Soft and cute Zaizai wins in the era article

Zhang Jin knew all this, but he didn't care or ask.

Wen Minghua's departure has taken away all his energy and energy. What he does most now is to lock himself in a room, or hold Wen Minghua's ashes, or hold her photos, recalling his life .

When he was young, he had a marriage.

But that marriage left him with almost no good memories.

Things were fine before marriage. In his eyes, his mother and sister were very easy to get along with, and his deceased wife's character was also gentle and delicate.

He drank too much on the wedding day. Although he was not drunk, he was in high spirits.

During the bridal chamber at night, he was inexperienced and didn't know what he was worth, and then he hurt her.

So after the unsatisfactory first time, even though he pestered her twice more, he could only give up in frustration when he saw that she still cried out that it hurt and refused to give in.

His wedding leave was only two days, and he returned to the army early on the third day. He didn't know that after he left, she faced the displeasure of her mother-in-law and various difficulties from her sister-in-law at home.

But he didn't expect that she would become pregnant after the only time on their wedding night.

He was excited when he got the news that he was going to be a father.

But what he didn't expect was that he would have a lot of headaches because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between aunt and sister-in-law at home.

She was pregnant, and her mother still disliked her for not being diligent enough. She was always talking about other people's daughters-in-law, how good they were and how obedient they were.

As for his sister, she also made all kinds of critical remarks in front of him inexplicably.

As for her, at the beginning, she told him in the letter that she, his mother and the girl were not getting along well, and she wanted him to help make the decision.

He was caught in the middle, with his mother and sister on one side and his wife on the other. He really felt that he was not a human being inside and outside, so he chose not to go home for a long time.

When he finally got the news that she had given birth and had a difficult delivery, he regretted it.

First, he regretted not spending more time with her and enlightening her when she was pregnant. Second, he regretted not being her backing support when she faced difficulties from her mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

But if he regrets it again, he will face a cold tombstone.

He was heartbroken and angry.

But no matter how regretful, heartbroken or angry you are, you can't bring the dead back to life.

After that, he was particularly resistant to marriage. He always thought that if he didn't get married, there would be no more conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or conflicts between sister-in-law, right?

……

After marrying Wen Minghua, because he and Wen Minghua were both past the best age for conception, he never thought about letting her have another child regardless of her age.

He never thought about asking all the children to call him dad, although he knew that Manni might be the easiest one to change.

But the Yang Jianguo brothers and sisters are different. The youngest among them is almost 20, so it would be strange if they would change their name to him.

He knew in his heart that they would not be willing, but he still prepared several generous red envelopes to be prepared.

The surprise came suddenly.

He could see that Wen Minghua was also surprised.

However, a few children could change their tune, which made him extremely happy.

Marrying Wen Minghua was really the best decision he made in his life.

She was better than he had ever known.

She is confident, independent, and strong, but when she should be gentle, she can definitely be so gentle that it melts into people's hearts.

She still remembers her curious and surprised tone on their wedding night when he finished running around like a young boy.

In fact, even he found it funny.

Who would have thought that at the age of forty, my experience in this area would still be limited to the first marriage and the various jokes from friends around me.

That night was the happiest and happiest night in his life.

She used her tenderness like water, and used everything about her to be delicate and gentle, completely entangling him... From 1980 to 2003, forty-three years were the years he and Wen Minghua were together.

In forty-three years, they had never had a fight, and she had never gotten angry with him because of his bad temper.

If there is one thing that the two of them disagree on the most, it should be about Manni.

He was actually not very happy that Manni was with Wei Kun, not for anything else but because of Wei Kun's mother.

As someone who has experienced this, he knows best how difficult life would be for a daughter-in-law without a mother-in-law who likes her.

She said she believed Manni could handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but how did Manni handle it?
Just like him before, she chose to escape!

And Wei Kun's way of handling the situation was something he didn't like, because he vaguely saw his original self in him.

Just like himself in his first marriage, he also chose to ignore the relationship between Manni and his mother. He never thought of finding a way to resolve it, let alone stood beside Manni and firmly supported her decision. .

"I disagree."

This was the only time in more than 20 years of marriage that he was particularly determined to say "no" in front of Wen Minghua.

He did not agree with Manni marrying Wei Kun, even though Wei Kun still did not give up on Manni during the three years she went abroad.

But his handling of the relationship between Manni and his mother has always been the reason for his objection, but Wen Minghua obviously didn’t think so. She said:

"In Manni's heart, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually not important at all. She will choose the method that is most beneficial to her, and will not blindly cater to or please someone who doesn't like her."

she says:

"In Manni's heart, love and family affection are not the most important. She has her own goals and pursuits."

she says:

"Manni's ideal is not in marriage. The reason why she chose to marry Wei Kun is not only because she likes Wei Kun, but also because she wants to have a taste of marriage."

"..."

Zhang Jin didn't understand what she said, let alone what she said. Family affection in Manni's heart accounted for the same proportion as love, but it was actually not that important.

He compromised and watched Manni marry Wei Kun.

Fortunately, Manni was lucky again, because not long after Wei Kun got married, she no longer had the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that he was worried about.

"Then what does Manni want most in her heart?"

He had no answer to this question until Wen Minghua left this world.

He also didn't see the answer he wanted from Manni and Wei Kun's marriage of more than 20 years.

……

Forty-three years sounds like a long time, but Zhang Jin only feels that time passes too fast. Before he can love her enough, she is no longer around.

"Minghua, you said you should wait for me."

He didn't know if they would have a chance to renew their marriage, but he held on to such hope.

After all, she could even travel through time and space from the next life to meet him here, so why couldn't they have a chance to see each other again?

"Minghua, next time, we must meet early."

He wanted to spend another fifty years with her, no, fifty years was not enough, he wanted more.

He wants to have children with her, a boy like him and a girl like her;
He wanted to hear her speak with his own ears again, and she missed him in her heart;

He also wanted to tell her that he loved her, even if the sky was endless...

……

Next chapter: The story of Zhang Jin and Wen Minghua’s encounter in modern times.