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Chapter 792 He seems to have been living for others
Gou'er and Xiao Shizi listened carefully, and then unanimously expressed that they would be as powerful as them in the future.

He Jiuniang took the opportunity to teach: "Practice martial arts and study are the results of accumulation over time. Don't be eager for quick success, put aside the impetuosity in your heart, and learn slowly. You are still young and still have a lot of time. Don't rush to prove yourself or go to school." No matter who you compare with, you have to believe that if you work hard, you will be excellent. As for the results, let time prove it."

She found that Gou'er had become a little proud and eager for quick success after winning several battles with others. But fortunately, his mentality was quite good. He was excited when meeting more powerful masters, rather than frustrated. He just wanted to Become more powerful yourself.

But at his age, it is already great to have the results he has now. As a mother, He Jiuniang doesn't want her son to become a tool that only knows how to study and practice martial arts. He is still so young and can be an ordinary child. Enjoy your childhood to the fullest.

I don't know how Gou'er felt after hearing these words, but the young prince was quite shocked after hearing this. This was the first time he saw parents who didn't force their children to grow up and become excellent.

The education he received since he was a child is to let him study hard and practice martial arts, so that he can become useful in the future and not be laughed at. Even his father and mother concubine think so, because he is the eldest son and has the burden on his shoulders. The responsibility is heavy, and his status does not allow him not to grow.

But I didn't expect that the dog's parents had always taught him this way, but even so, the dog still grew up so well. Why is this?

Seeing his worried look, He Jiuniang guessed something, and then said to him: "The young prince is the same, never care about the results of things, just care about the process. If you have worked hard for something, Then no matter what the result is, you can pat your chest and tell yourself that you have worked hard, so even if the result is not good, you have no regrets."

"But... my father and mother-in-law always hope that I can make a difference..."

He spoke with some disappointment. Before he met Gou'er, he was full of rebelliousness. The more his parents forced him, the more he didn't want to learn. Later, after he met Gou'er and saw that he was so curly at a young age, he was not to be outdone. , and I also wanted to perform well in front of my parents and let them take a high look at me.

Lu Baichuan glanced at He Jiuniang. He didn't know much about educating children. It all depends on his wife's performance.

He Jiuniang said: "It is true that your father, queen, mother and concubine wish you well, but for yourself, your excellence is not for others, but for yourself. Regardless of whether you can live up to your parents' expectations, the most important thing is to live up to you. Yourself. If you keep playing with things and not making progress, your parents will be disappointed, but the one you feel most sorry for is yourself. But if you work hard and try your best, then it doesn’t matter what the result is, because you It’s enough to be worthy of yourself. Except for yourself, other people’s opinions are actually not very important, because in the end, you will always be the one who benefits or suffers the consequences.”

When it comes to educating her son, He Jiuniang advises him to relax and enjoy more of his childhood. This is mainly because Gou'er has always worked hard, so hard that He Jiuniang feels distressed.

But the little prince is different. This child's goal is not very clear. He is working hard with Gou'er now just because he doesn't want to be left too far by Gou'er. By the way, he can also communicate with his parents, but for him, he has never had one. Clear objectives.

He seems to have been living for others.

Therefore, He Jiuniang felt that it was necessary to remind him to prevent him from going astray.

Although this actually has nothing to do with her, the young prince plays so well with the dog now, and... ahem, his father and mother have given her so many benefits, so she still needs to help educate him. of.

Everyone, when they are confused, she likes to be the holy lady who gives guidance, hehe.

The young prince may not immediately understand the meaning of these words, so he did not respond for the time being, and still looked worried. He Jiuniang could understand the shock caused by hearing such words for the first time, so she did not say anything more, just Pat him on the shoulder, silently comforting him.Lu Baichuan silently gave his wife a thumbs up in his heart and felt that she was right. No matter whether a person works hard or not, he has to bear everything by himself in the end. It has nothing to do with his parents and the same goes for other people.

After returning to the house, several people went to see Kang Tanhua together. The two children kept saying caring words around the bed. Kang Tanhua was very happy and talked to them. By the way, he briefly tested their homework. The two children then left.

After tricking the two children away, he looked at He Jiuniang and asked, "Did Doctor He find a way to cure me?"

He Jiuniang has not shown up in the past few days, and there are rumors that she is trying to find a solution for his injury, but he knows exactly how his body is. She must have her own reasons for doing this, so she helps act together. His bones were falling apart from all the walking in the past few days, and he didn't even get up to move around, making him look very weak.

When I asked this now, I was actually asking her if she had done everything she had to do.

He Jiuniang smiled and said: "Of course, I will do my best to treat a talent like Mr. Kang. I believe that it won't take a few days for him to take part in the palace examination!"

Kang Xiucai knew that the imperial court had even postponed the date of the palace examination for him. While he was moved, he also understood that the prince and the emperor actually wanted to give face to the Lu family. He knew that he had a good relationship with them, so he was accommodating.

"These days are really..."

"The suffering that your husband suffered can be regarded as our involvement. It's up to us to apologize to him."

Lu Baichuan interrupted his intended apology and gave him a salute as an apology. He was a little anxious and subconsciously wanted to get up to stop him. His servant Xiaoding hurriedly stepped forward to help him, fearing that he would fall and aggravate his injuries.

"Third Master, you are serious. This is the fault of the Dongting people. What does it have to do with the Lu family? If they hadn't been ambitious again and again, these things wouldn't have happened. It seems that the battle between Beiyan and Dongting must be fought!"

Kang Tanhua sighed, this Dongting person is really annoying, he just doesn't know if the country can withstand such a war.

Thinking of this, he looked up at the couple standing in front of him, and thought, with these two here, it shouldn't be a problem, right?When the time comes, he should also contribute to the court.

"Sir, do you also think this battle should be fought?"

Lu Baichuan's eyes lit up. So far, no civil servant in the DPRK approved of the war.

(End of this chapter)