Beidiao Workplace Illustrated Book

Chapter 221 Spring 2020 (1)

After returning from Wang Shuang's hometown, Chen's father and Chen's mother chased Chen Mo and asked, "How is Wang Shuang's family? Do his parents like you?"

"His parents like me very much, and their family is just like that." Chen Mo replied.

"It's just like that, so what?"

"Rural families, their family conditions are not as good as ours. At least, they don't have a few decent tile-roofed houses like ours." Chen Mo began to introduce Wang Shuang's house to his parents. They are all honest farmers, living a very frugal life.

After Chen's father and Chen's mother listened, Chen's father sighed: "Our family is an ordinary farmer's family. If you marry Wang Shuang, it's a well-matched family. What else do you choose?"

Chen's mother said: "After listening to you talk about her parents, I feel a little distressed. There are two sisters, Wang Shuang, and they have no brothers. Her parents live frugally and live diligently, not because they will grow old in the future and have no sons. Is it a burden to my daughter? She is saving money now to provide for her own pension. Alas, Chen Mo, maybe I am too soft-hearted, and I don’t want to listen to other people’s hard life. Who made us suffer from poverty and hard life before? "

After hearing what his parents said, Chen Mo remained silent. He had his own thoughts in his heart.

He is a rural person, his thinking, his pattern, the blood in his bones, and his values ​​are all out-and-out rural peasant thoughts.From the perspective of the original ecology of the family, it was his parents who gave him these ideas and have influenced him to this day.If he didn't go to college because of his studies, after graduation and BJ, he might still be the epitome of his parents now.But he was unwilling to let himself become a farmer again.Therefore, he wants to change himself, his future family, and his next generation.

How to change the next generation?He had thought about this question seriously.In the future, he will live in the city, at least from his generation, he is no longer a rural person.His children in the future will become real urbanites. From birth to growing up, they will be exposed to the urban environment, but Chen Mo only changes the material environment for the children. The things in his bones are those rural areas that Chen Mo was born with. Thoughts, he cannot change, and will subtly affect his future children.And the only thing that can change the child is the child's mother. What kind of person is the child's mother?No matter what kind of thinking you have, there is no doubt that the best choice is that the child's mother is an authentic urbanite.

If both parents are from the countryside, it is considered that the child was born and grew up in the city and received the environment and education in the city.Then he will also be subtly influenced by his rural-born parents.To complete the real transformation from rural ideology to urban ideology, we can only place our hopes on the next generation of children.

Chen Mo has calculated this account, if he marries a wife from a rural area, and he and his wife live in the city, the children they will have in the future will only be considered half urbanites.And the child's next generation, that is, his grandson, can be counted as most of the city people.Only the children of his grandson, that is, his great-grandson, can be counted as true urbanites.Along the way, Chen Mo changed his family's genetic transformation from a farmer to an urbanite, and it took four generations to completely complete it.

But if he marries a daughter-in-law who was born and raised in a city now, the children they will have in the future will be regarded as more than half of urban residents, because the child lives in the city, plus the influence of an urban mother, most of the genes in the child's bones The attribute is a city person, and the child will become a real city person when he has another child in the future.It only takes three generations to completely complete the transformation.

He thinks so much, he thinks so far, and he thinks so great.But his parents will never understand what he thinks, they only know how to inherit the incense and prosper.Why do they care who the child is, what will be the character and fate of the child in the future?To Chen's father and mother, whether the child has the attributes of rural thinking or urban thinking is insignificant.

But in Chen Mo's view, these are very important and crucial.

In his bones, he wanted to change himself, his future family, and his family's genes, because the genes, thoughts and temperament in his body were given to him by his parents, but they were all what he hated now.He can no longer change and abandon these genes, he can only pin his hopes on his future wife and his children.

The more people lack something, the more they care about it.This is what he cares most about. This is a problem that he can't change himself in his whole life, but it is also something that he wants to use his life's efforts to change the next generation.

The atmosphere of the Spring Festival lacks firecrackers, so it lacks the festivities of the past. Due to the occurrence of special circumstances, it lacks the custom and practice of visiting friends on the street.According to the old rules in the countryside, in the first year of a girl's marriage, her mother's family will go to the girl's house to see her daughter.But this year, the emergence of special circumstances has caused all gathering activities to be cancelled.It was planned that more than a dozen members of the Chen family would go to Chen Jing's in-law's house to visit relatives, but it was eventually cancelled.Only Chen Mo took his parents to his daughter's in-law's house to visit the newly married Chen Jing.

The news began to be reported one after another, from Wucheng to the entire lake province, became the focus of people's most attention.

People began to wear masks when traveling, and school and work in various places began to be postponed due to the epidemic.

Chen Mo also received a notice to postpone the start of construction, including the Jialing Siyuan project, which was said to be opened at the beginning of the first month, and the bid opening was also postponed due to the epidemic. The specific opening time is tentative.

A grandma of the Chen family passed away due to illness. Both Chen Mo and his father went to bury the old man. After the old man was buried, Chen Mo drove his father home from the cemetery.On the way, Chen's father sighed: "Human, if you say no, you won't. The old man was useless all his life when he was alive. When he left, he was buried like a dead child."

"Dad, do you think that after a person dies, will he miss his family members who are still alive?" Chen Mo opened the car window while driving, took out two cigarettes from the cigarette case, handed one to his father, and lit another one himself. , The father and son chatted while smoking.

"Yes, I will miss it, but it's useless to miss it, and I can't see anything." The father took a deep breath: "Mo, don't be so picky, hurry up and marry Wang Shuang, and have a baby early , I always want to hold my grandson in my dreams, but don't let my wish go to the cemetery."

Chen Mo didn't say a word. If it was just to fulfill his father's wish, he could definitely treat Wang Shuang well, and even get married early.In fact, it wasn't just Wang Shuang, who among the girls who were with him back then didn't think about marrying him?It's just that he never thought about getting married, it's just that he thinks marriage is too important.He is a selfish person, and any woman has never let him think about getting married.

He is used to being alone, and if he maintains a long-term and stable relationship, it will make him feel that life is meaningless. In the winter of 2017, he got along with Wu Xiaotian day and night, and at that time, he got tired of it.How smart Wu Xiaotian is, she could immediately feel Chen Mo's boredom of this long-term stable relationship, that's why Wu Xiaotian broke up, and in the end, they really broke up.

(End of this chapter)