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"When I was a child, I went to my grandfather's house to play. A rooster pecked his hand and blood was drawn. My grandfather came out and slapped the chicken on the head with a spade, then carried the twitching chicken into the kitchen.

The chicken was rectified that night!

Because my father is rich, if he kills one chicken, he can still buy many more chickens.

My father is more concerned about whether my hands will leave scars than his cock. "

Zhang Lin shook his head proudly and regretfully. He felt like he wanted to raise a child but refused to be kissed. He said in a faint voice: "And my neighbor's child Hei Dan'er was pecked on the head by a rooster. His grandmother scolded Hei Dan'er throughout the summer vacation. Lock him up at home and don't let him play in the yard, for fear that he will hurt the chickens if he is naughty.

The family had no money, so the only one that could crow had to be kept to let the hens go into heat and lay eggs to hatch chicks. "

Nodding silently, Hu Yongqiang felt like he didn't understand.

Zhang Lin kept saying: "The same is true for locking children in the car by mistake. Some parents just throw bricks and smash the car glass without thinking.

Some parents strongly insist on waiting for the unlocker to come, shouting into the car, "Kid, hold on, the unlocker will come soon."

So, why do most poor people have family disharmony? Isn’t this a simple reason?

Because for many poor people, money is much more important than family ties, love, and human life. "

Hu Yongqiang: (oω`o)

He couldn't agree more with this summary.

Zhang Lin smiled and said: "Zhihu has a highly praised question:

Are children from poor families miserable from birth?

One of the upvoted answers said this:

The greatest sorrow for children born into poor families is not poverty, nor is it the incompetence of their parents.

The greatest tragedy for a child born into a poor family is that you live in a very bad environment. From birth to death, you are surrounded by a group of incompetent and negative people who do not want to see you good and do not want you to live well. People who are too kind will be surrounded by people who hold you back.

Basically, you can't get rid of it. "

Nodding with deep understanding, Hu Yongqiang couldn't help but hold his breath.

Zhang Lin kept saying: "The greatest evil in human nature is not to see others living better than themselves, especially those who had similar conditions in all aspects.

Whether intentionally or unintentionally, these people will often continue to influence you until they drag you into the abyss. Until they see that you are like them again, everyone feels comfortable. "

Hu Yongqiang felt suffocated as he nodded again.

He was too embarrassed to tell Zhang Lin.

Although he is now a civil servant and has done well in the Department of Culture.

But even though Shiro is now 10 years old, his original family is still his nightmare, and his surviving parents are still a thorn in his heart.

It’s not that he is unfilial.

Every winter, his parents still come to live with him for half a year, and in summer and autumn they stay with his younger brother who has settled in Gannan for half a year.

The scenery there is picturesque, and the temperature in summer is around ten degrees, making it a good place to travel.

He and his younger brother also tried their best to let their parents enjoy their old age as comfortably as possible.

But as Zhang Lin said, parents always have the feeling that he is ungrateful and arrogant, and they have no choice but to swallow this bowl of rice when they are old.

But when I was studying, if I hadn't insisted on repeating my studies, quarreling and falling out with my extremely controlling father, and finally borrowing money from my brother-in-law to repeat my studies for a year, my life would have been completely different.

Later, when they got married while working, they picked on their wives in various ways in the name of themselves, and the family conflicts became more and more intense.

Hu Yongqiang admits that his wife is not a fuel-efficient person. At least she cannot respect her parents-in-law to the extent that the previous generation did.

But times have changed after all!

Just like his landlord and wealthy family, they would prepare their favorite meals on time every morning, noon and evening, and would cause all kinds of unpleasantness after eating a hot pot they didn't like. No woman today would accept that.

Fortunately, his wife was born in 75. If you look at the current 8090, she would have been divorced countless times!

From the bottom of his heart, Hu Yongqiang was very tired of this family.

No matter how cruel your parents are, you can't harden your heart.

After all, human hearts are made of flesh!

His parents are old, and they didn't really care about him when he was growing up. They just had too much control and ended up doing bad things with good intentions.

Feeling confused, Zhang Lin in front of me kept saying: "When I was in high school, there were a total of 8 people in the dormitory.

Three are from the city and five are from the village.

In the process of getting along with everyone, I found that the children in the city are relatively cheerful, have a sunny heart, and smile all day long.

Children from the village are more taciturn.

Maybe children who grew up in the city have stronger inner self-confidence and don't have to worry about material things since they were young.

What about the children in the village?

Some parents will complain to them every day that it is too hard to make money, and the cost of college is too high. Don’t waste money, don’t waste food, just have enough food in school and warm clothes.

The child hears this every day and feels cowardly inside. Can he become sunny? "

After coming back to his senses, Hu Yongqiang smiled bitterly and nodded.

Speaking of which, he was the taciturn person in the dormitory. What Zhang Lin said was so accurate!

But money is the backbone. Without money, the backbone cannot be strong!

If you make friends with classmates in the city, they will regard it as a normal dinner party, which may be your living expenses for at least half a month.

Tilting his head and recalling, Zhang Lin said: "When my friend was in college, the parents of one of his roommates would often nag in the video:

As long as you are willing to learn, even if your family sells everything, it will continue to support your education.

If you don’t study hard, don’t come into this house in the future. We will not give up food or clothing for you...

Save 1000 words here. ” It goes without saying that this friend is him in his previous life.

In that Sanben University, he had such a hard-working classmate.

He looked at Hu Yongqiang and sighed: "Because my classmate's roommate's parents had too high expectations for my classmate's roommate, which put him under too much mental pressure, so he dropped out of school in his sophomore year!"

He said, "It's such a pity!"

Hu Yongqiang heard Zhang Lin nod and said: "Yes, if the parents of a child with average conditions are still like this, the inner pressure will be too great!

What’s even more unbearable is:

Our parents are nagging us every day, and we are incompetent. From now on, this family will be counting on you...

Don’t fight when you should fight, don’t be brave when you should be brave, and then expect your children to fight for you and your children to be brave for you.

What kind of sick weak mentality is this? "

Regarding this, Hu Yongqiang felt that it was okay.

At the very least, such parents will admit that they are incompetent.

Unlike his father, who was obviously lazy and had a bad personality. He had never made any money in his life, but he still felt that he was the greatest in the world every day.

Meeting such a great father is a nightmare in life!

Zhang Lin didn't know this and said to himself: "So, most parents from lower-class families will not encourage their children, they will only hit or order their children.

They all hope that their children will be obedient sheep at home and soaring wolves outside.

So, while trying hard to fight against the children at home, and also saying that education is for your own good, at the same time, he compares other children with his own.

They just pursue results and have no way of teaching their children how to become wolves, and they have no idea how distressed their children are.

They go out to work and make money, but they don't say anything and may feel disappointed.

If they don’t make money, they will say:

If it doesn't work, go back to work and go to work honestly. The most important thing is to be stable, otherwise it won't be a problem.

After all, every parent hopes to be the authority in front of the next generation.

Because he is already at the bottom of society, the bottom of the circle of relatives, and no one has a lower status than them.

And their children are what they consider to be their natural and only subordinates. "

Hearing this, Hu Yongqiang felt the same again.

He felt that Zhang Lin might understand him, so he could describe his father so appropriately.

At that time, his father forced him to attend a technical school. The reason was that the tuition was not high and he would be able to work in two years. His friends' children could earn 5,000 yuan a month.

Looking at the stunned Hu Yongqiang, Zhang Lin said: "So, under the pressure and ridicule of the parents, the child slowly grew up.

But throughout the process, even if you become an adult, no matter what you want to do on your own, your parents will be the first to stand up and oppose it.

No, the risk is too great. You are not the material. Mom and Dad are doing this for your own good.

In today's society, children are born as Alexanders. If they don't have the support of their families, why should they stay in the world?

I also know that most parents have good intentions and are doing their best for their children.

However, most parents just want their children to be safe and ordinary.

But while blocking the child's dream, he also dreamed of the child's success.

Everyone can actually become a wolf, but when a child wants to do something, the parents will stand up and say, you are a sheep, that is not what you should do - and you can't do it.

After that, the child follows the trajectory set by the parents~

My parents also said, XX in XX family are the same age as you. Look at how well they are doing and how prosperous they are, and then look at yourself!

Most parents' education is to cultivate obedient sheep, and they compare the wolves outside with their own sheep.

Some sheep were forced to borrow wolf skins and break into the world. Some were eaten, and some actually became wolves. "

After he paused for a moment, Zhang Lin picked up the water glass and took a sip to moisten his throat.

Feeling the coolness in his throat, he asked: "How many sheep are there like this?"

Not much!

I don’t encourage my fans to do whatever they want.

Because pursuit is first a game for the brave, secondly a game for people with high emotional intelligence, and finally, it is a game for wolves. "

Regarding this sentence, Hu Yongqiang couldn't agree more.

His many years of working life taught him that drilling is also a talent, and not everyone can flatter him.

As soon as he clapped his hands, Zhang Lin said with a smile: "The time you have when you are young is so short. If you don't do something you want to do, will you live your whole life comparing and complaining about your parents and other people's successful children?"

Are you sure you won’t regret it when you get older?

Therefore, if we have no money and like to stay with our parents, life will feel lifeless after a long time.

So I told my classmates and fans that anything can be done secretly if one decides to do it secretly.

It is a common thing for military strategists to succeed as a king and lose as a bandit. Keep a good attitude and grit your teeth and move forward.

Soon we will see the light.

I don’t know if my personal opinions are useful to you. Let me be more verbose. If a certain sentence can touch your thinking, it means that my words are still very meaningful.

Some of what I say may be a little extreme, but these are opinions based on what I have experienced and seen. "

“Benefited a lot!”

After speaking these four words sincerely, Hu Yong forced a smile and said: "As expected of a great talent at CCTV, he can always say deeply touching words." (End of Chapter)