A different life with a system reborn

Chapter 161 Grasp the human scale

"Okay, but I don't like supercars, only business cars like Maybach."

"Tsk tsk, come to think of it, why are you so old-fashioned? If we hadn't met in a bar for the first time, who would have thought that you would be a rich man younger than me."

Wang Cong couldn't help but clicked his tongue. He never saw Zhao Dongsheng, either drinking tea or on the way to drink tea. His home was not particularly exaggerated and luxurious. He had never seen or heard him driving a supercar and acting recklessly. Even today We came here for a meal as if by surprise, and the result was egg noodles with pickles.

From what he saw, Zhao Dongsheng did not look like a young rich man.

In fact, none of this is to blame on Zhao Dongsheng. His dislike of supercars and the like is due to his introverted personality and dislike of publicity. Drinking tea was just a habit in his previous life, and this was also caused by Kyoto's climate and environment.

As for eating and drinking, Zhao Dongsheng is of course delicious, but he is not greedy. He is willing to accept delicious food, but it does not mean that he has to enjoy it like this. Moreover, his parents live at home and let him eat and drink extravagantly every day. I always find it unacceptable.

"It's just a matter of personality. I like different things and do things differently. I also like good wine, delicious food, and beautiful people."

When Zhao Dongsheng said this, he didn't go on to say more. It was enough to stop talking about these things. Many things cannot be convinced by saying too much.

"You still feel old-fashioned. You probably don't have many friends."

Wang Cong is relatively familiar with Zhao Dongsheng, so Zhao Dongsheng will not have any problem knowing such teasing.

"Why do you need so many friends? I'm not used to being surrounded by them. I have a few true friends. It's enough to have someone to drink with me when I'm lonely."

Zhao Dongsheng's tone was calm, and he obviously didn't agree with Wang Cong's words.

"Uh, okay, talking to you is boring."

"Of course it's boring. Others are begging you, complimenting you, and flattering you. Of course they will follow your words and make you happy in whatever way they want. But I don't beg you or need to compliment you, so just listen. Of course it’s not that comfortable.”

"Okay, what you said makes sense, that's it. I'd better go find my friends. I won't be an eyesore here. I'll ask you to play with me when I find something fun."

Wang Cong said as he put out his cigarette in the ashtray, picked up the tea cup and drank it in one breath, then stood up and prepared to leave.

"Okay, I'm in need of someone to take me there for fun. I'll definitely go there when it opens."

Zhao Dongsheng stood up and walked Wang Cong to the gate before turning back to the villa, while Shen Hong followed Zhao Dongsheng.

"When the bar opens, you will have to stay at the bar more, and you will have less time to come over."

Zhao Dongsheng said something to Shen Hong.

"Hehe, it's good to be busy, but no matter when you call me, I can come here at any time."

Shen Hong had actually heard the implication of Zhao Dongsheng's words and knew that Zhao Dongsheng was saying that she had been spending too much time in the villa recently, so Shen Hong immediately went down the steps and said that she could be there at any time.

"Well, do you think there are any problems with my vocals?"

"Your talent is beyond my expectation. I thought it would take more than half a year to improve your Mandarin, but I didn't expect it to take three months.

Now you are not only up to standard in Mandarin, but you can also make long-term progress in singing and lines.It can be considered as a formal introduction now. In the future, you just need to practice more and I no longer need special guidance. "

Shen Hong's eyes were a little sad as she spoke. She probably felt that Zhao Dongsheng was beginning to like the new and dislike the old and was a little tired of her. During this time, she had been trying every means to please Zhao Dongsheng, but she didn't expect that she would end up like this in the end.

But now she has gotten enough, so she doesn't have any complaints.

"You can learn how to run a bar when you go to a bar during this period, and then make friends with more wealthy people who go to bars. These people all have money and don't know how to spend it. When you mature, I will find you a better one. With our business, it’s not impossible to earn 800 million yuan a year by then.”

Zhao Dongsheng also saw the sadness in Shen Hong's eyes, but he did not explain or comfort him.

People are born like this. They can't help but keep testing. Just like babies, they will test all kinds of things from an early age and then sum up.

My experience is that if you cry when you are hungry, you will be able to eat; if your diaper is full, you will be able to replace it with a dry diaper if you cry;

As babies grow up, they have mastered crying, from crying quietly to crying loudly. This is their invincible weapon.

When they grow up, they will go a step further. For example, if you don’t buy them something when you go out, they will cry. If you don’t buy something for them, they will even cry and roll around.

When they grow up and study or in adolescence, those who test their parents' bottom line step by step will become more difficult to discipline and become lawless. This is when children test step by step, causing parents' bottom line to change all the time. If the parents push an inch, the child will become lawless. Will advance a foot.

Therefore, testing is actually a natural skill. It is only when you grow up that you learn to restrain yourself, and the other person will not be as tolerant as your parents were when you were a child, so this kind of testing becomes restrained.

Having said so much, in fact, the summary is: Even if you love someone again, don't be unconditionally too nice to them. There is no limit to what you can ask for. Being too nice to others will only cause the other person to take it for granted, and the sunk cost is too high. High will also lead to dilemma, and finally make people turn against guest.

Grasp the size well, and let people know that only by giving can they get rewards. If you want better returns, you must make more contributions. This way, the priorities of the two people can be clearly distinguished. A small amount of contribution will get others' wholehearted support. If the other party pays, there will be sunk costs, and it will be more difficult to get out.

"okay."

Shen Hong's eyes lit up after hearing this. She held Zhao Dongsheng's arm with her hand and leaned close to him. It was obvious that she knew what to do.

"This dry weather is really unbearable. After a while, my mouth is dry again. Let's go and take a bath."

Zhao Dongsheng was haunted by this goblin, and suddenly felt dry mouth, licked his lips, and took Shen Hong to the room.

……

No wonder Zhao Dongsheng wanted to send Shen Hong away. The main reason is that this young woman is really good at it. The longer the two of them stayed together, the more Zhao Dongsheng felt that she didn't want her to leave. It wasn't because of love, it was just pure love. a habit and need.

Think about it, there is such a person next to you. As soon as you sit down, she will bring you tea at the right temperature. When you lick your lips, she will immediately put the cigarette to your mouth and light it for you.

(End of this chapter)