Taoyao Order

Chapter 44 Communication

Although it was not that exaggerated, Tao Yao still felt very happy after hearing Tao Yu say such words, and she felt that finally someone could understand her: "That's it."

Taoyu continued: "I think you did an excellent job in this matter. To tell you the truth, ask yourself, even if something happened to the Wu family at that time, if you brought someone to our house, I would have to think twice, and I might not be willing to nod. Do this.

You were able to think of asking the prefect's lady for help, which shows that you also knew that there would be trouble later, but even so, you were still willing to take the risk to help her. This is praiseworthy, admirable and respectable.I can't help but praise you.That is to say, you have the courage to take responsibility and are willing to take on such things.It can be seen that your father, uncle and grandfather loved the people like sons in our Taoyuan. You have been influenced by them, and that is why you have been raised so well. "

After hearing such thoughtful words, Tao Yao bit her lip to hold back her tears.

Tao Yu saw that Tao Yao's aura of hostility when she just talked about Chu Ping had gradually dissipated, and then she slowly said: "But actually, what Chu Ping said has its own truth."

When Tao Yao heard Tao Yu turn around to speak for Chu Ping again, she couldn't help frowning and raised her head to look at Tao Yu. She saw a kind smile on Tao Yu's face and said warmly: "He actually praised you too, first of all That's right, he said he admires your courage."

Tao Yao said disdainfully: "But his second sentence was 'but'."

Any good words are meaningless once they are followed by "but".

Taoyu just continued to smile and said: "Yaoyao, you have to know that men and women are very different. Men like to present facts and reason, but women often value men's attitudes and determination more.

So often women want to hear love words, and men are talking about frogs.A woman wants to hear that he loves you and you love him, but a man can only croak and croak. In the end, the chicken talks to the duck, that's the truth. "

Tao Yao seemed to understand, "What do you mean?"

Taoyu patiently said to her: "Actually, you see, if Chu Ping can be like me, listen to you tell the whole story, first care about whether you were frightened today, comfort you not to be afraid, praise you for doing a good job, and encourage you If you keep up the good work, and then analyze the pros and cons with you in such detail, and clarify his thoughts, will you be able to listen to him better, at least not as angry as when you talk to him?

In fact, if I let your brother-in-law listen to what Chu Ping said, he might think that everything he said makes sense, but you don't like to hear it.That's because the reason why you are willing to tell him about the Wu girl is because you have expectations in your heart. You want to get approval and comfort from him, and you hope that he will stand by your side, acknowledge you, and affirm you. you.But he didn't give you what you wanted. Instead, he gave you some opinions and preaching.

So, you are angry because he didn’t give you what you wanted, and you didn’t want what he gave. "

Tao Yao was stunned, savoring what Tao Yu said carefully. To be honest, Tao Yao didn't know.She thought she was angry because he was aboveboard, but it was because of his bad character, indifference, and inconsistency that he let her down, and that made her angry.But in fact, Master Liu is like this, Zheng Qiaoyan is like this, and even Taoyu is like this. They don’t want to help Wu Yan, but they can respect them. Not only are they not angry, but they can still talk to them in a pleasant manner, and even thank them for their help. A little help would not make him angry at them, but Chu Ping saved himself in a critical moment.

And I just listened to a few words from him and became so angry?

Taoyao initially thought it was because she was different to him, so the greater her hopes, the greater her disappointment.But in fact, deeper inside, the reason why I was angry was not that high-sounding. It was just because what I wanted from him was not satisfied.

Taoyu looked at Taoyao who was silent as if she was deep in thought, and tentatively spoke again to comfort her: "Actually, this is very common. Almost all men and women will have this kind of relationship to some extent. thing.

In fact, what he said is quite right. If you don’t understand what he says, he won’t understand what you say either. If you two don’t quarrel, then who will?

If you ask me to deliver a message to you, what do you want to say to him in your heart: I sacrificed myself and resisted everything for the Wu girl, and I was willing to do so, but I was just a boudoir girl. I had just experienced such a thrilling thing, and I was extremely scared. , I want you to comfort me, encourage me, and tell me that if it were you, you would be the same as me, stand on my side, and do the same thing as me.

And he wants to tell you: I really admire you for being so brave, so responsible, and so selfless to help your classmates.I am willing to stand with you. If it were me, I would definitely help her, but I don't want you to face a situation like today alone and put yourself in danger.I saw that you were in danger, I cared about you very much, and I felt sorry for you.So I hope that if you encounter such a situation again, you can come to me and I will definitely help you.No matter what happens in the future, let us face it together.In Hangzhou, you are no longer alone.I can be your support and stand side by side with you.

And if you talk to him like this like me, and he talks to you like this like me, what will happen to you today? "

After hearing this, Tao Yao said angrily: "If he really answers me like Sister Yu said, I will marry him today!

But this is not the case at all. This is just your wishful thinking. He advised me not to meddle in my own business. He looked down on me, thought I was not doing well, thought I was stupid, and did not agree with me. "

Taoyu said with a smile: "He loves the common people, you love someone, you are obviously very like-minded.

However, it is not convenient for him as a man to deal with Wu Yan's affairs. If you face Wu Yan's affairs by yourself, you will inevitably encounter danger.Neither of you can handle things well individually, but if you two face Wu Yan's matter together in the future, wouldn't all these difficulties be solved?This is why two people are better than one.

Besides, that kid is a man of few words. If he really dislikes you, he can just leave. You just had a quarrel, and he is actually willing to protect you all the way here, and even comes in to apologize. Faced with My mother's making things difficult shows that he must have you in mind. "

Taoyao lowered his head and remained silent.

Seeing that Taoyao still looked unconvinced, Taoyu just sighed and said warmly: "Yaoyao, this man needs to be trained. No one is born with the ability to speak, and no man is born with the ability to understand his daughter. Thoughts of home.

Men need respect and women need love.If he doesn't understand, it means he hasn't had much contact with women and is still very immature. You have to slowly train him so that his life will be easier in the future. "

(End of this chapter)