People in the Ming Dynasty are lawless

Chapter 692: My wife is going to run a women's college, and I am under a lot of pressure

When Zhu Youwei heard Chen Han say this, her face suddenly turned red even though she was used to Chen Han's sweet words.

But he felt particularly happy in his heart, because he knew that Chen Han must be speaking sincerely after all these years living with Chen Han.

She found that Chen Han was not as reserved as the ancient people. Instead, he liked to express his ideas very much, and sometimes even provided some real emotional value between couples.

That is, Chen Han would not have so many ideas of male superiority and female inferiority, and would not require women to give in to men and must have men, and could force women to do anything at any place.

Chen Han is not a so-called feminist. He just thinks that there should not be so many barriers between husband and wife, and there is no need to argue about right or wrong.

If a man is feeling low, a little encouragement from a woman can give him tremendous motivation.

Sometimes when a woman makes a small mistake and a man does not blame her, that can also be a huge motivation.

It is for this reason that Chen Han does not feel that he must be stronger than his wife. There is no need for his wife to listen to him in everything. As long as what he says is right, she will listen to it.

This is Chen Han’s choice and also Chen Han’s idea.

Driven by this idea, the relationship between the couple is very harmonious. Over the years, the two have supported each other. Chen Han can understand his wife's ideas and motivate her to fulfill her ideas.

Sometimes when Chen Han encountered some setbacks, Zhu Youwei was able to discover them in time and give him understanding, which made Chen Han feel that many of the things he had done were recognized by others.

This kind of recognition is actually indescribable in any language. This kind of recognition in the heart can give people tremendous motivation in many cases.

It is through such a relationship that two people can grow together, and both of them can gain psychological satisfaction from this growth.

It is precisely because of this that the relationship between the two has always been very harmonious. They have never really argued about anything worth arguing about. It’s just that the two sides have different concepts.

In other words, some minor quarrels will only occur when there are different opinions on a matter. Such quarrels have no effect on the relationship at all. They are just the opinions of two people on a matter.

Both of them are very able to control such thoughts, and sometimes they can even discover problems through such quarrels that they cannot discover alone.

Because of this, the two have always been a very harmonious couple. Compared with other couples, they are simply a model of the Ming Dynasty.

Now, when Chen Han saw his daughter preparing lessons hard again, he felt that marrying Zhu Youwei was the greatest happiness.

The moment he held his wife's hand, Chen Han finally understood where his sense of security came from: it came from his wife.

My wife has never thought that my ideas or major concepts are wrong. Sometimes she even helps me analyze them and see where I can improve.

Only in this situation can we see how powerful the combined force between husband and wife is. As the saying goes, when husband and wife are of one mind, they can cut through metal like a knife. This is truly an eternal saying.

Now that she heard Chen Han say this to her again, Zhu Youwei did not feel embarrassed, but rather very happy. It just so happened that she had discovered some problems while preparing for class, and was waiting for her husband to come back and discuss them with her.

Now that her husband had just returned, she could of course speak freely. She didn't say anything at first, but just stared into Chen Han's eyes. Seeing that Chen Han's face looked a little tired, she knew that it must be because he had to deal with too many things recently.

Sometimes, a couple cannot see each other for two or three days because they are busy with their own things.

For a moment, I felt a little sorry for my husband. I touched his hand and found that his hands were not as thin as before, but were full of calluses.

Of course Zhu Youwei knew that her husband was not just a talker. Sometimes he would go to the engineering college to learn from some old masters, and sometimes he would even try his hand at it.

That's why calluses appeared on his hands. Logically speaking, Chen Han is now a Duke and the Crown Prince's son-in-law. He doesn't need to work at all. There are plenty of people who will help him solve those problems.

However, Chen Han did not take his identity too seriously. Instead, he always did things by himself, always walked at the forefront, and always let everyone see that the Duke and the Crown Prince's son-in-law could also work.

When Zhu Youwei thought of these things, she felt sorry for her husband. While her husband was trying hard to move forward, there was actually very little she could do to help. That's why, when she thought of these things now, she felt a little guilty towards her husband.

Touching her husband's hand, Zhu Youwei said affectionately: "My husband, meeting you is the greatest happiness in my life. You have said more than once that in the original history, I would actually marry Geng Bingwen's son.

"Of course I won't belittle him, but I have to admit that I have carefully observed that man. Besides his dull nature, there is no way to even say that he is a nobleman.

"Even so, he still can't change his bad habits and has many affairs. If I marry such a person, I believe my life will be ruined."

What Zhu Youwei said was true, because after she married Chen Han and learned from Chen Han that according to the original history, she would marry Geng Bingwen's son, she began to deliberately observe Geng Bingwen's son.

In fact, after she had an engagement with Geng Bingwen's son, they never got married. The reason was that she was a relatively strong woman, so she wanted to know what Geng Bingwen's son was like. During this process, Chen Han suddenly came to the Ming Dynasty, and then feelings developed between the two.

Regardless of whether Old Zhu and the prince wanted to have a relationship between Chen Han and Zhu Youwei through marriage, or for other reasons, the relationship between the two became closer and closer, to the point of being inseparable, and in the end it was a natural thing to clarify the matter.

Some people think that this incident made Geng Bingwen very embarrassed, so much so that the royal family sometimes wanted to compensate Geng Bingwen's family. But what they didn't expect was that Geng Bingwen's son was actually a useless person.

In fact, even if Zhu Youwei married Geng Bingwen's son according to the original history, Geng Bingwen's son would not have been able to achieve any achievements, and might even have delayed Zhu Youwei.

Because in history, Zhu Youwei died shortly after she married Geng Bingwen, so it is hard to say whether she suffered from depression due to the incompatibility between the couple.

After listening to Chen Han's records of her past history, Zhu Youwei made it very clear that she must have died of illness because she married a man like Geng Bingwen's son.

It is precisely because of this that Zhu Youwei is actually very lucky to have met Chen Han, and then married Chen Han, and the two of them can live together in harmony.

Of course, when Zhu Youwei observed Geng Bingwen's son, she didn't intend to compare him with her husband. She just wanted to take a look at that man to know that she had made the right choice.

After reading it, Zhu Youwei became even more certain that she had made the right choice. If she had really married Geng Mingwen's son, she would never be happy in her life, because his son had no ambitions and relied on his status as a marquis to flirt with other women.

So at this moment, when Chen Han held Zhu Youwei's hand and said that marrying him was the greatest happiness in his life, Zhu Youwei also replied at the same time - the greatest luck in my life is to marry you, otherwise my life would be ruined.

After the couple expressed their feelings, they started to get down to business. They were not the type to be petty or affectionate. Instead, they were people who really wanted to do big things; both of them were very strong.

So in this situation, it is impossible for the two people to start arguing over a small matter and then enter another state after it is over.

That is to start discussing the troubles they are facing now, and then directly hand over some things that they are constantly copying to Chen Han: "Husband, please help me take a look, this is what I want to do."

Chen Han took a look at the contents of the record and found something interesting because he found out that his wife wanted to set up a women's college.

Although a small women's college has been established at the Daming Engineering College, it is intended to attract some ladies from prominent families to study there.

In fact, sometimes it is just for popular science and it is not considered a women's college.

After more than a year of practice, she wanted to expand it, truly separate the Women's College from Daming Engineering College, and then set up an experimental site outside.

But the biggest problem now is that it is impossible to make everyone accept it. After all, it seems a bit unusual for girls to go to school.

Especially after Cheng-Zhu Neo-Confucianism was determined to be solved, even though Chen Han had already overthrown the holy monument of Confucianism, that is, Confucius, the status of Cheng-Zhu Neo-Confucianism was slightly affected.

However, the real influence of Cheng-Zhu Neo-Confucianism is not that it has been established as a prominent school of thought now, but the system of ruler-ruler and subject-subject that it has been developing for hundreds of years.

Even though the idea of ​​the ruler-ruler relationship between subjects was first proposed, it was actually intended to make everyone clear about their responsibilities.

For example, what kind of responsibilities should a king establish, what kind of responsibilities should a minister have, what kind of responsibilities should a father have, and what kind of responsibilities should children fulfill? In fact, the essence of this thing is to let everyone understand their responsibilities and fulfill their obligations according to their responsibilities.

It is not as the so-called ruler-ruler, minister-minister, father-father, and son-son relationship misinterpreted by everyone later, that is, they should suppress each other. This is not the true meaning and is also misinterpreted.

But after being circulated for so many years, it was misrepresented by some people and even deliberately emphasized by emperors like Zhu Yuanzhang.

It makes people think that this is just to make the emperor suppress his subjects, the subjects suppress the common people, the fathers suppress their sons, the sons suppress their daughters-in-law, and then put the daughters-in-law at the bottom, so that women can be suppressed.

It is precisely because of the existence of this kind of thinking that many ordinary people now directly keep the status of women in their families very low, and do not allow them any chance to turn things around. Because if that happens, it would be tantamount to challenging their authority. How can they agree to a challenge to their authority?

So under this circumstance, the difficulty of truly establishing a women's college can be imagined, because it may be impossible to accomplish. It is precisely because of this that Zhu Youwei is so embarrassed now.

When Zhu Youwei put her idea in front of Chen Han, it actually gave Chen Han a big problem. How should he explain it? Could it be that his wife's idea was a bit too advanced or even unrealistic?

Or are you just daydreaming and it is impossible to achieve? In fact, Chen Han understands very well why his wife does this.

He was just standing on a woman's standpoint and listening to a few words from the woman. However, there are actually some issues circulating among the people, saying that his wife is the hen that crows at dawn.

Precisely because one's reputation is already so loud, because one has become a symbol, and because one has become a thorn in the eyes and flesh of many people, some people want to find faults in themselves, but they may not be able to find them accurately.

Or maybe they don't dare to speak out about their own faults, but they are unwilling to do so. What can they do if they don't look for faults in themselves? Then they look for faults in their wives.

Even though his wife is now a princess, even though his wife now has a very noble status, even though the background behind his wife is very powerful.

But after all, his wife is married now, and belongs to her family. Chen Han has no family members to support him, so he seems relatively weak and vulnerable.

Even if his wife doesn't actually care about these things and doesn't care about the so-called criticism from the outside world, Chen Han must understand one thing, that is, his wife, in fact, has to bear certain public opinion risks if she has such an idea.

So when Chen Han saw his wife showing this thing, he actually wanted to ask a question...

(End of this chapter)