive her parents.

Injustice!

Grandma Pan said to Pan Xishizi: "It doesn't matter how old I am, but I'm not outdated. I heard that freelancers are the most profitable now. It doesn't matter who your second sister is. You are not as tall as you, and you will not be as rich as you in the future. You are also a member of Lao Pan's family. Your father is not in good health. Although you have not been raised by his side since you were young, you have to be filial, you know?"

Pan Xishi didn't say a word, she couldn't afford to have a verbal argument with an old man whose days were numbered.She came here because of what Pan Guanlin said, for the old man's wish, and not here to argue for right and wrong.Although they are related by blood, they are nothing to each other when they meet for the first time.

Song Jiahui was still waiting for her youngest daughter to say some harsh words to her grandma, but this girl was like a gourd with her mouth sawn off, she kept her eyebrows low and said nothing, she couldn't help but said: "Xishi, don't you always resent your parents? Didn’t you raise you since childhood? You should ask your grandma about this. If she hadn’t almost given you away, we wouldn’t have brought you to Xingang when you were just weaned, and made you hate us for the rest of your life. We are victims too!"

Pan Guanlin said to his wife: "Why are you talking about this to your child? Is today the occasion for talking about this?"

Song Jiahui said: "I won't tell you, your daughter hates me! I'm getting old too, and I don't want to die in peace. Can I not hurt the flesh that fell off my body? Now I've made it clear in front of grandma, Let her know that it's not because her parents don't want her, it's because her parents have to do this for her own good, or else just watch her being sent to the ravine?"

After hearing what her daughter-in-law said, Grandma Pan simply said to Pan Xishi: "Your mother is right. At the beginning, it was grandma who was wrong. Grandma was uneducated. Life was hard at that time, and I didn't even have enough to eat. In the countryside You have to be angry if you don’t have a son. The times are different now, life is better, you are also a teacher, you are also on TV, educated and knowledgeable, it doesn’t matter if you don’t forgive grandma, just forgive your parents!”

Pan Xishi just thought that a terminally ill old man wanted to see him, and this matter was not complicated, only then did he realize that he thought the problem was simple again.She can indeed shake hands and make peace with the whole world, but she no longer has any grudges with her parents, and gets along like a normal mother and daughter?Even if she was acting, she couldn't hide it, just thinking about it made her goosebumps drop all over the ground.

Pan Xishi thought for a while and told the old man the truth: "I don't care about the fact that you gave me away back then. Because legally, you are not my guardian. So I don't have anything special to you now. Dissatisfaction, the past is also the past. But you let me reconcile with my parents now, I can't do it, maybe I can't do it in this life!"

Song Jiahui was even more upset: "You don't even care about sending you away to grandma? Then why do you have to talk to me and your dad endlessly?"

Pan Xishi avoided them and said, "I haven't been with you all the time, have I?"

Song Jiahui was aggressive: "In this case, why can't you treat your parents as affectionately as your two older sisters? See how your two older sisters treat their parents?"

Pan Xishi did not forget the purpose of standing here, "I don't even have any demands on you, it's you who insist on demanding more from me. Don't compare me with my two older sisters, they are different and will never be the same !"

Song Jiahui said stubbornly: "Why is it different? They were all born in my October pregnancy. They were raised by my side, but they have been suffering all the time. It's not that your parents are the big bosses, but your two sisters are popular around us." Drink spicy food, they suffer much more than you!"

Pan Xishi said calmly: "The relationship between parents and children is not only the money relationship needed for upbringing, but also love and care."

Song Jiahui still wanted to argue, but Pan Xishi's head hurt, so he hurriedly said: "I didn't come here today to argue with anyone. Don't talk about this topic anymore, I have a headache!"

Uncle Pan said: "Yes, yes, sister-in-law, don't force the child. Today is a happy day. Xishi no longer blames grandma, and our whole old Pan's family has nothing to worry about. From now on, we will focus on the future. Better develop the next generation!"

Pan Guanlin hurriedly said: "Yes, yes, yes, it's great that Xishi doesn't blame grandma. It shows that Xishi is a sensible and good boy. We are all a family, so we can discuss things."

"Boss, what you said really touched my heart. I really have something to discuss with you and your family this time. Now I see that your Xi Shier is also a sensible child, and he is more sensible than the boss. I'm more at ease when I'm more sensible with my second child."

"Tell me!" Pan Guanlin said, "My son will do his best!"

Grandma Pan said: "When your grandfather was alive, he said that the children and grandchildren of our family must unite as one, develop well, and honor their ancestors. It is best to walk out of that small place one day. Your father also placed high hopes on you when he was alive. , he said, Big Brother has to lead the whole family to develop together, not just himself.”

Pan Guanlin said: "My son remembers it! My grandfather had high hopes for my studies back then, but I didn't live up to the good times and failed to realize the old man's dream. I have never forgotten my father's words. Fortunately, The three girls in my family and Xinyi are all college graduates. This can be regarded as one generation is better than the other."

Grandma Pan said excitedly: "The four girls can't represent the Pan family. They all want to get married, and none of their children's surname is Pan. Our old Pan's family has positive roots and leaves. You big brother, an uncle , you can’t ignore the brothers and nephews! If you love them, it’s like being filial to me after I die!”

Pan Guanlin said, "Mom, don't worry!"

Grandma Pan said: "Boss, you don't have a son. You will enter the ancestral grave in the future, and there will be no children and grandchildren around you. You should listen to your mother. Let your nephews inherit this house after a hundred years. The school district house should be used in The roots of the old Pan's family are growing up, and the roots are not needed. No matter how many high-level education they have cultivated, it has nothing to do with the old Pan's family. Inheriting your family property is your descendant. I will also burn paper for you during festivals and festivals!"

Good guy!
As soon as the old lady said these words, everyone present was stunned.Song Jiahui and a pair of daughters immediately smoked.Pan Xihong was the first to reply: "My parents' house does not need to be inherited by others. Grandma, you gave birth to a son and raised a son, but you have no right to divide the family for your son. If you want to live in a high-end school district in a big city, you can earn it yourself. What kind of gangster logic is this if relatives come to share the wealth?"

Grandma Pan said: "Good girl, you have the most powerful mouth since you were young. Now everyone in the family knows that you gave birth to a silly girl. What's the use of both being doctors? Our Pan family needs this kind of mouth from you." offspring?"

Pan Xihong said loudly: "My daughter is my treasure in everything. I thought you had really got rid of the bad habit of patriarchal sons, but it was all fake! It is true that you brought your second son to rob the house. "

Pan Shengnan said: "Grandma, there is another thing you made a mistake. My dad will buy a cemetery in Xingang a hundred years later and will not return to his hometown. Our own parents don't need others to sweep the grave."

Song Jiahui looked at her mother-in-law and said: "You have divided up more than half of all our property in our hometown, otherwise we would not have lived so poorly when we came to Xingang. Now our whole family has worked hard for every brick and brick. We have our own descendants to inherit. Your own grandson has nothing to do with us and wants to continue to bully people unless I die!"

"You don't have to say such cruel words, I know, you want me to die right away!" After saying that, Old Madam Pan didn't come up, and she fainted.

Pan Guanlin and his second brother rushed towards the old lady, calling out to the old man while cursing these unfilial women.Pan Xishi stood aside, feeling as if he had just helped the evildoer.For the first time, she felt that Song Jiahui was right.

No matter what the reason is, this house has nothing to do with the rest of the Pan family.If you want to live a good life, you have to fight with your own hands, and if you want to get rich by being a rascal, you can't compromise even in the face of life and death.

(End of this chapter)