If life had a starting line, someone was born in Rome

Chapter 166 Self-motivated giving!It will only make the child feel stressed! ([-]-in-[-])

Just when Zhao Shengrui was thinking about his own thoughts and was confused.

His parents were sitting on the sofa in the living room, holding their mobile phones and typing away.

At this moment, Zhang Liufang's cell phone rang, and she picked it up.

"Director, please just approve my leave!"

"Yes, yes, it's about my Sheng Rui."

"Yes, the connection is during off-duty hours, but I have to consider unexpected situations."

"What if there is a traffic jam or something and I can't get home in time? This opportunity is too rare to allow any surprises."

"You also have children, please be considerate, please."

Zhang Liufang was chattering, and Zhao Zhixing was also sending a message to his boss.

"Manager, I know you don't understand why I have to take leave now after get off work."

"I have no choice. There is no room for error in this kind of thing. I have to prepare in advance."

"Manager, you know my usual work attitude, but there is really nothing I can do today."

"I have to take this leave. If you don't approve it, I'll be considered absent from work."

The couple worked hard for more than ten minutes and finally got the leave approved.

After settling this matter, the two of them walked quietly to the door of Zhao Shengrui's room without having time to drink water to moisten their throats.

I listened carefully, but there was still no movement.

Then, the two of them thought of the cold breakfast on the dining table and sighed heavily.

"I haven't eaten. This depression is really killing me."

"He doesn't speak in the family group either. I don't know if he has read the link I sent."

"Well, it depends on today's connection. We asked for leave specifically."

"Yes, for this connection, I have spoken harshly to the manager. I hope Teacher Lin can help us solve our dilemma."

"I hope so. I have been begging the director for a long time."

"I have pity on all the parents in the world!"

"..."

The voices of the two people talking reached Zhao Shengrui's ears through the wooden door.

He turned over silently and covered his ears with the quilt.

Obviously the connection is during off-duty hours. I think Teacher Lin arranged this so as not to delay the parents' work.

But why do parents have to take leave now? !

Why can’t they understand? The more this happens, the greater the pressure it puts on me!

Zhao Shengrui covered his head and ears, feeling depressed and annoyed.

At this moment, his mood was extremely bad.

Zhao Zhixing and his wife, who were outside the door, were talking and listening to what was going on in the room.

Seeing that the child had no reaction, Zhao Zhixing picked up the phone helplessly, cheered up and said to his wife:
"Let's watch the show and keep an eye on Teacher Lin's movements."

Zhang Liufang nodded and stretched his head over.

At this time, the two discovered that there were many news pop-ups on the mobile phone screen, some of which were related to Lin Feng.

They quickly clicked in and started looking.

After a long time, the two looked at each other with happy smiles on their faces.

“If you don’t know, it turns out that the migrant workers’ success in asking for wages is also due to Teacher Lin!”

"Haha, even that place and those people are locked up, it's Teacher Lin who has the greatest influence!"

After sighing, Zhang Liufang looked expectant:

"Old Zhao, do you think Teacher Lin is so powerful? If he takes action, our family's problems will be solved?"

Zhao Zhixing nodded, with a look of longing on his face:

"Teacher Lin has saved so many people before. He must have a solution for my family's matter."

"I hope that through his enlightenment, this child Sheng Rui can study hard as before, get into a good university and find a good job in the future. In this way, we as parents will feel at ease."

Zhang Liufang glanced at her son's closed door, felt a little melancholy in her heart, and said:
"This kid has a tough mental capacity!"

"Hey, let's pay attention to learning Teacher Lin's communication method later. It can come in handy in the future."

Zhao Zhixing nodded in agreement.

The volume of the conversation between the two was not low, even though Zhao Shengrui had covered his ears with a quilt, but it penetrated into his ears.

He sighed inaudibly, thinking of Lin Feng:

"Faced with this situation in my family, does Teacher Lin have any way to deal with it?"

After thinking about it for a while, Zhao Shengrui still tended to believe Lin Feng.

Because he found that the situation in his family was very similar to that of Zhang Xin and Wang Jianfeng's family that Teacher Lin had dealt with before.

All three of them had too much inappropriate pressure from their families, which caused problems in their children.

Of course, everyone is still different. The three chickens have different methods, and their personalities are also different.

In my own family, parents are obsessed with comparing themselves with other people’s children.

Euphemistically called: setting an example.

This method really puts too much pressure on myself!

However, there was no way he could talk to his parents.

Because of parents’ personalities, they don’t pay attention to their children’s opinions. If they go up to speak out on their own, it can easily cause conflicts.

In order to avoid this kind of conflict, I had to hold it in.

However, how can problems not arise under long-term depression?

My state is caused by holding it in for too long and not having an outlet to vent my pressure.

However, now Teacher Lin appears.

Since he can make Zhang Xin and Wang Jianfeng's parents aware of their problems, he should also find a way to make his own parents aware of their problems.

Not blindly, but through the videos he saw on the Internet, Zhao Shengrui believed that Teacher Lin was a teacher who was good at peeling off the cocoons and seeing the true meaning from the subtleties.

After thinking so much, Zhao Shengrui's depressed mood was slightly relieved, and he began to look forward to the next connection.

……

time flies.

In a blink of an eye, it’s time for school to end at Xiangzhang Primary School.

When the bell rang for the end of get out of class, Lin Feng put the chalk tip back into the box and smiled at the children:
"get out of class."

"stand up!"

All the children stood up neatly and bowed to Lin Feng:

"Thank you for your hard work, teacher, goodbye!"

Lin Feng nodded, picked up the lesson plan, walked out of the classroom, and prepared to return to the office.

As soon as he left, all the children started tidying up their desks, cleaning, and getting ready to go home with joy on their faces.

Today it was Heiwa's turn to clean the classroom, and the broom in his hand was about to throw out sparks.

While scanning, he kept urging the classmates around him:
"Please hurry up. My dad is back. I want to go back to see him as soon as possible."

"It's okay, you go back first."

The classmate responded generously and reached out to take the broom in Heiwa's hand.

However, Heiwa repeatedly refused:

"That won't work. I'm on duty. It's my job to do this."

The classmates who were on duty around him pursed their lips and smiled, then stepped forward to grab them:

"My dad said that your dad is here to get money for our family, so he can't come back. He asked me to take more care of you."

"How can we still care about this with you in this situation?"

"Besides, we are all classmates. What's wrong with us doing more every once in a while?"

"Hurry up and go home, your dad is still waiting to shoot a documentary with you!"

"Everyone in Xiangzhang Village cannot be missing!"

Amidst the laughter, Hei Wa's broom was snatched away.

At this time, Tao Dong appeared at the door of their lower grade classroom:
"Hei Wa, let's go together!"

Hei Wa smiled happily, put on his schoolbag, and trotted all the way:
"Let's go home and see dad."

The two of them jumped towards the school gate.

The leader of the photography team, Zhou Fengyu, carried the camera and followed steadily behind the two.

Today's shooting must be exciting.

Sun Wei and Wu Peng stood at the door of the classroom office and watched them leave.

Then, Sun Wei sighed with a smile: "I have been worried about Hei Wa and Tao Dong's father being absent from the filming of the documentary, but now the dust has finally settled."

Wu Peng was also very happy, rubbing his hands and saying:
"There's a lot of good news today! To celebrate, I asked Teacher Lin to teach me one more dish!"

After finishing speaking, the two looked at each other and smiled, and then Wu Peng knocked on the office door:

"Teacher Lin, take your little chef home quickly."

Lin Feng had already packed up, and when he heard Wu Peng's happy voice, he smiled and shook his head.

"Come on, let's go, what are the little chefs going to do today?"

"I will do whatever the teacher teaches me."

After chatting for a few words, Lin Feng glanced at the playground and did not see Tao Dong and Hei Wa.

Sun Wei was particularly discerning and quickly said:
"Teacher, while you were in the office, Hei Wa and Tao Dong had already gone home together. Photographer Uncle Zhou took the photo."

Lin Feng nodded and smiled reassuringly.

Hei Wa and Tao Dong have been looking forward to this moment for a long time.

Moreover, he also believes that these images recorded by the program team will accompany Hei Wa and Tao Dong forever, bringing them infinite warmth.

"Come on, let's go home too."

"Go home!"

Sun Wei and Wu Peng, like all the children in Xiangzhang Village, jumped out of the campus.

The three of them walked towards home together.

The viewers in the live broadcast room also smiled when they saw this scene.

"The two children, Sun Wei and Wu Peng, have become part of this place."

"Isn't this the life I want?"

"My heart feels warm. Wu Peng and Sun Wei, Hei Wa and Tao Dong, everyone has achieved their own perfection."

"Let's talk about the interesting things about the shooting tomorrow. Tao Dong and Hei Wa will not be absent!"

"Happiness is so simple."

……

Lin Feng courtyard.

Cooking smoke rises, and the fragrance fills the air.

As expected, Wu Peng was stalking Lin Feng and wanted to learn new dishes.

Lin Feng had no choice but to wear an apron and cook in person to demonstrate.

As soon as director Liu Yong entered the yard, he saw Lin Feng cooking and couldn't help but salivate.

Then, he scratched the kitchen door frame and asked with a smile:

"Teacher Lin, I would like to ask how long it will take you here?"

Lin Feng thought for a moment and replied:

"Two hours. Let's finish eating and take a rest. It will take about this time."

"Are we done eating?"

Liu Yong emphasized the word "we" because he was terrified when he had dinner with Lin Feng before.

But after getting along with each other for this period of time, they have become excited.

Lin Feng understood his hint, shook his head and smiled, and actively invited:

"Director Liu, if there's nothing else, let's eat together."

"Then... I will be disrespectful."

Liu Yong looked shy, waiting for the meal to begin.

The viewers in the live broadcast room were filled with jealousy.

"Woo, I want to eat the food cooked by Teacher Lin too!"

"I can't eat anymore, so I'd better look forward to the next connection."

“I can only imagine the taste of the food, but the connection is real.”

"Brothers, hurry up and order takeout, the electronic mustard is online!"

"My electronic mustard is Teacher Lin's education for parents [eating melon]"

"..."

Soon, Lin Feng and the director finished their meal.

Sun Wei and Wu Peng still cleaned up and cleaned quickly, while the director adjusted the equipment.

After everything was ready, Lin Feng nodded at Liu Yong, and the connection officially began!
"duo~"

The phone only rang once before being picked up, showing the urgency on the other side.

"Hello, Teacher Lin! My name is Zhang Liufang, my husband Zhao Zhixing, and my son Zhao Shengrui!"

Zhang Liufang has a fiery personality and introduces directly to the point, getting to the topic in one second:
"My son has been out of school for a semester because of depression!"

"The specific manifestations are that he is tired of studying and eating, and he shuts himself in his room every day and does not communicate with the outside world."

"His father and I are really worried about this! Let me tell you..."

Seeing that his wife was complaining to Lin Feng, Zhao Zhixing quickly interrupted her:
"Don't talk about whether there is something or not, theme, theme!"

"oh oh!"

Zhang Liufang stopped the complaining car and started talking about business:

"The situation of our family is not as good as the previous ones, but it is still more than adequate. The financial situation is acceptable."

"I have a house with a deposit of nearly [-] yuan. Of course, when the child grows up, the savings will also increase. I have told the child that I will pay him a down payment in the future."

"Moreover, his father and I have our own pensions and additional pension insurance. What we want is that parents should not put pressure on their children to provide for themselves in old age."

"We have done so much and have long-term plans. We just want to pave the way for our children's future as much as possible."

"But we never expected that before the financial pressure came, our children would fall into studying!"

Speaking of this, Zhang Liufang became extremely worried!
At this time, Zhao Zhixing added:
"I wonder if the material conditions have improved and there is no need to worry about the future. This child has begun to pursue vain spiritual satisfaction, which has led to depression!"

After saying this, he sighed:

"On the contrary, the children of those families whose economic conditions are not as good as ours, and whose parents are even waiting to support themselves in old age, will not be depressed."

"Teacher Lin, tell me, where can I go to reason?"

After saying this, Zhang Liufang also had a headache. She pressed her temples and said:
"We really don't know how to deal with depressed children, because we have already tried our best to treat them well!"

"Not to mention, today, for this connection, his father and I took the risk of offending the leader and took leave early to prepare for this moment, for fear that something would go wrong."

"If you think about it, we don't have to do this in the first place, but for the sake of our children, we really can't care less."

Speaking of this, Zhao Zhixing couldn't help it, and said with a bit of complaint:
"My child doesn't understand this good intention!"

"I'm not afraid of making you laugh when I say it. I've been struggling for a whole semester..."

"Oh! No matter how depressed the child is, I will become depressed!"

After the words fell, the audience in the live broadcast room also felt the parents' deep helplessness.

"As soon as I heard it, I was forced to do nothing."

"Pity the hearts of parents in the world!"

"It's really a lot of hard work. I can obviously wait until I get off work to connect, but it's not easy to take leave under pressure in order not to make any mistakes!"

"Today's children are constantly pursuing spiritual pursuits and are most likely to be depressed. It's really difficult for parents."

"I hope Teacher Lin can help the child quickly. This is not easy for parents."

"..."

After listening to the parents' confession, Lin Feng frowned slightly.

It cannot be denied that these parents have really sacrificed a lot for their children.

However, it is not very appropriate.

Take the example Zhang Liufang just gave, which is quite self-motivated.

Obviously they know that there is no need to ask for leave, and the program team has plenty of time for them.

But the two of them insisted on asking for leave and emphasized that they would "risk offending the leader". Is this necessary?

By doing this, what the children actually feel is not concern, but great pressure!

So, Lin Feng shook his head and said:
"Sheng Rui's parents, I feel that the problem in your family is still something that old man talked about."

"It's you parents who put too much pressure on your children."

After the words fell, Zhao Shengrui's parents looked puzzled.

What pressure?How difficult is it to start a family and start a business nowadays?
We have solved the most difficult house problems for our children!

Why did you put too much pressure on him?
Zhang Liufang was impatient and wanted to speak immediately.

At this time, Lin Feng spoke directly as if he knew what she was thinking:
"Don't be anxious yet, let me communicate with the child!"

(End of this chapter)