Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 123

People with language skills are really powerful!Don't underestimate your power!
I just underestimated my own power, so I turned my sister into what I am now, and turned the children into what I am now!This is my real thought!But I refuse to admit it!
The children miss their mother, and of course they also miss their father. Their impression of their father is so thin that they hardly have any!It was that person's fault, and it seems I was wrong too!

But I have no way to say I'm sorry, because my sister's marriage is really an unsatisfactory marriage!Even if I go back to the past, I'm afraid I can't change my attitude!If we could live our lives over again, when would we change the decisions we made?
I don't even dare to live again!Except for marrying Tang Yufeng, I haven't made any right decisions. Going back to the past, wouldn't I make wrong decisions?The root of this is that I am not smart and have no overall perspective, am I?
I will also guide my sister's life!Only this time there will be a happy ending?Those two lovely children will probably never be there!But such cute two children!Children who make the world more colorful because of them should not be deprived of their right to come into this world!

I'm not those people who stick bad labels out there, I love these two kids deeply, they are not oil bottles!They are precious gifts!
Like my sister, I am very grateful that they came to this world!The joy they bring is unparalleled!Therefore, when they were labeled as evil, they felt extremely sad!Only then will they feel guilty for turning them into a single-parent family!
The strange thing is that I feel more sorry for my children, but I can treat them well, but it is difficult for my sister!

Are children's futures more shaping?

Like Tang Yufeng!He grew up in a single parent household!Although at the beginning, my father questioned whether children from single-parent families would have flaws in their personalities, just like now everyone is sure that Haohao and Xiaobao must have flaws in their birth process!
Facts have proved that there is nothing wrong with Tang Yufeng except that he has a heavy sense of responsibility for his family, is dependent on those around him, and absolutely needs our dependence!On the contrary, it is an advantage!
Therefore, if we raise Haohao and Xiaobao with love, they will probably be the same as Tang Yufeng!I really don't want their lives to become unlucky because of my intervention!
Aunt Su's daughter, the behavior of always criticizing Aunt Su now is very similar to me back then!However, as a bystander, I feel that I have seen it very clearly, which seems to only destroy the relationship between their mother and daughter!Like the previous aunt, the same job, because of the different attitudes of the family members, their relationship is very good!A chicken soup for the soul came to my mind, whether you live a good life or not depends on your attitude towards life!

Aunt Su's daughter's slanderous attitude will only exhaust both of them physically and mentally!She hoped that Aunt Su could live a noble life!Of course, each of us hopes that the people around us will have a wonderful life, and I hope my sister does the same!However, we have to face reality!Hope is just hope, what will happen in reality, there are many reasons, one's own attitude, one's own conditions, objective factors and objective conditions, after combining these, a lot of helplessness appears!

Just like many people have not engaged in their own professional work after graduating from university!What kind of person you will become and what kind of person you want to be may not necessarily be the same!

After Aunt Su's daughter fell for Aunt Su many times, Aunt Su also became unconfident!I tried my best to live as my daughter wished, but no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't live as my daughter wished, and I lost my confidence!The motivation to live is not so high anymore!

I used to think that my sister had a bad job, met bad people, and had a bad marriage...how could my sister like me?Didn't she work very hard and live very hard?She has lived the best life she can!It is my preference for her, my admiration for her, and my great hope for her!I didn't see her situation objectively!

Just blindly dislike her and find fault with her!In the end, when she said that she didn't like me, she cried out because of grievances, and said very sadly that I was the one who really cared for her!Am I really doing it for her?Just to satisfy my own wishes!

When I created too many problems and looked back, I saw my sister's efforts and saw my own narrow structure.

I was self-righteous again and felt that I had insight into the truth. I wanted to talk to Aunt Su's daughter and communicate with her!But I made a wrong posture again!Older people do not necessarily have the qualifications to educate people!

On the day the parents divorced, the daughter moved out with Aunt Su. The daughter didn't ask them why they divorced. It seemed that she thought it was the father's problem, but she didn't say anything. Aunt Su didn't take anything away from that house, and neither did she!She encourages her mother to embrace life, leave the family chores, do what she wants to do, and find a field she loves to shine!Live out her own posture and make her father regret it!
At that time, my daughter gave Aunt Su great encouragement and confidence!Let Aunt Su also feel that she can love life.But after stepping into the society, they realize that life is not as easy as they thought!It’s not about believing, it’s not about working hard to live a good life, and to live a life as you want.

The world has undergone earth-shaking changes in the past ten years, and the information is updated every day. It is impossible for a person who has been a housewife for 20 years to adapt to the current society and find a decent job!I can't bear to look back on the days when I couldn't find anything!Ignore and ignore from beginning to end, ignore again!Think about how happy I was when my daughter took the trouble to learn how to submit resumes, but how happy I was at that moment, and how disappointed I would be later, and there was no response!

But the mother and daughter still have to live!The daughter works half-study, and also pays Aunt Su's living expenses. Think about how Aunt Su felt at that time!
The only thing to do is to recognize the reality, that is, she can't do anything, even the basic Internet, and her eyes are starting to get old, and her eyesight is not good!It's impossible for anyone to ask her to do a decent job.People don't want to use her even in dishonorable jobs.Convenience store salespersons must be between 18 and 35 years old.A tally clerk in a supermarket is between 18 and 45 years old. When people see that she is 44 and has no work experience, they say no!The promoter was also rejected... In the end, she found a job as a domestic helper.

However, she knew that her daughter would be disappointed in this job, and her daughter was indeed disappointed, saying that there was still room for improvement as a salesperson.Housekeeping is just an old lady who is sent by others until death!
So Aunt Su hesitated and hesitated to do this job, and she kept it from her daughter at first!Anyway, my daughter is at school!
(End of this chapter)