I just want to live in peace

Chapter 167
Zhang Jing trembled angrily: "Mother-in-law, it's too much for you to say that. On the day you and your father-in-law came to Shanghai, Xiang Quan and I were the ones who brought you and eldest brother into our house. He took the initiative to ask to live outside with his eldest brother. Do you dare to swear that there is no such thing?"

Grandma pouted.

Father Sun lit a cigarette and puffed, as if he didn't hear her words.

Zhang Jing looked at Sun Xiangyang: "Brother, you are also here, you can prove it. Is it because I don't let you live in my house, or do you leave voluntarily?"

Sun Xiangyang nodded: "We left your house on our own initiative." He pulled his mother, "Mom, Xiao Jing invited us to live in her house, but we felt it was inconvenient and asked to live outside..."

"Don't speak good things to her." Sun Ma glared at him. "As an elder brother, it may be inconvenient for you to live in their house. But after you leave, will Zhang Jing say something to invite us to go home?"

Zhang Jing looked away, she was too aware of the virtues of grandparents and grandparents, as long as she said a few polite words, they would move home immediately.She can't stand their bad habits.

Ye Xiaodan lowered her head, a mother-in-law who has so many things to do may have already had a problem with her second daughter-in-law, whose eyes are above her head.It's just that because of the other party's family background, I dare not show dissatisfaction.Now that the grievances are deep, I can vomit quickly.

Father Sun said angrily, "It's because we think we are dirty, we smell bad, we can't speak Shanghainese, and we don't deserve to live in that spacious and bright house."

Father Zhang frowned: "Father-in-law, just speak out if you have any opinions, don't use such a sarcastic tone."

Father-in-law put out the fireworks and put his hands on his hips: "Father-in-law, you told me to say this! In other people's homes, grandparents take care of the children. But what about us? We came all the way to the grandchildren's house, but we couldn't touch the children. You, the grandparents, occupy the children every day. What's the matter?"

"Dad!" Sun Xiangyang was very helpless and stopped him, "What are you talking about? Xiang Quan is helpless in Shanghai, thanks to his old father-in-law and mother-in-law who help take care of the children. Wow, our family has no time to thank them. How can we say this?" talk?"

"Bah!" Sun's mother spat at him, "Sun Xiangyang, you bastard, why do you always turn your elbows out? Our old Sun's family only has one grandson, Mingxu, and your father and I think about grandson day and night. When I came back to Shanghai, I just wanted to be with my grandson, but their family didn’t let us see it, do you know what’s going on with us?”

"That's right." Dad grandson chimed in, "Mingxu is the seed of our old grandson's family. We are grandparents by our side, so it's only natural for us to see our grandson."

Zhang's father said kindly, "No one is stopping you from watching the children."

"You sound good." Father Sun snorted angrily, "You said let us watch the children, but you and the children's grandma pick up and drop off the children every day. I see that you clearly dislike us as rural people and have no roots in Shanghai. Deliberately keep the children away from us."

Grandma Sun yelled: "Dear-in-law, tell me, what are you so worried about? Is this just trying to change the law and take my son Xiangquan away from us? You enjoy the family happiness and win over our son, Grandson of our family! You want our old couple to raise a son for you for nothing."

Sun Xiangyang sighed while resting his forehead, and squatted on the ground.

Dad Zhang cleared his throat: "My father-in-law, my mother-in-law. Are you finished? Can I say a few words?"

Grandma Sun snorted: "You can say it if you want to!"

Father Zhang smiled slightly: "First of all, I want to point out that Xiaojing's mother and I have never thought of snatching Xiangquan from you. We helped Xiangquan and Xiaojing take care of their children in order to reduce their burden. Let them concentrate on their work. As for the two children Mingxu and Mingrui who are close to us and keep a distance from you, it is time to reflect on your problems."

Father Sun stared at the boss: "What's wrong with us?"

Zhang's father said bluntly: "You value boys over girls, and tell Mingxu every day that he is the most important heir of the family, and everything in the family will belong to him in the future, which caused Mingxu's vanity to inflate, discriminated against women in the kindergarten, and was bullied by children. They were isolated, which caused Mingxu's cognition of life to be confused at a young age. Mingrui also began to hate herself for being a girl, and was particularly sensitive to what her parents and others said. Both children had psychological deviations. The teacher's teachings have only been relieved, isn't this your problem?"

Grandma Sun tried to argue, "We are not wrong. Girls will marry sooner or later. They are raised by others, and only boys are their own."

Father Sun is also very stubborn: "As the old saying goes, there are three types of unfilial piety, and the greatest thing is to have no offspring. This 'post' refers to men."

Zhang Jing stared at them fiercely: "It's unreasonable! My head is full of feudal thoughts."

Ye Xiaodan thought it was funny. Back then Zhang Jing was very proud of giving birth to a son, and she also said that boys are the first priority, but now she has turned 180 degrees.

Father Zhang restrained his smile and looked at Father Sun and Mother Sun: "It seems that your idea of ​​patriarchy is deeply rooted. In this case, I have nothing to talk to you about. If you want to take care of your children in the future, you can meet Ming Xu. As for him Whether we like to get along with you or not, we respect the opinions of our children."

Dad Sun yelled: "You sound good. We wanted to take Mingxu out to play yesterday, but he didn't go with us at all. You must have spoken ill of us to them."

"Haven't you seriously thought about why Mingxu didn't go with you?" Zhang's father sneered, "Mingxu has gone to kindergarten now, and half of the children in his class are girls, so your patriarchal concept has affected Mingxu. Xu, Mingxu brought your theory to the kindergarten, only to find that he was ridiculed by his classmates. The children began to dislike him, and at home, his sister also began to dislike him. He felt uncomfortable and began to understand the concept of equality between men and women , naturally hate you who taught him wrong ideas."

Sun's father was at a loss for words, and Sun's mother was also speechless.

"Father-in-law, mother-in-law, now is a democratic society, and men and women are equal. Besides, if your family has the throne, must a boy inherit it?"

Father Sun muttered: "Anyway, we think boys are important, and that's the reason why you say it's breaking the sky."

Father Zhang frowned: "Dear family, if I also have your thoughts. I will ask Mingxu to name our family, do you think that is appropriate?"

Father Sun and Mother Sun were stunned. Father Sun came to his senses and shook his head vigorously: "You can't do that, you are killing us!"

"Family, I think boys and girls are the same. Children take their father's surname according to our Chinese tradition, so I have no dispute. If you think that giving birth to a girl will cut off the root, I think I have to change my mind and combine the two children. Changed his surname to Zhang."

Grandpa turned pale in shock: "My in-laws, don't! We won't fight in the future. Boys and girls are the same. We won't favor sons over daughters. Children can do whatever they want. Don't change their surnames!"

Sun's mother also panicked, seeing her youngest son Sun Xiangquan walking towards this side, she quickly grabbed him by the collar: "Xiang Quan, listen to what your father-in-law said, he wants to change Ming Xu's surname, and he will definitely not give up." The roots of our family!"

(End of this chapter)