That year the flowers bloomed 1981

Chapter 526: Your strong son has become a talented person
At 4:30 in the afternoon, when several of the Wang family's elders went into a rage in the hotel, the courtyard of King Jianqiang's courtyard in Bei Nijo was also very lively.

After the noon banquet, several of Huang Suwen's cousins, uncles, and their family members and children followed Li Zhongfa and others to Wang Jianqiang's yard to see each other about the "strength" of the groom's family.

This is also an important part of the marriage discussion. Although it is not as "will not marry for less than a hundred square meters" as in later generations, you still have to have a place to lay eggs no matter what?

And looking at the result, of course, I am quite satisfied.

Some relatives who didn't know much about the situation originally thought that it would be a little bit inappropriate for a beautiful Beijing girl like Huang Suwen to marry Wang Jianqiang.

They didn't resent that Wang Jianqiang's family was not from the local area, but they did resent that Wang Jianqiang was less than 1.75 meters tall.
But after seeing this yard, everyone wanted to say, "It doesn't matter if you are rich or poor, I just like a good son-in-law who is 1.7 meters tall."

Huang Suwen's family lives in a large courtyard, with a family of four living in two rooms, which is pretty good among relatives!

But now when I look at Wang Jianqiang’s house, okay? The young couple has more than a dozen rooms to themselves. Now the policy only allows one child. When the grandchildren are all dissatisfied,

In this way, it is an advantage that Wang Jianqiang is not from the local area. There is no father-in-law and mother-in-law sitting above his head. Huang Suwen is only a few hundred meters away from her mother's house. Damn, isn't this a half-term son-in-law?
It’s suitable, it’s suitable anywhere, and Lao Huang’s family is making a lot of money.

All the relatives of Lao Huang's family were smiling, but Wang Jianqiang's parents, Wang Daguang and Fan Chunhua, were sighing.

"Are you afraid of them talking nonsense now? Then why did you let them follow you here and ask me to pay for the round-trip ticket?"

"Qiangzi! We always feel uneasy. You have left these uncles aside today. What will you do if they come to find you? Look, there are so many people now. If a quarrel breaks out, don't let others laugh at you."

When I was so hungry that I ate grass roots by the river, I didn't think it was funny if they gave me a piece of cake. "

"Dad, Mom, let me tell you the truth today. I made some money outside, and I can also help the family to prevent you from suffering and poverty.
But you can't treat me like a donkey just for your so-called face. I can't pull off all your endless face with my own strength. "

Fan Chunhua and Wang Daguang, who have been "honest friends" all their lives, simply couldn't take these words from Wang Jianqiang.

Wang Daguang said sarcastically: "We are all flesh and blood relatives. People are eager to come over to help you. You can't be hot-faced and cold-blooded. People live with a face, so you can't give others face."

"Ha~, you are quite calculating. Okay, go and greet your wife's people! I'll have a few words with your parents."

At this moment, Wang Jianqiang seemed to be no longer their son, but a well-founded superior.

Li Zhongfa praised Wang Jianqiang with a smile and sent him to Huang Suwen.

Li Zhongfa, who had been talking to Huang Suwen's parents, finally noticed something unusual about Wang Jianqiang and hurried over to calm down.

Fan Chunhua suddenly said aggrievedly: "Uncle, I didn't discipline my son. I was just worried that Qiangzi's third uncle and fourth uncle would come from a long way away. They wouldn't let him go to the table and then went back. What if he got into trouble? Do it?”

But this is a matter of the Wang family, so Li Zhongfa still asked Wang Jianqiang: "Qiangzi, how did you arrange it? What are your thoughts?"

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"Face? Whose face?"

Li Zhongfa came to the capital with the Wang family, and he couldn't stand the blustering faces of those people along the way.

When Wang Jianqiang faced Li Zhongfa, of course he told the truth.

"What are you saying as a family? It's no time to train your son on this day!"

"What to do? Salad."

Wang Jianqiang smiled coldly: "During the Chinese New Year this year, they asked me to borrow money and find a job. Do I owe them? It's ridiculous!

"Master, I estimate that my second master has just arrived at the Plaza Hotel. You have to take a three-way bus to get here. If you go smoothly, you will have to arrive at night. By then, everyone in the Huang family will have left, and I am not afraid. them."

Then Li Zhongfa's face darkened.

"Xiaoye only gave me a rough idea today. It's not convenient for me to interfere in the affairs of your Wang family, but I just want to ask you and your wife, is your son closer to you? Or is your brother closer to you? ?”

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Wang Daguang was stunned for a while, then said with a twitching face: "Uncle, we are all relatives."

"Both kiss? Hey~"

Li Zhongfa laughed scornfully and asked coldly: "How much help have your brothers and sisters-in-law given you over the years? Have they built you a house? Have you bought you a TV? Have you given you eighty yuan a month?" "

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Wang Daguang and Fan Chunhua were choked and speechless.

No one is rich these days. If you borrow a few bowls of wheat, you will have to pay it back later! Who can help you build a house and land for free?
Poverty breeds treachery and wealth breeds conscience. If everyone has spare money, it is great to help each other, but if everyone is poor, how many brothers will break their heads?

"A pair of fools." Li Zhongfa scolded him coldly: "It was so noisy last night. Instead of helping your own son, you helped a few people who came to fight the autumn wind. You are really a dog at your age. went."

Fan Chunhua said aggrievedly: "Uncle, it's not that we don't want to help Saner, we are really afraid that the third and fourth sons will stab us in the back when they go back!"

"Ah~"

Li Zhongfa sighed and pointed helplessly at some of the Wang family relatives who stayed in Bei Ertiao.

"Don't think blindly here," Li Zhongfa said: "Your family's strong son has already made arrangements. Even if you return to Qingshui County, there will be someone to help you speak, but then you will have to speak for your own son. ”

There are also many Wang family relatives who stayed in Beijianjiao Wang Jianqiang, including several members of the second uncle's family and several relatives from Wang Jianqiang's grandmother's side.

These people didn't show off like Wang Jianqiang's uncles yesterday, so they were more measured.

But now, all of them, men, women, old and young, have changed their outfits and have a new look.

This morning when I was preparing to go get engaged with the Huang family, someone asked why the third and fourth uncles hadn’t come yet.
But after Wang Jiaqiang paid out the welfare, no one mentioned it anymore, as if they had forgotten that half of their relatives were still there at the Plaza Hotel.

Fenghua brand clothing is sold in department stores in Qingshui County, and everyone knows it. Plus leather shoes, each person's outfit costs at least a few hundred yuan.

Wang Jianqiang brought less than ten sets in total, which was enough to score without fighting or grabbing.

Wang Daguang smashed the bar a few times and said with some emotion: "Oh, San'er is still a child with a temper. He spends money too willfully. I still have to pay back the money I borrowed! I gave these clothes away, can I still get them back?" "

"Ah~"

Li Zhongfa shook his head helplessly and said: "You guys! You should read more books in the future, otherwise you will have to count the money for your third son if he is sold!"

Wang Jianqiang's second brother finally couldn't help but said: "Grandpa, Qiangzi is not as good at studying as me!"

"Not as good as you?" Li Zhongfa said contemptuously: "Do you think Qiangzi is still the same Qiangzi before? Huh~"

After Li Zhong came here today, he followed relatives of the Huang family to visit Wang Jianqiang's home, including his study.

Li Zhongfa was Wang Jianqiang's master, and Wang Jianqiang regarded him as his own grandfather, so Li Zhongfa didn't have so many scruples, and then he took a look at Wang Jianqiang's "study achievements."

This tugging didn't matter, but it shocked Li Zhongfa.

The two thick piles of study notes are more than half a meter high together.

Although the handwriting inside is clumsy and ugly, every stroke is very serious. It is obvious that Wang Jianqiang has been studying for the past two years.

Then Li Zhongfa learned about Wang Jianqiang's series of arrangements for his relatives, and he immediately looked at this once honest and honest disciple with admiration.

Blindly accommodating and patronizing will not bring good results.

If Wang Jianqiang always meets the demands of the Wang family, even if everyone praises him today, it will not be a long-term solution, and it may be a bottomless pit of dissatisfaction.

So Wang Jianqiang used some tricks to keep some of his relatives, gave him new clothes, and even agreed to arrange for two of his direct descendants to come to the capital to work.

When all the Wang family members return to Qingshui County, those relatives who have been let go will not only hate Wang Jianqiang's parents, but also hate the other half of the relatives who got the benefits.

What is this called? This is called differentiation and co-optation, this is called deflection of conflicts, and this is a normal tactic of a leader.

think about it! If a leader is on the opposite side of everyone under his command, then a group of subordinates will regard the leader as an evil boss who must be overthrown. Everyone will resist whatever you say, and everyone will obey you.

But what if after differentiation and win-win?

Well, the leader can just sit in the office and drink tea, and the people below will take action on their own.

When Wang Jianqiang first came to the capital, he was a small warehouse manager assisting Jin Peng and Ma Qianshan.

But now Wang Jianqiang is responsible for the warehousing and transportation of Pengcheng No. 7 Factory in the entire north. If he hadn't been in twos and threes, he would have been killed by his subordinates.

Looking at Wang Daguang and Fan Chunhua who looked like goose-headed geese, Li Zhongfa smiled helplessly, turned around and left.

"Your strong son has become a talented person!"

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Fan Chunhua and Wang Daguang looked at each other in confusion, not understanding what Li Zhongfa meant by "mature".

"Have you become successful? Which fortune?"

(End of this chapter)