Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 222 The Difficulty of Being a Parent ([-])

Facts have proved that educating her daughter this time is not a complete failure. At least let her know that when she insists on something, she needs to pay a price.
It's nice to be lazy for a while, and always be cool, but what if it's not possible?How cool it was once, how tired it will be after haha!

The children are exhausted, so let’s just let them have a rest!

After drinking two glasses of water, Zhao Jinhe started to get busy again. Today's work is fixed, if you don't finish it, it will be too late next time!
Big Mao, Ermao, Sanmao and Simao stood aside and watched, and they didn't feel like talking and chatting.As for what they think in their hearts, that is something they only know.

After teaching your daughter, you also have to make up a lesson for your sons. Men cannot say they are tired, because there are many responsibilities that you must bear. You must persist in working hard no matter what, no matter how sweaty you are, no matter how reluctant you are. Never back down when it’s time to work hard and persevere!
My sons are all good, and every one of them is a smart child, but smart people often lack persistence and cannot bear the blow of failure or hardship. But the more lofty ideals and beliefs, the more unswerving and persistent efforts are needed!

No matter how embarrassing it is.

Opportunities with greater gains are often accompanied by dangerous losses.

If you don’t want to lose an opportunity, you must be prepared to bear the consequences of failure.

"Dahe, take a break, let's stop here today! Next time we go home..."

"I'm going to finish it soon, and I can't wait until next time. There's still new work to do when I come back next time!"

"Oh... that's true!"

"Forget it, never mind! Da Mao Er Mao will prepare some more water basins later and let them dry in the sun. When it gets hot, take off your clothes and you guys can wash them off too."

"it is good!"

"understood!"

The two of them answered with a little carelessness. They sat on the chairs at the door and watched the old man in front of him still working there!
Beads of sweat flowed down the sides of the cheeks, even with the straw hat on, it had only a very weak effect.

There are large swaths of sweat leaking out of the vest through the two strands.

This is not the first time they have seen their father work, but at least it is the first time they have seen him work so hard and persistently.

I do not know what happened?They were a little dazed.

And what kind of emotions should the daughter feel when she is inside the house looking outside?

At first she felt aggrieved, but then she became ruthless. She didn't know who to hate!But she just wanted to vent once.

When her mother called her back, she felt very wronged. But after cleaning herself, putting on clean clothes, and preparing to go out and pretend to be relaxed, she saw her father working sweating profusely.She looked in front of her and suddenly understood what her father meant.

The daughter suffers and suffers, and the father hurts even more!

Her father is punishing himself!
fine.The yard wasn't very big, so naturally there wasn't much work to do, and Zhao Jinhe finished the rest within the time of a cup of tea.

"What's the matter? Why are you looking at me so quietly? What's so special?"

"No, Dad. There is warm water in the basin. You can wash it off."

"Okay!"

Zhao Jinhe wasn't polite with the children, he didn't need it, he used it when he needed it.

After washing with warm water, the sweat stains on the skin are washed away, and the body feels much more comfortable immediately.When I felt comfortable, I cleaned the vest that I had taken off and put it up. The weather was hot and the sun was shining on me, so it didn’t take long to put it back on cleanly.

Seeing their father's actions, the three sons also cleaned up their bodies, and even cleaned the vest and shirt that had been taken off, and put them back together.

At this time, Zhao Jinhe sat down and started drinking water again, beautiful!It has been many years since I have experienced such a hearty and hearty labor.

The afternoon sun was so hot that everyone was sitting under the eaves at the door to cool off, with the wind and no sun, it was indeed more comfortable than staying at home.

After the children all returned to the room to study or read, Liu Yu sat on the back chair with Zhao Jinhe, enjoying the feeling of the breeze blowing on his face, and asked in a low voice with a little curiosity.

"What happened to you today? Do you have to work like that?"

"Hey, it was just a whim! I couldn't control it."

He answered in the same low voice.

"You scared the kids!"

"Oh..., me too, oh... I don't let my daughter work, I'm afraid she will suffer in the future, but let her suffer a little bit today! I feel so distressed! Tell me, I don't know what to do anymore? "

"I understand, and I think the children understand too. Don't do this again in the future. You are happy, but the children are frightened. Forget it, you are doing your best. Her own character is destined to go her own way." , just do what you want! Isn’t it the same as I was back then? The opposition from my parents and family didn’t affect me at all! But it turns out that I think my choice is good, and I live happily and comfortably , If you are not rich, you will not be rich, and you can also support people with simple tea and light food, as long as you are happy in your heart, everything else doesn’t matter.”

"Yes! We all understand the truth, but... we are all first-time parents, and we always feel that we can do better. We don't want them to take detours, but if they have to..., we can't stop it. ah!"

"By the way, Si Mao's second daughter won't pick her up at noon for a lunch break?"

"Even if you go to pick up those two, they won't want to come back. It's delicious and delicious, and they're not stupid. How can they not know how to choose?"

"Do you think this will..."

"Hey, it shouldn't be. Besides, they are still young after all. They just want to educate and cultivate. Then the children have to understand?"

"Hehe..., that's true. Today I believe you have been doing farm work for five or six years. Regardless of whether your level is good or not, you have a good posture. You look like an old farmer..."

"My father doesn't know how to farm, so I won't do it. No one in the family will do it anymore! If Jinhu works behind me, that's just a fool. When working, he just knows how to work hard. He doesn't use his brain at all. It took a lot of effort, but it was not as much work as I did with only [-]% of my effort, and it made the people in the village look like that, but what about him! The work was done, but people kept asking I saw him resting and he didn’t know how to work at all!”

"What's the point of working?"

"Hey, as the old saying goes, if you don't fight for the lazy, fight for the lazy. Work hard when there are many people, but when there are fewer people, can't you work less hard? Otherwise, you will work hard all day long! How many lives do you need? Is it enough?"

"so……"

"That's why he has been left by the old man to work in the village, to live under the old man's eyes."

"It's good, at least the old man and the old lady can let them take care of it."

"Yes. My second brother is a real person. He is not afraid of suffering, but he is afraid that troubles will come to him."

"Haha... But my siblings are very sensible people..."

"It can be considered that the second son's family has a backbone!"

"Ha ha……"

There is nothing wrong with women being the masters of the house, as long as women do have brains, why do men have to be the masters of the house?Women can actually do it too?
But this is the case in today's era, men are the pillars of the family!

I habitually think that if he pays too much, he should be the master of the house.History cannot be changed.The habit of history cannot be changed in a short time.

(End of this chapter)