There is a glimmer of light in the world

Chapter 110 Psychological Counseling for Zhao Gener

Zhao Gen'er didn't know what kind of medicine Li Jing was selling in Hululi, so he couldn't wait and began to curse again, "Hello? What do you mean? Don't think that I won't dare to hit you if the police are guarding you..."

"You didn't have a drink today?" Li Jing calmed down and raised a faint smile on her lips, "Alcohol can easily make people dizzy, lose their judgment, and do stupid and regrettable things."

Zhao Gen'er was furious, "You, you..."

Li Jing sat down on the sponge stool, looked at the irritable Zhao Gen'er calmly, and asked slowly: "Why do you think I'm here to harm you? The day you abused Fangfang was the first time we met, and today is the first time we met. The second time. We have no grudges, not even acquaintances, why should I harm you?"

"I have long heard that there is a foreign female doctor in the village. She likes to meddle in other people's business and is very talkative. She can make people listen to her by just saying a few words to people. The key is that she is an old acquaintance of Xiao Yu! Xiao Yu If you are with him and put me in jail, of course you will also harm me! Now that Hongxia is determined to divorce me, I don’t even have to think about it. You must have been the one who got in the way and confused Hongxia!"

As Zhao Gener spoke, he lost control of his emotions again and was completely trapped in the world he took for granted. His eyes were blurred and his expression was dull. Sometimes he muttered to himself, not knowing what he was mumbling, and sometimes he suddenly yelled, "You won't help me! You harmful person, you are just like Xiao Yu, you want to send me to prison and break up Hongxia and me!"

Li Jing immediately took a bottle of mineral water, unscrewed the cap, handed it to Zhao Gen'er, and said, "If you want me to help you, just do as I say. Now drink some water, adjust your breathing, and look out the window. The scenery, feel the sunshine, try not to think about anyone, calm down first!”

Her eyes and words were inexplicably convincing. Zhao Gener unconsciously took the mineral water and followed her instructions one by one.

While Zhao Gener was facing the window and was quiet and relaxing, Li Jing took out her work notebook and recorded Zhao Gener's clinical symptoms in detail.

About 3 minutes later, Zhao Gener staggered back, sat heavily on the edge of the bed, and asked decadently: "Will you really help me? Hongxia said that she was very disappointed in me, and she wanted to take Fangfang away. normal life."

"I can see that you have deep feelings for Bai Hongxia and you love her very much." Li Jing did not answer, but found an entry point and began to guide Zhao Gen'er to pour out his heart.

Zhao Gen'er said without hesitation, "Hongxia is my first love, I love her very much, and I will never get divorced!"

Li Jing smiled slightly, "I think your love story must be beautiful."

"Yes, I fell in love with Hongxia at first sight. I fell in love with her the first time I saw her!" Zhao Gen'er mentioned the past, and his dark pupils gradually became clear, "Hongxia and I met in a hotel. At that time , I have already graduated and am the head chef of the hotel. The boss trusts me very much and gives me the management of the entire back kitchen. When Hongxia went to the hotel to apply for a waiter position, the boss was out to purchase goods, so I interviewed Hongxia on behalf of the boss. Xia. That day, she was wearing a red dress, hairpins on her hair, a dimple on her face, and a very beautiful smile..."

Zhao Gen'er fell into sweet memories and was immersed in the throbbing of seeing Bai Hongxia for the first time.The scene that day that year was replayed over and over again in front of his eyes. He clearly remembered every detail and every dialogue between him and Bai Hongxia.The unforgettable love caused his thoughts to deviate and entered the dead end of extreme cognition. It also made him calm down, follow his heart, and share and release his most unforgettable and cherished emotions without reservation.

"Did you know that Hongxia is very capable and careful in her work? Customers often praise her, and she is not shy about picking up gold. No matter what the customer leaves behind, she will carefully keep it and return it intact to the customer. During the quarterly summary, Hongxia Xia was rated as an outstanding employee and received a bonus of 500 yuan. As for me, I have had a crush on her for a long time. Using the excuse of celebrating her, I finally got up the courage to give her a cake and confess my love to her. But, what about her? Without saying a word, I took the cake and left. I was discouraged and felt uncomfortable for a while, but I still liked her. Whenever I saw an opportunity, I would secretly visit her. Every day during the staff meal, I would keep my selfishness in mind. I specialize in cooking the dishes she likes. Then one day, a drunk customer made trouble and bullied Hongxia. When I found out, I rushed out from the kitchen with a spatula to protect her. She was so moved that she knitted a scarf and gave it to me, praising her. I am brave, just, and a person who can be trusted..."

A person who has been decadent in the darkness and mud for too long suddenly has light in his eyes, has the spirit of living, and has the hope of growing towards the sun.

Li Jing was quite pleased.

She acted as a qualified listener and quickly recorded the entire process of the initial diagnosis.

The story was very long. Zhao Gen'er told it for a long time, talking about their marriage, Fangfang's birth, and the fire accident that destroyed his happy family and completely dragged his life into hell...

The light that had just been lit suddenly went out!

Zhao Gener burst into tears!
Officer Liu hurriedly came in to check the situation, and saw Zhao Gen'er crying like a child, crying with sadness and despair. He completely lost his previous hateful appearance, and instead made people feel pitiful and sympathetic.

Li Jing told Officer Liu not to worry. Zhao Gener could vent the painful emotions that had been accumulated for many years, which would be conducive to psychological counseling.

After crying for a long time, Zhao Gen'er cried until her voice became hoarse, and she fell on the bed weakly.

Li Jing put away her work notebook, took out her makeup mirror and placed it in front of Zhao Gen'er. She said in a gentle tone: "We talked a lot today. If you are tired, take a good rest first. I will come see you again."

Zhao Gen'er reached out and grabbed Li Jing's arm, her eyes filled with tears, "You... when will you get Hongxia back to me?"

"Then when can you become the brave, just and trustworthy person in Hongxia's mind? Zhao Gen'er, I am a psychiatrist. I can assist you as an external force, but the person who can really help you must be yourself! If you trust me, from now on, look in the mirror more, bask in the sun more, and exercise more."

After Li Jing said this, she took out a box of chocolates from her bag and handed it to Zhao Gener, "Chocolate can replenish dopamine, and dopamine can make people feel happy, better cope with tension, and relieve stress. If you are in a bad mood, When you want to smoke, drink, or feel out of control, you can eat a piece of chocolate and try to calm yourself down."

"Is it... if I do what you say, Hongxia will come back to me?" Zhao Gener held the makeup mirror in one hand and the chocolate in the other, looking at Li Jing excitedly and nervously, eager to hear The answer is yes.

However, Li Jing smiled and said, "The answer to this question is not with me. In fact, it is in your heart."

"What, what do you mean?"

"Don't worry, you will figure it out one day."

Li Jing put her bag on her back and took a step forward. Suddenly she remembered something and added: "By the way, I am a doctor. I only see patients and no acquaintances. I am not helping Xiao Yu, but you."

Zhao Gen'er had a look of confusion on his face, and until Li Jing left, he still couldn't come back to his senses for a long time.

Officer Liu sent Li Jing to the door of the hotel and said with emotion: "Dr. Li, I think your psychiatrists face patients just like us police interrogating suspects. The rhythm and content of the conversation, including emotional guidance, are all under control." middle."

Li Jing smiled and said: "Haha, it does sound like they have something in common."

"I work in a township and rarely have the opportunity to come into contact with a psychiatrist. My understanding of psychology is only criminal psychology related to our profession. I saw Dr. Li doing a consultation today and found that psychology is really amazing. In just a few words , he changed an irritable and unreasonable person!"

"Psychosomatic medicine helps patients solve psychological problems. Depending on the disease and the patient's willpower, the treatment time can range from a few weeks to a few years, and it may not be completely cured. Zhao Gen'er experienced serious physical injuries that year. , without timely crisis intervention and psychological counseling, leading to mental disorder, and that's why we got to where we are today step by step. Based on Zhao Gener's obsession with Bai Hongxia, I tried to use imagination and memory therapy, which was quite effective."

"Dr. Li, you are really a good doctor with a kind heart and great professionalism. An ordinary person would definitely hate Zhao Gen'er to death. After all, the person he hurt was your old classmate."

"Haha, because I know that there are deep reasons behind Zhao Gener's irritability and subversion of his three views. Hatred cannot solve the problem. Only by curing Zhao Gener's mental illness with scientific psychological medical methods can things be in a virtuous circle."

Li Jing checked the time and saw that her date with Xiao Yu was almost over, so she waved goodbye to Officer Liu and headed to the town government.

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In the interview room temporarily set up by the investigation team, Xiao Yu truthfully told the entire process of the incident that day, including every detail, as well as all the words and deeds of other people present, when facing interrogation from the county committee, discipline inspection commission, and town government personnel.

After that, there is a Q&A based on the issues involved in the incident.

Investigator: "What is the relationship between the other party involved in the conflict, Li Jing, and you?"

Xiao Yu: "We are both high school classmates and lovers."

Investigator: "Have you and Zhao Gen'er had any conflicts before? Was there any quarrel or anything like that?"

Xiao Yu: "No."

Investigator: "What is your relationship with Bai Hongxia? Have you ever persuaded Bai Hongxia to divorce?"

Xiao Yu: "Before the conflict, I had never met Bai Hongxia, nor had any contact with her, nor did I instigate Bai Hongxia to divorce."

Investigator: “Do you have anything to say about Zhao Gener’s accusation?”

Xiao Yu: "I believe that protecting the safety of people's property is the basis for party members and cadres to win the trust of the people. Zhao Fangfang and Li Jing are women and children who have no ability to protect themselves. When they are in danger, I have no other choice and must stand up. .”

(End of this chapter)