I make a thriller, it's God chasing and feeding

Chapter 373 [Can you guess what I am thinking]

"Wow! I want to hug! I want to hug!"

When Zhengyi Lu finished his day's shooting and returned to the hotel to have some time alone with his family, he turned on the video, and the first thing that reached his ears was a loud cry.

In the background of the picture, a little chubby kid who was probably only as high as his calf was sitting on the bed, crying 'Wow wow wow'.

In his mouth, he still said vague sentences from time to time.

But compared to before, his words are no longer unintelligible. At least, as a mother, Zhang Xueming can still understand him, instead of needing an interpreter.

"I see you guys are shooting pretty fast. You should be able to get back before June, right?"

Zhang Xueming put her mobile phone next to her desk, and while working on her laptop, she asked, "Do you have to hold a birthday party for your child? Do you have any ideas then? It will still be like the full moon party. Have a banquet and have a meal?”

It was like she was wearing a blocker. She couldn't hear the cries and mumbled words at all, leaving the child to make noises in the bed.

Lu Zhengyi and the others were originally almost ready to start filming in December last year, but because of Lu Yiyong's relationship, it was delayed for several months. It was not until the end of the Chinese New Year this year that the filming was started in early March.

It’s the end of April now, and I’ve been shooting for more than a month.

The film "Horror Cruise" involves a lot of scenes and details, and the shooting period is not as short as those of the previous films, so at least three months is enough.

"Your thoughts?"

Lu Zhengyi hesitated for a moment and threw the question back.

What he thinks doesn't matter. It's just a birthday party. It doesn't matter how you celebrate it.

Mainly it was Zhang Xueming’s idea.

Honestly, it’s a great networking opportunity.

Children’s full-moon banquet, first-year-old banquet, school entrance banquet...

Perhaps for ordinary people, this is a day worth celebrating, but for some entrepreneurs, it is a good opportunity to develop and maintain connections.

I'll attend your child's birthday party, give you a gift, get to know him first, and let him recognize you as an 'uncle'. You can attend my child's college entrance party, learn about his grades, and learn about the things your child has been exposed to in school. They are all from some kind of family...

"I feel like we can't do it anymore. It's quite troublesome. And after all, what can An An understand about these banquets? It's better to play with the two of us." However, Zhang Xueming put forward an idea, "In this way, our family can Let’s go to an amusement park as a family. I haven’t been to an amusement park for a long time.”

She was a little eager to try.

"And I've been very busy during this period, and I haven't had much time to rest."

"I have to go to work during the day, and sometimes I don't get a good rest at night. I feel that my schedule is gradually getting worse. It's quite tiring."

"I want to relax, go to an amusement park, don't care about anything, just have fun."

she continued.

By accident, Zhang Xueming exposed her recent routine.

However, things like work and rest cannot be maintained forever after being established.

Fortunately for children, except for going to school, they have relatively free time at other times, and their schedules are relatively easy to maintain.

But adults are always delayed because of things like this.

I got angry today, had a cold, had a fever... I wasn't feeling well, so I thought I should go to bed early, adjust my schedule, and boost my immunity.

But after working hard for a while, I finally adjusted it, but it was easy to adjust it back again due to various things, over and over again.

In addition to some social and life pressures and tasks that make people have to stay up late, part of the reason is lack of self-control.

If a person wants to be responsible for his own body and really wants to adjust his work and rest, of course there is still a way.

But as an adult, I no longer have my parents to pressure and control me like I did when I was a child, so I often fall under my own self-control.

Very few people are able to maintain a healthy routine just by relying on their own willpower.

Often, assistance from outsiders is needed.

Seeing the helpless expression on Lu Zhengyi's face, Zhang Xueming realized what he had exposed and looked at the camera eagerly, "I...I should prepare to mention my job now. My father wants to Leave the company entirely to me."

"But this requires some performance support."

"Although my current position is actually quite stable, I have been at home for such a long time. In the past year or so, many newcomers who have just joined the company don't even know me. I still have to do something quickly to truly To serve the public.”

But when she spoke, her tone was a little weak.

In order to develop the habit, Lu Zhengyi was supervising her every day.

She knew very well that her husband was actually more concerned about his health than his work.

"……Feel sorry."

However, when Lu Zhengyi spoke, he did not say anything reproachful.

Instead, he looked somewhat guilty.

"The child is still young now. I was supposed to help take care of it at home, but I ended up being busy at work and left everything to you."

He said seriously, hugging himself to himself.

But this is also a fact. They all have to go to work and are busy with work. But compared to being outside, they are more relaxed and free. In addition to work, she also has to take care of her children.

"No, no, my parents also help take care of me."

Listening to this serious and guilty tone, Zhang Xueming quickly spoke, "The main thing is that I want to spend more time with him and work. In fact, I don't work that hard, and the workload is not that heavy. I find work for myself. Ergan.”

Maybe for some people who get married without any preparation, they often have conflicts over taking care of their children.

But they are different.

Money is still very important sometimes, and there may be more choices.

If the couple thinks about it, there will definitely be no shortage of people to take care of the children. Whether it is finding a nanny or... other methods, the children will never be short of people to take care of them, and this process only requires money. .

It's just that they all feel that since they are married and have decided to have children, they cannot let their children lose this part of their parents and live the same life as they did when they were children.

So they didn't hire a nanny or let others take care of them. They relied on family members to take care of their children.

But at the end of the day...

"Regardless of whether you have increased the workload on yourself, it is a fact that I have not fulfilled my obligations. Thank you for your hard work."

Lu Zhengyi didn't want to go down the steps because of his wife's understanding, and said, "Why do you need to increase the workload now? Can't you wait until the children are older and go to school before going to work?" Take good care of the children...'

Hurting words like that.

After having children, she did not give up her career, and Zhang Xueming certainly had such a right.

It doesn't matter which party is closer and the nature of the work is easier to take care of, the other party can enjoy this preferential treatment with peace of mind.

What's more, for Zhang Xueming, career is really important.

So far, most of her life has been spent fighting for light and shadow. If she didn't need an heir in the future, she might not have chosen to have a child because it would affect her working time.

But now that she has a child, of course she is working hard to shoulder her responsibilities as a mother.

Just in terms of energy, you may have to pay more.

"...Thank you for your hard work."

Zhang Xueming pursed her lips and looked at him.

He is always so considerate and always able to think about problems from his own perspective and understand himself.

But to be more precise, it should be said that the husband is good at taking on anyone's perspective and thinking about problems from any angle, whether he is a director, an actor, a boy, a girl, a husband, a wife, or a parent.

Regardless of profession or gender, he is able to consider issues from the other person's perspective.

So even though Lu Zhengyi looks very fierce in appearance, as long as there is a certain amount of contact time, everyone will abandon the impression of appearance and become dependent on him. They unconsciously want to get close to him and crowd around him.

Reliability, tolerance...these are the reasons why people approach him.

"Dad, dad, dad, dad!"

Over there, the child shouted for a long time, but finally found that it was of no use. He got off the bed and stumbled over here.

Lu Yongan also saw the people in the video.

"What, you finally saw me?"

Lu Zhengyi watched in amusement as the camera was pushed downwards, and the chubby little man walked as if he had drunk fake wine.

But at least he can walk on his own.

"Hug, hug."

Little Fatty came to the chair and opened his arms towards Zhang Xueming, "Mom, give me a hug."

"Oh, are you willing to go by yourself?"

Zhang Xueming picked him up and held him in front of the camera, "Come, say hello to dad. I miss him."

She ignored him before to train him.

This brat was spoiled by his grandmother and grandparents. Even though he could walk, he had to be carried wherever he went.

In the past, when he was just born, it was fine to just be held in his arms.

But now he is almost one year old. If I continue to act like this, he will still be stumbling around when he is one and a half or two years old. How can that be okay?

It took only a few steps to get off the bed and walk to the table. If she could walk by herself, she would definitely not spoil the child.

"Think about it!"

Lu Yongan's voice is very loud. He eats a lot, grows strong, and has a lot of momentum.

"Miss you, Dad!"

He yelled in front of the camera until his voice broke.

Many children are prone to making a lot of noise, and even a simple word can feel like they are yelling.

"Speak softly!"

Zhang Xueming scolded him coldly and pinched his fat face gently with her hand, "Grandpa and grandma are sleeping. You will wake them up by shouting like this."

Although she was scolding, her tone was more helpless.

Obviously, she is not as comfortable educating her children as she is at work.

"Dad! I miss you so much!"

However, Lu Yongan shouted loudly into his mobile phone as if he didn't hear it.

In public places, most people find it very noisy.

But in fact, children do not fully understand the concepts of "quiet" or "loud", let alone the appropriateness of these sounds in different situations. This requires parents as guides and educators to let children have the correct understanding. cognition.

Of course, this process must be gradual.

"Dad will go back in a while. In another... half a month, I'll take a leave to go back."

Lu Zhengyi said warmly, but there was some hesitation in his tone.

After all, the filming has been delayed for a long time, and the drama has been delayed for more than a year now.

If I take a few more leaves, I'm afraid it will take two years to film this movie.

After all, this is a trip abroad, and the round trip will take at least two days, and usually one day.

For two years, he had no problems.

But he was not the only one on the crew, there were so many people waiting to eat.

Even if Bai Wei and the others are not short of money, they still have their own things to do.

"Half, um, half a month?"

Lu Yongan looked at him blankly and understood what he said.

He muttered "Wow wow wow" for a while, and finally uttered a few words clearly.

The voice was not as sharp as before, making people feel noisy, and the tone was similar to Lu Zhengyi's voice.

"Yeah, half a month."

Lu Zhengyi smiled gently and responded to his words in a very calm tone, "You count on your fingers. Every day that passes is one day. After counting with three palms, it will be half a month."

Lu Yongan was very smart. He stared at the screen with his dark eyes for a while, then lowered his head and counted on his fingers.

But after counting for a while, he found that his fingers were not enough, so he quickly grabbed Zhang Xueming's sleeve.

"He wants you to lend him your palm."

Lu Zhengyi reminded him with a smile.

Zhang Xueming looked at the exchange between father and son with complicated eyes. He stretched out his palm and lent five fingers to his son.

Lu Yongan sat obediently in her arms, looking at his own hands, and then at his mother's outstretched hands, probably counting.

"I'm a little jealous."

Zhang Xueming pouted, "I've obviously been here longer, but why does this brat just listen to you? Did you use some magic?"

She was referring to those special powers.

Otherwise, how could it be possible that a mother like me, who is always waiting by her side every day, would not be as good as her father who has left and been working outside for a month and a half? It should be that I want to get closer.

"Yes, I used patience magic."

Lu Zhengyi looked at her helplessly.

"Ouch!"

Zhang Xueming raised an eyebrow, "You mean, I have no patience?"

"...No, I mean, we need more attention."

Lu Zhengyi knew that he had said something wrong, so he quickly made up for it, "Actually, I think you can try buying a small camera and wearing it on him to record a first-person video of a child."

"As long as you watch one or two videos, you can actually understand that children actually have many problems, and they are not unreasonable."

"I think there may be a reason why An An doesn't want to listen to you."

Obviously, he noticed that the child didn't want to listen to her just now.

Even he knew the reason, but it made her feel sad more than saying it to himself.

It would be better and more profound for her as a mother to understand it herself.

"So experienced."

Zhang Xueming said softly, "You often take on other people's perspectives, right? Then can you guess what I'm thinking about now?"

She stared blankly at the camera.

"..."

Lu Zhengyi was stunned for a moment, then met her eyes in the camera. After a while, he nodded, "I know."

(End of this chapter)