rich concubine

Chapter 1680
Rong Yi thought to herself without saying a word, she felt that the child didn't understand anything at a young age, but she didn't know that she gave birth to a very smart child. Seeing her mother's face look bad, she would worry and ask: "Don't you like it, mother?" "

Rong Yi was stunned for a moment and asked: "What?"

Jiacheng frowned and said, "Does Mom not like Cheng Cheng to be a hero? If Mom doesn't like it, Cheng Cheng will never do it again."

Rong Yi felt soft and said, "Mom doesn't dislike it, I'm just afraid that you will regret it in the future."

How many people have experienced the word regret over and over again when they grow up? How can such a young child know what "regret" is?
Sure enough, Jiacheng asked: "What is regret?"

"Regret is when you grow up and realize that everything you have learned is something you don't like and you don't want to do it at all. But at that time, there is no turning back and it is impossible to change. "

Jiacheng said: "But, is being a hero a bad thing?"

Rong Yi was silent. She wanted to say that the essence of being a hero is of course a good thing and worthy of praise. However, when someone becomes a hero, some people will be sad and some will be worried.

But this explanation is too complicated for a three-year-old child. At the age of three, it is the beginning of being curious about everything. No matter what you teach him, you must teach him from the correct angle, not from the right angle. His own will tells him whether it is good or bad.

Rong Yi said: "Of course it is a good thing to be a hero. Like your father, they beat away the enemy, protected thousands of families, and protected the country from harm. This is a hero. Your father is not the only hero. Everyone on the battlefield is a hero and deserves to be praised."

Jiacheng's idea was very tricky. He said: "Grandpa said that the enemies are all bad guys, all barbarians, but they are also on the battlefield. Aren't they heroes?"

Rong Yi's eyes flashed and she explained carefully: "Of course they are also heroes, but to us, they are enemies and bad guys, but to their own country and people, they are the best people in the world. "

After saying that, Rong Yi touched the back of his head and said, "Chengcheng is too young now to understand the deeper meaning. When Chengcheng grows up in the future, he will understand what mother means."

Jiacheng said with a serious face: "Chengcheng understands!"

Rong Yi smiled: "Do you really understand?"

Chengcheng clenched his little fists, nodded heavily, then blinked at his mother with bright eyes, and said: "Being a hero is a good thing, how can Chengcheng regret it in the future? Mom, Chengcheng is real. I like it, I won’t regret it.”

This time, Rong Yi was silent, just looked at her son tenderly, and sighed in her heart.

In the final analysis, the endless struggle in her heart just now was not all because subconsciously, she still did not want to watch her son follow the same path as his father. She admitted that she was a selfish mother and only hoped that her child could live in peace. As long as everything goes smoothly, he doesn't need to protect his family and country.

She didn't want to worry about her loved one when she was young, or worry about her son when she got older. She didn't want to hear the bad news that one day in the future, her son's life and death would be unknown.

However, no matter how unwilling you are, what can you do? As long as the child wants to do something that does not violate morality or the bottom line, the mother will not stop it.

Rong Yi smiled bitterly. It seems that the saying that a tiger father has no dog son is true. His son is really like him.

Taking two deep breaths, Rong Yi asked her son: "If you want to be like dad, you won't be able to sleep in anymore. You have to get up very early to practice, remember a lot of things, and have no time to play. Don't you think it's hard?" Jiacheng thought. After thinking for a while, he said in a coquettish voice: "But, daddy works hard too, daddy is not afraid, and Chengcheng is not afraid either!"

After saying that, he smiled with his eyes narrowed, hugged his mother's neck, and whispered in her ear: "Besides, I will protect my sisters after I become a child!"

At this moment, Rong Yi was greatly shocked. She looked at her childish son and felt proud in her heart.

"Then Chengcheng has to work hard..."

……

At night, Rong Yi slept with two little girls, and the three children were beside her. Rong Yi originally wanted to take all three children over, but little did she know that during dinner, Cheng Cheng looked serious and blushed. When he refused, he also said that he was an older child and could not compete with his sisters. He also said that he was a man and could not sleep with his mother.

No one taught him these words. Rong Yi never let others teach his children. As a brother, he had to give up. In her eyes, the three children were all the same, only Ling'er was slightly younger. But Chengcheng and Xiaotuanzi were born together. Even if Chengcheng was born first, he would only be a three-year-old child. Why should such a young child have to teach "the older one must give way to the younger one?" What about this kind of rule?

Children are all born by themselves. Since you have given birth to so many children, you must give them equal love. You cannot let the older brother feel that just because you are the older brother, you must give in to your younger sister and be very sensible in front of your parents. .

It's not time to teach them this, even if they grow up, Rong Yi will only teach them to respect and love each other. It is not the older children who should be sensible, but the parents who keep a bowl of water level.

I also came from a child. Although Rong Yi had never been the eldest child, her situation at that time was no different from that of the eldest child. Her mother would only tell her over and over again not to compete with her brother, because she was a girl. In the future, Everything belongs to her brother, as long as she is obedient and not annoying.

Sometimes, children suffer far more grievances than adults imagine. They are all accumulated from the little things in life, which can make a good child become sensitive and have low self-esteem.

Therefore, when he said those words like a little adult, Rong Yi was still reflecting on it, was there something he did wrong that made him realize this at such a young age?
But obviously, the child did not feel ignored or wronged. He said with a smile: "Mom, you are not tired."

Rong Yi was stunned and her eyes were wet.

Her child just became sensible too early and knew how to feel sorry for his mother.

Children will always grow up one day, but Rongyi did not expect that her son would already start to be sensible at such a young age. Could this be related to his early enlightenment?
Feeling happy and sad at the same time, lying on the bed, Ling'er was caught in the middle. Jiayun didn't sleep either. She lay on the bed and stared at her sister intently.

Rong Yi thought about her son for a while, and suddenly realized that her two daughters were also particularly quiet and well-behaved. She glanced at her, smiled, touched Jia Yun's face, and asked, "What are you looking at?"

……

　everyone understands

　　Children in romance novels are all different hahaha
　　Think about it, when I was three years old, I probably still wet the bed.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)