Sir, my wife is pretending to be innocent again

Chapter 453 Mrs. Yuan teaches her daughter-in-law
Mrs. Yuan gave Cheng Xiaosi the answer to her doubts, saying that it was due to the different teachings she had received since she was a child.

"In people's mouth, boys are better than girls, but it seems like men get a lot of preferential treatment, but in fact they have the heaviest burden. They are responsible for the rise and fall of the family, and they have to take care of their younger brothers and sisters. With them, even if they don't make many achievements , this family will not be easily bullied."

"The world is like this, even if it is unfair, there is nothing we can do about it."

Cheng Xiaosi still agrees with this point. Speaking of which, she is also a vested interest. Without the men of the Cheng family working around the clock, the sisters would not be able to live so comfortably, especially at home. Their father and brother do not regard their sisters as marriage chips. Under the circumstances, their sisters' lives were quite easy.

Mrs. Yuan continued, "Let's talk about your eldest brother. He was enlightened when he was three years old and less than four years old. He got up early before dawn and learned endless things all day long. He rarely rested throughout the year. He was both civil and military. It’s simple, but too difficult to do.”

"Since he was young, both the elders in the family and his tutors have taught him responsibility. When he grows up, he may be temporarily attracted to the new and adventurous girls outside because of long-term fatigue, but he always understands clearly in his heart. Looking at the young men in Kyoto, there are very few It's too ridiculous to be outside, and even if you risk your life to marry a girl from an ordinary family, the joy will be worn away in a short period of time. "

"When a man is in love with a woman, it's natural to think that the other person is good in everything, but people can't live their lives relying on love. In the end, they have to be entangled in trivial matters, big and small. At this time, the gap between the two comes out. They don't know how to play music, chess, calligraphy and painting. , can’t read and keep accounts, can’t control servants, and don’t understand the key points of human relationships, men will think that women are stupid, shallow, and empty inside, and they will not only be unable to be a good wife, but also a hindrance.”

"The woman felt that the man had changed too quickly, and the oath of love was gone, so she began to complain and cry. But the more she did, the more disappointed she became with each other. She forced herself to wear clothes that did not belong to her, but she was suppressed by the clothes. It’s just a difficult time.”

Cheng Xiaosi immediately went on to say, "At times like this, it's usually the woman who gets so mad at herself that the man then marries a well-matched girl and gets on the right track."

What is this thing called?

Do ordinary girls deserve to die?

Mrs. Yuan smiled and did not discuss the issue of men and women with Cheng Xiaosi. She gave him a meaningful look and felt that some things should be explained to her in advance to avoid confusion after they actually met. In her eyes, Yuan Su and Cheng Xiaosi has always looked at each other, which is good or bad. The more they care, the more likely they are to get into trouble when something unexpected happens. The more they care, the more likely they are to quarrel over trivial matters. Things are unpredictable in the world. The mother couldn't guarantee that her son would last forever. Cheng Xiaosi was the only one in her eyes.

"Remember, blocking is worse than sparing. The harder you get, the crazier you will be to get it. Blind force will not solve the problem except causing uproar in the city and making people laugh."

"Sneakly let the person in, put it under your nose, and then you have the final say on everything. As a woman, you should be calm and smart at all times, and learn to protect yourself."

"Love is only temporary. In the end, both of you have to be able to support each other, so that it can last." Cheng Xiaosi understood what she meant. This was to tell her not to make trouble when something happened, and she said she could do it. If one day Yuan Su meets true love again, she can also be a wealthy and leisurely lady. What does she want now?

To take a step back, at that point, it is not that she cannot bring in a concubine and achieve the goal of having a baby painlessly. As long as her father does not die, no matter how many women Yuan Su finds and how many children he has, he will eventually call her mother. , she is the legitimate mother. Even if these children are hindered by ethics and education, they must enjoy themselves at her knees, accompany her to relieve her boredom, and fulfill her filial piety. Even if she dies, these people must see her die.

Etiquette is strict, who wants his mother to be a concubine?

"What my mother teaches is that compared to ordinary women, we have already received too much, so we should be more open-minded."

Mrs. Yuan knew that she understood, and nodded with satisfaction, "I know you are smart, so it's fine if you can figure it out. Mother doesn't have much expectations, so she just hopes that you and Wu Lang will have a good life."

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law walked slowly on the road. After a while, Mrs. Yuan started talking to Cheng Xiaosi about the gossip in the city over the past two days. She was originally a lively person and had a wide range of news sources in the capital. She wanted to know the latest news. How uncomfortable would it be if you didn’t tell the gossip once it got into your hands?
No one had shared it with her before. Mrs. Yuan was not too keen on this. Yuan Sijin was a girl. As a mother, she had to maintain her own image. How could she say this? But now it’s better. Cheng Xiaosi also likes this. , they are still mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so they have less taboos when speaking, but are they happy?
"Mrs. Zhang, now, tsk tsk tsk, one is her own daughter, whom the Zhang family has high hopes for; the other is her own nephew, an old man, who is treasured by the whole family."

Cheng Xiaosi's eyes were bright, "Why do I feel that it was Mrs. Zhang's mother's family who did it on purpose? Knowing that she was in trouble, she missed the girl who was well-educated by her. It was so shameless to say that she didn't even talk about getting married in a serious way. If you dare, you will come secretly.”

Mrs. Yuan grabbed her wrist and lowered her voice, "There is still a follow-up to this matter. The youngest son of the Zhang family hated his maternal grandfather's family for ruining the reputation of his own sister, and in a fit of anger asked people to ruin the reputation of the three girls of the Cao family. Then The three sisters went out to offer incense together, but were kidnapped on the way and woke up half-clothed. The Cao family was afraid that they would go crazy. It was inevitable that the two families would become enemies. Mrs. Zhang had to make a choice. Those three sisters were directly related to each other. Niece, injustice.”

Cheng Xiaosi gasped, meaning that his own sister was ruined by her cousin, so she found someone to ruin the reputations of her three cousins, and she didn't want to suffer any losses from the main one?
"Who did Miss Zhang and the three girls from the Cao family offend whom?"

Mrs. Yuan sighed, "Although this matter has not spread completely, many people have got the news and are watching the fun. It is said that several boys from the Cao family blocked the boss' son, and ended up being extremely humiliated by the Zhang family's son."

"But remember, when you meet people from these two families in the future, you will make friends with the Zhang family. Mr. Zhang and several sons of the Zhang family are better than the sons of the Cao family. Although it is inappropriate to flatter someone who is superior, but the eldest daughter of the Zhang family After marrying into the Prince of England's palace, he is quite popular with the Princess of England, and the Cao family is weak, so many people are waiting to see how they will deal with it this time. "

Cheng Xiaosi understood that the two families were now at odds with each other, and the wind in Beijing was about to change.