rich concubine

Chapter 1947: All lives are different
However, no matter how you say it, your destiny has been arranged. If you don't do evil, you will feel guilty, and bad luck will not come to you. If you don't behave like a human being, then why should you blame your fate for being unfair?So boring.

The wind picked up. Rong Yi and He Zhiyuan entered the cabin. They sat on low chairs. The servants served cakes and tea and then left. Rong Yi continued what he had just said: "Everyone has his own destiny. Now This is your choice, don't feel sorry, just live your life with peace of mind."

He Zhiyuan looked at her and suddenly smiled, but the smile was bitter and a little dazed. She said: "Actually, what she said is not completely unreasonable. I thought about it carefully later. This child has no Father is always incomplete. He doesn’t understand anything when he is young, but when he grows up, I am afraid that he will hate me and hate that my insistence at this time makes him lack fatherly love."

This is what parents are like, they have to consider everything, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of not doing well, afraid of regrets in the future, and afraid of complaints from their children.

Rong Yi thought for a while and said: "Father's love cannot be compensated by mother's love. If it is a boy, he needs to be taught by his father's words and deeds to teach him to be a upright and good man. If he is a girl, he also needs his father's love. No. As for the lack of this love, I will be blinded by any man when I grow up."

After she finished speaking, He Zhiyuan shook his head and said: "With the environment of the Cui family and the thoughts of the whole family, I'm afraid that my child will be spoiled there. If I give birth to a son who is the same as Cui Shikang taught by them, Likewise, if you don't treat your wife well in the future, won't you be like me? Won't you harm other girls? If you give birth to a girl... Heh, I'm afraid she will be even less popular. "

After that, she stopped her smile and fell silent. She didn't need anyone else to enlighten her. She had thought of all the consequences herself.

Rong Yi took a sip of warm tea and said with a smile: "What are you afraid of? Since you will regret any choice you make, then choose a decision that makes you feel comfortable and at ease. When this child grows up, raise it well. It is sensible and reasonable, so it will naturally know your hard work and understand you. If anyone dares to gossip in front of it, I will not let it go. You, just feel at ease. Besides, you Don’t you plan to get married again in the future? If you can find a sensible person who treats you and your children well, everything will be fine.”

He Zhiyuan covered her face and smiled sheepishly, and said: "At this age, it is too exaggerated to marry again. It is enough for me to have this child, and I don't think about anything else. Besides, it is better not to marry again. If I meet another Cui Shikang again, my life will be really ruined. Now I am really content and can live a life of myself and my children. This is worse than anything else."

"Don't say this too early. When fate has arrived, there is no point in resisting. If you are so good, how could you know that the next one will be so unbearable? You may not be sure, your right fate will be the next person. Think carefully this time, and you will still be happy. At the back.”

It is indeed too early for He Zhiyuan to talk about looking for him now. He has just struggled out of a hopeless marriage and is not clean enough yet. How can he think about the future, but when talking about this, He Zhiyuan still can't help but feel... Thinking of the past with Chui Shikang, she sighed and said: "Actually, the beginning of my relationship with him was quite good. At that time, he was upright and just, and he had a lot of energy. He was one of the few in the younger generation who worked hard and relied on himself. My father liked him very much at that time. He thought he was down-to-earth, didn't talk much, and worked hard. At first, the Cui family was just beginning to make a name for themselves, and had a good reputation in Beijing. He brought his mother to Kyoto from the countryside, and his mother It was completely different then than it is now.”

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"At that time, Mrs. Cui was very simple and down-to-earth. Women from the countryside seemed particularly careless. My parents also noticed this at that time and felt that the Cui family was an easy family to marry into. If I could marry... In the past, I had a kind-hearted mother-in-law and a good husband by my side. In the future, things will only go up. It happened that Cui Shikang also often expressed his affection for me at that time. After going back and forth, the two of us had more contact, and it was time to talk about marriage. It's time, speaking of it, he and I are not blindly married. We got to that point after being in contact with each other and having a good impression of each other."

But who could have known that even so, there would be times when a misunderstanding would occur, and a family that everyone praised would turn out to be nothing but a pity.Later, the Cui family slowly stood up. It was completely different from the beginning. Mrs. Cui's former gentleness completely disappeared, leaving only arrogance and prejudice. But who allowed her to have a promising son and a submissive daughter-in-law?There was no one above her to control her, and no one below her dared to disobey, and no one to dissuade her, so her temper became even louder.Then there’s what it looks like now.

He Zhiyuan calmed down and said: "It's really sad that people become villains when they succeed. Now when I think back to the past, I just feel like my heart is twisting. He and I were good friends at the beginning. They were both harmonious and beautiful for the first and second years of marriage, but that’s the end of it.”

"So, when it comes to deciding who to live your life, who can you spot at first glance? Of course, there will be people who are so lucky, but unfortunately I am not. Hey, maybe I am afraid. Now I am asked to find someone to marry. Yes, I’m really a little scared.”

Seeing her speaking these words frankly, Rong Yi also sighed, but she didn't feel anxious about it. In fact, she now has a stable place to live and has her own things to do. Looking at the future, she does not have to get married again. No, maybe the reputation would be a bit bad if word spread. However, when the trouble with the Cui family was so ugly, the reputation would have been bad for a long time. Now this is nothing.

He just said: "You have to consider these things yourself. Just listen to what others say. You have to go through life yourself to know whether it is sweet or spicy."

Just like her, her life was smooth sailing. How could she persuade a divorced woman to remarry and live a good life, and make her believe that marriage is beautiful?
If He Zhiyuan told her that men are not worth it, that no man in this world is good, and that one day she will be abandoned and persecuted like herself, let her open her eyes and leave with her children as soon as possible, she I will definitely look at her with a strange look, instead of feeling that it makes sense, as it should be.

Human lives are different, so why use your own to measure others and use your own feelings to force others?
I am used to eating fish, so I can't persuade the monk to return to secular life.

At this point, the two of them slowly calmed down, put this matter aside, and talked about other things.

The weather is refreshing, the wind is melodious, and you can enjoy yourself by saying something pleasant.

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(End of this chapter)