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This is the most realistic and effective method.

Nowadays, every family is reluctant to raise a daughter well, because they think that when they grow up, they will marry someone, and the married woman will be someone from another family. There is really no need to spend money to train them. After all, the family does not have that kind of money.

But now Jiang Jiuniang has directly opened up their new ideas. Raising her daughter well will not only have a good reputation, but she will also be able to marry into a family with better conditions in the future, and the betrothal gift will also be higher.

If the daughter can be raised well and has a good reputation, it will be much easier for the boy in the family to talk about his wife in the future.

This is a great idea once and for all!
Furthermore, what Jiang Jiuniang said is reasonable. The most caring thing is a daughter. In the future, she will have a daughter to remember her when she gets older. She seems to be a pretty good guy.

Several people present were immediately moved, but there were also others who were unmoved. Jiang Jiuniang couldn't control so much. She had reminded them so much anyway, and it was up to them whether they wanted to or not.

At this time, a person next to him said: "I think what Mrs. Lu said is very reasonable. Just like the little girl from Sister-in-law Zhang's family, isn't she working as an accountant with her master in the city? The good days are still to come! We women It’s not necessarily worse than men!”

"Oh, that's true! One day I'll go to the city to see if there are any shops that are recruiting female workers. I'll send my girl there too, and I'll learn something from her. It'll be good to gain some experience!"

"That's great! Let's make an appointment to go see it together then!"

……

Everyone is very interested. Although it is not necessary to send a girl to study, learning a skill is also the foundation of a career. She will be taken more seriously when she goes to her husband's family in the future.

They are just ordinary people. They don't pay attention to the saying that women from wealthy families cannot be exposed to the public. As long as they can make money and support their families, that's fine!
At this time, an elderly woman said: "The girls at home have gone out, who will do the things at home? Is it possible that the men have to do the things at home when they come back from the fields? Then who in the family is doing it? Are you in charge?"

Jiang Jiuniang knew that there would be such a person, and said with a smile: "Whoever is free can do the things at home. They are all members of the family. There is no need to distinguish them so clearly. If the family unites and works together, then this day can be done." Getting better and better."

"Our family has set up several workshops in the village in Jingzhou that only accept female workers. The men in the family took the initiative to take over the work. In the morning, they fed the chickens and ducks at home and then went to work in the fields. Anyway, they were all at home. It’s okay to go to the fields a little later.”

"Whoever comes home first in the evening will cook first. Those who come home later will wash the dishes after eating. Don't worry so much. This can also improve our women's status in the family. Our parents-in-law will like it and our husband will be friendly." , what’s wrong with that?”

She spoke in a gentle and gentle manner, without any personal intention, which made people feel that she was speaking from the bottom of her heart. After all, the life her family was living now was the best proof.

"Yes, yes, I think Mrs. Lu is right! General Lu is such a majestic general outside. When he comes home, he still cooks for Mrs. Lu. What can General Lu do? What about the men in our family? Can't do it? We should learn from the Lu family, so that our life will become easier!"

When everyone said this, the woman who just spoke suddenly had nothing to say, but she still obviously didn't agree with it, and she got up and left after a while.

Jiang Jiuniang didn't mind and continued to joke with the others.

Although everyone didn't say anything more, they made up their minds. After returning home, they would tell the head of the family this point of view and say that Mrs. Lu taught them so that their children could become more talented!
Although it was unkind to let Mrs. Lu take the blame, it was only in this way that their heads would listen.

After all, the young master from the general's family washes and cooks every day. Are children from poor families more valuable than the young master?What can't be done?

After bragging and going home, Jiang Jiu was in a good mood. When the dog saw her coming back, he quickly brought out the washed fruits and said, "Mom, the meal is not ready yet. Let's eat some fruits to cushion our stomach."

Jiang Jiuniang nodded and said, "Don't worry, we will eat later today and wait for your father."

"it is good."

Gou'er didn't ask his father if he would really come back for dinner, but his mother said so, so he did it.

Jiang Jiu Niang was sitting in the yard eating, and the dog was practicing martial arts next to her. He could hear her mother's orders at any time.

Jiang Jiuniang felt warm in her heart when she saw that her son had to choose a place that was convenient for her to practice martial arts. Thinking of bragging with those women today, she couldn't help but ask: "Son, if you go out these days, will the children in the village laugh at you?" Do boys wash and cook at home every day?”

Gou'er doesn't always do things at home. When he has nothing to do, he also goes out to play with the children in the village. Although he is a noble young master now, he doesn't have the temper of a young master at all. Everyone is happy to take him with them.

"No," Gou'er shook his head, "They will be curious about why I do everything at home. I told them it's because my father is not at home and my mother is having a hard time getting pregnant. She just needs me to take care of her. I also tell them They said that they should do more to help their mother and protect their sisters at home. This is what a man should do."

After saying that, he looked at Jiang Jiu Niang showing a row of small white teeth: "Mother, do you think what I said is right?"

"That's so right!"

Jiang Jiuniang gave him a thumbs up without hesitation and praised: "You are right. You have read a lot of books and understand a lot of truths, which are needed in these times. There are many people in the village who prefer boys over girls. You are here Subtly correct these children's thoughts and let them try to be nice to their mothers and sisters at home, and you are already great."

"Also, if they ask you for advice, you can tell them what you know. Many of them don't have the opportunity to go to school, and the knowledge they learn is very one-sided. You can take this time to teach them more correct concepts. , as to whether it is useful or not, that is beyond our control."

Jiang Jiuniang knows that there is not much she can do, but this can be regarded as penetrating some ideas of gender equality into the lives of these people. When they want to bully the women in the family, they can think of what they said at this time.

"I know, mother."

Gou'er nodded. During the time he was out with his parents, he saw many people and things, and finally understood why his mother insisted on doing something for women in this era.

In poor families, some girls are abandoned at birth, some sell their daughters to rich people as maids, some to rich old men as concubines, and some even sell them to brothels.

A woman has a bad fate. She doesn't get preferential treatment at home, let alone what her fate will be after being sold.
Because of this, Gou'er always thought that if his mother could give birth to a little sister, he would definitely hold her in his hands and love her so that no one would dare to bully her. (End of chapter)