rich concubine

Chapter 2278 Teasing Ling'er

After several snowfalls, the sky finally cleared up, the sun shone a little, and it wasn't that cold anymore.

Rong Yi asked people to put a few chairs in the open hall and asked the children to come outside to enjoy the air and bask in the sun.

Cheng Chengzhi moved his desk, equipped it with pens, ink, paper and inkstones, and started practicing calligraphy in the sun, while Jiayun sat next to her mother with an embroidery toy and sewed seriously.

The embroidery is of a calf, prepared for my sister who is coming back soon.

Rong Yi corrected her acupuncture technique, and Jia Yun blushed and said ashamedly, "It's my daughter, Nu Hong, who didn't learn well."

Rong Yi touched her hair and said warmly: "You are still young now. You have to practice these things slowly. Don't worry. Now that you can embroider this doll by yourself, it is very good." ”

Jia Yun said: "But mother, my mother's embroidery skills have always been very good. I don't know how long I will have to practice before I can match her."

"These things cannot be achieved overnight. Why compare with your mother? You, compare yourself. If you make progress this time, that's right. There will never be an end to comparing with others. Don't think like this. ,child."

Jia Yun understood this, nodded, then smiled and said: "But mother is not someone else, and I am not trying to compete with you, but outsiders know that mother's embroidery skills are excellent. If my daughter's embroidery is not good, I’m afraid of embarrassing you.”

Rong Yi looked at her seriously and said gently and firmly: "No matter what you guys look like, I will never feel ashamed."

When educating children, we always hope to teach them to be smart, diligent, well-educated, and polite. We hope that they will stand out and gain a good reputation. No matter where they go in the future, they will have a bright face. This idea is not wrong, but it is Being too utilitarian is an invisible pressure on children.

In the eyes of children, the love given by their parents all depends on whether they can be what their parents like. If they cannot, sensitive children will have the deepest sense of guilt, thinking that their parents' unhappiness is all because of them. It is self-induced. Carrying too many emotions at a young age is not a good thing.

It is true that children from wealthy families are quite competitive. Children who grew up in the same period compete openly and covertly for one to be higher than the other. If they raise their children well, they will be straight when they go out.

Those parents who raise their children in a lawless and domineering manner cannot tell anyone how much they regret.

But these children of my own are all smart and considerate. They really don't worry about it much. Many times, their own happiness is brought by their children. If you can have such children, no matter what they can do in the future. It doesn't matter whether you are not successful or how talented you are. As the saying goes, you can see your age at the age of three. At least she knew that the three sweethearts raised under her knees would not be any worse. They had kindness in their hearts. He is sensible, knows good and evil, has been educated, and has parents who love him attentively, but are not overly pampered. How can such a child be so bad?
Ling'er clapped her hands and walked over. She looked at the doll in her sister's hand and looked at her mother with some distress: "But Ling'er doesn't know how to do this. When my sister comes back, what should Ling'er do to make her happy?"

Rong Yi said: "Listen to my mother, my sister is more delicate. I know that you want to see your sister the most, but when she comes back, you can't be willful. She is weak, do you know that?"

Ruyi's child was frightened in her mother's womb and was weak and sickly when she was born. Now she has recovered a bit and brought the child back.

These three children in our own courtyard are used to being naughty. In the past, they were the only three children in this courtyard. They could walk and run anywhere with no one to restrain them. But when their second uncle and second aunt came back, there was an extra child in the house. If you are a child, you can no longer play and run around like a local bully.

Ling'er pursed her lips, held her mother's hand and hummed: "Mom, do you remember that you said this last night, and also said it yesterday, I have written it down, I really have written it down." Rong Yi took a deep breath, smiled helplessly, pinched her chin, and asked, "But you think your mother is too verbose? Isn't it because I'm afraid that it goes in one ear and out the other?"

Ling'er sighed, as if there was nothing he could do to her, and pointed at the things in her sister's hands, asking with her eyes what she should give.

Seeing how much she cared for her little sister she had never met before, Rong Yi's heart softened and she said, "How about you give the jade unicorn in your hand to your sister?"

Ling'er thought for a while and nodded repeatedly: "Okay, I'll give it to my sister and play with it in my hand. But in this case, I won't have it anymore. Can I give Ling'er another one in the future?"

Rong Yi couldn't help laughing. This little guy wants to give a gift to his sister whom he has never met, but after giving it, he is worried that he doesn't have one and will ask for another one from himself. This is really a calculation.

It seems that someone will inherit the restaurant in the future.

Rong Yi did not agree easily. She only said: "This thing is yours. You gave it to your sister voluntarily, but someone forced you to do it?"

Ling'er: "No..."

"Since no one is forcing you, you can't force your mother to give you another one. If you really can't bear to part with it, you might as well think of something else to give as a gift. It doesn't have to be a jade unicorn."

Ling'er was troubled and looked at her sister for help. She heard her say: "Don't look at me. This is what you promised yourself. You can't go back on your word."

Seeing that her sister didn't speak for him, Ling'er turned to look at Chengcheng. Chengcheng turned his face away from her pitiful look. He suppressed a smile in his eyes and said to her: "On weekdays, listen to you It's hard to call him brother, but now he thinks of me when something happens, but I won't help."

Ling'er's voice was a little softer, but she said it confidently: "Sister doesn't call you brother either, why do you only call me me and not sister? Brother is very partial."

Cheng Cheng raised his eyebrows: "Little slippery man, now you know how to call me brother, but that's not enough. You pretend I don't know you. If I really say something nice for you, you'll probably fall out and not recognize me."

The whole family, brothers and sisters, naturally understand each other best. Ling'er is quirky, and even the older ones, especially Cheng Cheng, have suffered a lot of "losses" at her hands, making her laugh and cry every time. , and she was helpless.

Rong Yi said at this time: "This is your own business. Just make your own decision. If you insist on asking your brothers and sisters to speak softly for you, it seems that your intention in giving gifts is not sincere. From my mother's point of view, it is not true." It’s better not to send it.”

Chengcheng said helpfully: "Yes, my sister has so many rare things in her hand, and it's just a jade unicorn. It's not necessary. In my opinion, the girl doesn't need to buy these things for her, and she doesn't see her on weekdays. Ling'er took it out to play with, it's just for fun, but it has no effect."

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(End of this chapter)