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Chapter 83 Sorry!A word of thank you!The whole network burst into tears! (Three-in-one monthly pass plus updated chapter!)

Faced with the confusion raised by Sun Wei's mother, Lin Feng shook his head resolutely, and said:
"Mother Sun Wei, what I just said is not for you to make a one-size-fits-all problem. It's not that simple."

"Think about it, children need to adapt to the environment slowly. Your caring for every detail has suddenly become irrelevant. Doesn't that make Sun Wei at a loss?"

Lin Feng thought for a while, then slowly said:
"Well, let me make a few suggestions, and you can use them at your discretion."

"First of all, there is nothing to say. It must be to learn a scientific and professional parenting method. Don't listen to the fragmented information from the media. It is best to form a system to learn. You can read related papers."

"Of course, don't put too much pressure on me. Learning this is not about how well you, a mother, should do. It's about making Sun Wei no longer disgusted with your education methods, so that no vicious conflicts will arise."

"Secondly, those who stay at home full-time also need to develop their own careers. What I don't mean here is that you must become a talent or expert. What I mean is that you have to distract your attention from your children. go out."

"For example, you don't have to go to work right away. Instead, you can participate in and organize some community activities. If conditions permit, you can also do charity work. In short, don't stare at your children with dry eyes. You are not the child's servant. ! You also have your own life! This is very important."

"The third is that the person who is with the child at home should take the child to participate in the work. For example, Sun Wei's father has a job, then you have to take the child to understand his father's work. Understand the development of dad's career, understand dad's emotions at work...understand some of the difficulties dad has at work, and how dad copes with them."

"Let Sun Wei know that my mother's great career is to accompany me to grow up, and my father's great career is to achieve the happiness of our whole family."

"A child who can deeply participate in the career of her parents can cultivate her gratitude and her inner strength will be stronger. These are all for her future life development and can lay a good foundation."

"Actually, Mother Sun Wei, you may have a hard time going on, because the three aspects I just mentioned are indispensable."

After Lin Feng's words fell, Sun Wei's mother's eyes drooped slightly, and her eyes were full of thinking.

study?

She has indeed learned, such as cooking skills, children's health care, etc., all learned after resigning, and she studied very hard and seriously.

But, as Lin Feng said, for serious scientific parenting knowledge, she doesn't even read papers, she has never read any books on this topic, and she listens to those parenting bloggers on the Internet who have more fans.

As a result, as Lin Feng said, there were many conflicts between parents and children in the family.

No one is happy.

Also, she never took Sun Wei to participate in her father's career.

The current Sun Wei, at most, knows where the door of the family company opens, and she doesn't know anything else.

On the one hand, she felt that Sun Wei was still young, before he could inherit the family business, it would be serious to get his grades up first, and on the other hand, Sun Wei was having trouble with his family, so she didn't want to hear it.

Of course, the most important thing is that Sun Wei's father would never take the initiative to talk to his children about his career happiness and worries.

--how to say?

Not only Sun Wei's father, which father in the world would take the initiative to talk to his children about this?
On the one hand, it is to maintain the image of his father's stalwart, and to create an illusion that there are no difficulties in the world that will defeat his father.

On the other hand, it is also to protect the child's innocence, and I don't want these things in the society to erode the child prematurely.

Sun Wei's mother could think of this, and Sun Wei's father naturally thought of it too.

"Honey, we two are really laymen in education. We didn't realize what Mr. Lin said."

Sun Wei's father shook his head and smiled wryly.

It is really the result of their 'hard work' that Sun Wei became what she is today.

"We need to change it!! Wife!!"

Sun Wei's father thought for a while and said:
"Actually, you have the greatest influence on your children. Weiwei's interest in painting originally came from wanting to make a unique skirt for you. She wanted to imitate you and become a fashion designer."

"Also, I thought about it seriously. Weiwei likes mountaineering and hiking because of you, because you want her to exercise a lot, and take her to the mountains to get close to nature whenever she has time. You gave her the first set of mountaineering Pretending, she secretly hid it in the deepest part of the closet, well preserved, if you don’t believe me, go find it.”

Sun Wei's mother stared at her husband, why didn't she know about this? !
Isn't she the full-time mother who is with her children wholeheartedly? !
Faintly, tears flashed in her eyes:
"My body is with the child, but my heart is far away..."

After a long time, Lin Feng heard the relieved voice of Sun Wei's mother:
"Teacher Lin, thank you. During the time Weiwei was on the program team, I thanked you for your troubles. As for me..."

"I should think about how to be a role model for my children and how to realize the value of my life, instead of wrestling with Weiwei."

The voice fell, as heavy as a thousand ounces! ! !
While listening to these words, the director's heart was agitated, it's done!

He just said that as long as Lin Feng takes action, there is no educational problem that cannot be solved.

Satisfied, Liu Yong was about to leave.

But as soon as he opened the door, he saw a small pink-blue head.

Sun Wei, who had been eavesdropping outside the door, had reddened eyes and was already crying.

"???"

Liu Yong was stunned, not knowing that he was pretending not to see it at this time.

Or should I remind Lin Feng, who is seriously communicating with his parents, to let him decide whether to call Sun Wei in?

Just when Liu Yong was struggling, Sun Wei rang out in a crying voice:
"Report, teacher, may I come in?"

Lin Feng frowned, and naturally recognized Sun Wei's voice.

Looking at the director's expression, he could guess that it was because Sun Wei heard the conversation between him and his parents.

"Please come in!"

Lin Feng said loudly, and then said to the phone:

"Sun Wei is here, do you have anything to say?"

Sun Wei's parents suddenly became nervous!

To put it bluntly, what Lin Feng told them just now is all theory, is he going to fight it now? ?

"What, what are we going to say to Weiwei next??"

Sun Wei's mother asked Sun Wei's father silently with her mouth.

However, it was Lin Feng who answered her, as if he had the ability to read minds, he spoke softly:

"It's enough to face the children sincerely. I think the children also want to face you sincerely."

After the voice fell, Sun Wei walked straight into the office with tears in her eyes, and took the phone from Lin Feng:
"Mom, Dad, I'm Weiwei."

Sun Wei also paused for a moment.

But in the next second, three voices sounded at the same time:

"Thank you."

"sorry."

Thank you is what Sun Wei said, she is thanking her parents for their dedication to her all the time.

And sorry was said by both her parents at the same time.

Regret and apologize for their excessive restraints and bindings in the past.

next second.

Sun Wei's tears dripped down on the ground, but there was a smile on her face.

And Sun Wei's mother tried her best to cover her mouth to prevent the sound of her crying from reaching the other end of the phone.

At this moment, the parents waited for the child's understanding and gratitude.

The children also waited for their parents' understanding and apology.

Lin Feng gave the director a wink, and the two walked out of the office with the camera.

Because now Sun Wei doesn't need their disturbance anymore.

This kind of exit is very decent. There is no audience in the live broadcast room who has any objection to this behavior.

"Sun Wei's smile with tears at the end hit me hard. I hope this time, she and her parents can open up to each other and have a good talk."

"That's great! Sun Wei's parents waited for Sun Wei's gratitude, and Sun Wei also waited for her parents' apology. They are all growing up."

"Children who know how to be grateful, and parents who know how to reflect on themselves. What kind of fairy family is this? I am envious of the whole. In the future, I will also be a parent like Sun Wei's parents!"

"I don't know why, but my eyes turned red. Before, I thought that Teacher Lin Feng had taken on a difficult task. After all, educating children is easy, but it is difficult when parents are involved. Now it seems that Teacher Lin Feng did it on his own. , brought this family back on track!! Seeing them understanding each other made me burst into tears!!"

"Sun Wei heard gratitude for her parents' efforts, and also learned about Sun Wei's apology to them. After this reconciliation, Sun Wei told her parents about her future plans, which should be a comparison. It was a smooth exchange, great!!"

"Did Sun Wei reach a settlement with her parents? I'm so envious!!"

"I don't know if Wu Peng's father is here. He should have his own thoughts after seeing this scene, right?"

"Whether Wu Peng's father has an idea, I don't know, but I have an idea. I want to have a good chat with the child. I have never asked him a wish. I have always been pushing him forward. If it goes on like this, something will happen.”

"Yes, as parents, we can't just read it. Teacher Lin Feng is really teaching us how to educate our children. If we can find out the commonality and extract the solution of Teacher Lin, we can learn to be a good parent by ourselves. .”

"Hey, if you learn to be good parents, then I will learn to be a good child. I haven't talked to my parents for a long time. Let me call them. Maybe they are also waiting for my sentence." Thank you'."

"Seeing the interaction between Sun Wei and her parents, I burst into tears! I will edit this clip and forward it to the family group!!"

"I really envy the children of parents who are willing to communicate seriously with their children in the barrage, my parents... Forget it, if Shan doesn't come to me, I will go to Shan, I will talk to my mother first!"

"..."

At the same time, in a corner of the city thousands of miles away from Xiangzhang Village.

A mother looked at the chat box on her mobile phone with a sad expression on her face.

In the chat box, the right side is full of your own words.

Tell the child to add clothes when it’s cold, tell him not to drink too much iced drinks when it’s hot, and tell him to study hard…

After sending out paragraphs after paragraphs, it was like sinking into the sea, without any response.

She said ten sentences, and the child only replied one:
"Ah."

The mother's hand clicked on the child's circle of friends.

——Friends only show the circle of friends in the last three days——

The black font stung the mother's eyes.She knew she was blocked.

"Isn't it just for your sake that Mom is so verbose?"

The mother put down her phone, filled with frustration.

At this time, there was a "ding" sound, and the mobile phone alert sounded, maybe some friend was looking for her.

The mother picked up the phone, and then her eyes rolled into a smile.

The child actually took the initiative to contact himself!
This is the first time for the child after he went to college!
After excitedly opening the chat box, the mother's eyes turned to doubt again.

How did my child send a video?
And look at the title, is it still a teacher educating parents?

This is strange, the teacher does not educate the students, how can he educate the parents?
But the doubts are all doubts, because this is the first time the child has sent a message on his own initiative, the mother clicked on the video anyway.

then……

The more the mother watched the content of the video, the more shocked her face became, and she muttered:
"It turns out that I have been around the child, not only is it not good for the child, but will it also suppress the child's development?"

Following Lin Feng's slow explanation, the mother fell silent.

After watching the video, the mother seemed unable to think anymore.

She just stared blankly at the phone interface, not knowing what she was thinking.

At this time, the child then sent a long paragraph:

"Mom, I know that for me, you gave up your job and another wonderful life. I owe you a thank you, and I owe you a sorry... Mom, let me tell you something from my heart today, I know Your starting point is good, but I'm already an adult, I can't live according to your requirements all the time, so after the college entrance examination, I ignored your obstruction and applied for a university in another place. There is a way to escape from you The meaning of control. But, have I really escaped? No, you will still send me long and long messages every day. But mom, have you ever thought that I know that I set the alarm clock to wake up, and I don’t need you to wake up in the morning? Call to inform me... In other words, I am an adult, and I will take good care of myself. Mom, in your opinion, the meticulous care is not of any real help to me, but makes me feel depressed! I'm sorry mom , I know you will be sad when I say this. But I feel so uncomfortable, I can’t hold it anymore, I’m stupid, I can’t explain a lot of reasons, please watch the video I sent you, please! In the end, I really Thank you very much for your dedication to me all these years!"

Looking at this passage, especially the child finally thanked himself for so many years of dedication.

The mother's tears, one drop, two drops... fell in clusters.

It just hit the phone screen straight.

She slowly started typing, but she didn't know how to speak at this moment.

So, typed and deleted, deleted and typed...

On the other end of the phone, the boy was holding the phone, watching the "the other party is typing" on the top of the chat box kept lighting up.

There was a bitter and helpless smile on the corner of his mouth.

As can be expected, my mother sent me a long paragraph again.

Otherwise it is impossible to enter such a long time.

It appears that this was another failed communication.

The boy laughed at himself, his eyes sore.

He was about to put down his phone when his mother finally sent him a message.

"sorry"

This time, my mother's words were very short, without even punctuation marks.

However, this big boy covered his face and burst into tears!
……

At the same time, a parenting V with a scarf made a post.

[Family education is an extremely important part!But it is necessary to educate the children as well as the parents——watching Lin Feng's thoughts]

This parenting blogger has a large fan base, and those who follow him are all parents who want to learn parenting knowledge.

As soon as this post was published, countless parents immediately clicked to read it!
Among them, there were people who knew Lin Feng before, and some people who heard the name for the first time.

But without exception, when they saw Lin Feng's suggestion to Sun Wei's mother, they were instantly enlightened!

"It's just that I don't have time to watch the live broadcast all day. Teacher Lin Feng has another big class!!"

"As a full-time father, I used to feel aggrieved when I saw my ancestor whose nose was not my nose, and whose eyes were not eyes. Now I can see her helplessness. Think about it differently. Tang Seng, who is under the spell! How could the child like me, a nanny who has no personality? It's time for a change."

"This is the first time I met Lin Feng. I checked online. It turns out that the education group has called on the society to learn from him. I am really ignorant! It is true that stay-at-home mothers have withdrawn from society. Thinking about Teacher Lin Feng's advice, I should gradually start to return society, and strive to be a role model for our two children.”

"After reading the article, I made a special effort to make up the video. It's great!! Sun Wei's parents waited for her gratitude. Similarly, Sun Wei also waited for her parents' apology. In the future, the family will be twisted together, and we will definitely be able to It's getting better and better."

"I really understand that not only children need education, but parents also need education."

"..."

At the same time, the background data monitoring department of Fruit Station.

The staff suddenly discovered that there was neither New Year nor holiday today, and the TV station did not do any promotion.

However, their official website exploded! !
The traffic has surged abnormally, and it can be detected that countless people are logging in and browsing on the official website.

Now, every one of these staff members was in a state of tension.

The last time this happened, it was a group of traffic idol fans who thought that their brother had been treated unfairly when participating in the TV station's program, which aroused their anger, and everyone rushed to the TV station's official website.

Therefore, the staff are very worried that this situation will happen again!
As a result, people in one department devoted themselves to data research and judgment.

hours later...

The staff who sorted out all the data were all dumbfounded.

"Actually, after seeing the clip of the starting line, many netizens wanted to watch the live broadcast, so they came here?"

The leader breathed a sigh of relief, and calmly picked up the teacup.

"Ms. Lin Feng is really a big celebrity now, and Liu Yong and his program team are really... sloppy."

He took a sip of hot tea and said with a smile:
"Okay, the responsibility of our department is to supervise and sort out the data, and just report this matter to the station."

Soon, the report was presented to the director's desk.

After reading the phone at a glance, the director dialed Liu Yong's phone number:
"Lin Feng caused another storm on the Internet. Many parents left messages on the official website, asking if they could have a chat with Mr. Lin... Your program team has done a good job of focusing on the key points. In this way, the promotion of the mountainous area as agreed before, I'll move it to the prime time, you can talk to Lin Feng and sell it well."

Hearing this, Liu Yong smiled wryly, can Lin Feng not know your little thoughts?
I'll sell it well, but I'll lose face if I go.

However, Liu Yong didn't show it on his face, he just said:
"Then thank you, director. This is also a support for my work. In fact, in the barrage of my program group, many parents expressed their desire to chat with Mr. Lin Feng. Combined with the news you just said, our program is actually The response and influence are very good..."

Liu Yong took it as a duty report, and communicated with the director in a serious manner.

……

At the same time, Wu Peng's father has been paying attention to this program since he communicated with Wu Peng last time.

Naturally, he did not miss the communication between Sun Wei and his parents.

At first, he thought Sun Wei's situation was similar to Wu Peng's.

Lin Feng's education direction may also start from inspiring Sun Wei to realize that it is not easy for parents.

Even Wu Peng's father is already wondering whether Lin Feng will inspire Sun Wei by proposing to play games with Sun Wei.

Thinking about it, he even brought himself in. If he were Lin Feng, what kind of game would be more appropriate to play?
However, he never expected that Sun Wei and Wu Peng were completely different.

The crux of Sun Wei's problem turned out to be her parents!

When he was awakened by Lin Feng, he felt very sorry!
Because Mr. Lin Feng obviously has no way to communicate effectively with Sun Wei's parents.

But the moment the director entered the office with his mobile phone, Wu Peng's father was stunned.

If on the day Wu Peng was educated by Lin Feng, he could think of making a phone call, wouldn't the education effect be doubled directly? !

Now Wu Peng's father regretted it to death!

However, as the saying goes, opportunities are never lost or lost.

Even if he called Wu Peng directly now, it would not be able to achieve this effect.

Most importantly, he is not sure if he has any problems similar to Sun Wei's parents in his family education!

With this remorse, Wu Peng's father continued to look down.

When he saw the "thank you" and "sorry" exchanges between Sun Wei and her parents, his eyes felt sour.

"That's great. In the future, Sun Wei and her parents will definitely work together to live a happy life."

"Mr. Lin first educated Wu Peng, and now Sun Wei. He takes every child seriously. This program is really right to participate in!"

After sighing, Wu Peng's father felt something in his heart.

It is true that he has lost an excellent opportunity to communicate with Wu Peng now.

But the communication between him and Mr. Lin Feng hasn't started yet!

He can definitely call Teacher Lin Feng and ask some specific educational questions!

For example... Wu Peng's troublesome game play.

After all, the appeal of games is so strong now!

What if Wu Peng failed to resist the temptation after returning to the city and continued to indulge in it?
Can I ask Sun Wei's parents about this issue?
At the very least, it's never wrong to make a plan now.

Moreover, it has been said that parents also need education, so I also want to receive education.

As a parent, I took the lead in listening to what the teacher said, so Wu Peng couldn't have learned nothing!
Thinking about it this way, Wu Peng's father suddenly felt that he had opened up the situation!

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