Back to 80s: Hot wife goes crazy

"Well, you are quite right. But..." Tang Xueli smiled, "I have no intention of finding a partner."

"Ah?" Lu Bingbing looked surprised, "Aren't you going to look for me in the future too?"

Tang Xueli nodded and said, "Well, I don't want to look for it."

"Then you won't get married?" Lu Bingbing seemed to be very interested in Tang Xueli's answer. This was the first time she met someone with such an idea.

Tang Xueli said: "Yes, I won't get married."

"Why?" Lu Bingbing asked and then added: "I'm not trying to persuade you, I'm just curious about what you think."

If someone else asks, Tang Xueli may not answer, because the other party will most likely not be able to understand, and will probably try to persuade her, or directly make a conclusion, saying that you think so now because you are still young, and wait until later I wouldn’t think so anymore.

Or, they ask you condescendingly, if you don’t get married or have children, what will you do when you get old? Who will support you when you get old?

Or, they may say that if you don’t get married, you will be so lonely. If you get sick, there will be no one around to take care of you, and if you faint, no one will notice.

Anyway, there will be all kinds of similar rhetoric, but in the final analysis, they believe that marriage is a necessary option in life.

If you don't get married, you are a weirdo, an alternative, and a rebellious person.

Not having children is selfish and life is incomplete. Based on your own logic, you can infer that if everyone was like you and did not have children, wouldn't all human beings be extinct?

One word from you can trigger so many "meaningful words" and a barrage of criticism.

Since these are all predictable, there is no need to say more.

But Lu Bingbing was different. Although she only met her once, didn't get along with her much, and didn't even speak a few words, Tang Xueli felt that she could understand her thoughts.

So Tang Xueli is willing to answer Lu Bingbing's question seriously.

"You would think it's strange that people choose not to get married because most people get married, but actually getting married is not a must."

Tang Xueli said calmly: "I think few people would ask others why you got married."

"Yes, that's true." Lu Bingbing felt as if her mind had been opened up, "Different people are just not easy to understand. For example, I like old men, and my relatives, friends, and my dad don't understand me. "

"It's actually difficult for people to really understand each other. But if they are good friends, they can still choose to respect each other even if they don't understand."

Tang Xueli said: "I have a lot of things I want to do, but my time is limited, so I have to make a choice. Falling in love, getting married, and starting a family with someone are too energy-consuming. And I have no interest in love. , this is a burden to me, so it must be abandoned."

Lu Bingbing was shocked, "Wow, Xue Li, you are so cool!"

Tang Xueli: "...This is not cool. At most, it's just different interests and different life choices."

"It would be great if I could not be interested in men." Lu Bingbing laughed at herself: "But I seem to be born with the need to fall in love constantly and need the stimulation of new relationships."

"If you are born with it, then enjoy it." Tang Xueli said: "It's enough to know what you like and get fun from it."

Lu Bingbing sighed: "But every breakup is very painful."

"Pain and injury are also the price you pay for the happiness you once had. It's not a loss." Tang Xueli looked into Lu Bingbing's eyes and smiled lightly: "Don't you need the stimulation of a new relationship? After the pain of breaking up, it will be again soon." The joy of meeting someone new.”

Lu Bingbing gave Tang Xueli a thumbs up.

Yan Jingshu, who sat in front and listened to the entire conversation, felt very complicated.

Although inviting Tang Xueli to participate in club activities was not to pursue her, he still couldn't be happy after hearing such remarks.

Painter Qin came over with a glass in one hand and sat crookedly on the chair next to Yan Jingshu, "Here, the wine has just sobered up, give it a try, it tastes very good."

Yan Jingshu didn't refuse, took it in his hand, and took a big sip.

Painter Qin clicked his tongue, "That's how you drink red wine! A layman."

Yan Jingshu replied: "You are an expert. You drink red wine from a glass."

"Ouch." Painter Qin was overjoyed, "Who messed with our reporter Yan?"

Such narratives are rare. "You said I'm an amateur, so I can't be angry?" Yan Jingshu smacked the taste in his mouth. The red wine tasted really good. He took a sip and tasted it again, "The wine is good, very delicious."

“I may not be good at painting, but I am definitely an expert at tasting wine.”

The few people in front found a debate topic and were dividing the pros and cons.

Painter Qin raised his chin, pointed toward the stage, and asked Yan Jingshu, "Why don't you go and get involved?"

"Not interested." Yan Jingshu drank all the red wine in the glass.

Painter Qin smacked his tongue: "Your drinking capacity has increased. Can I pour you some more?"

"I've always had a good drinking capacity." Yan Jingshu returned the empty cup to Qin Hua: "I won't drink anymore."

"Just drink more if you like it. You have a good drinking capacity and a good taste in wine, so what are you afraid of?" Painter Qin has always liked drinking with Yan Jingshu.

Yan Jingshu is the most knowledgeable person about wine among the people he knows.

And he doesn’t nag even when he drinks too much.

Unlike You Xiaofei, this great poet couldn't even fart before drinking. After drinking, he was more nagging than his 90-year-old grandfather, and could hold you talking from dusk to dawn.

If you don't sleep yourself, you won't let others sleep.

Last time, I kept him chattering for five or six hours and recited no less than a hundred poems by Li Du.

"The president is here today, so I have to take it easy." Yan Jingshu made an excuse, but in fact he was in a bad mood. It didn't matter what kind of wine he drank at this time, and he didn't want to waste Qin Yang's good wine.

"Okay." Qin Yang could see that Yan Jingshu was not very happy and was not in the mood to talk to him, so he got up and went to find others to play with.

The previous debate has officially begun.

The topic of the debate is: Should the enemy who killed his father save his own life, should he take revenge or repay his favor?

The positive side deserves revenge, the negative side deserves repayment.

At first glance, this question seems difficult to argue with.

But the party that is not willing to argue is often prone to sparks of thinking.

There are a bunch of people sitting on the positive side, and a bunch of people sitting on the opposite side.

This is not a formal debate competition. There is no standardized process. Whoever thinks of it can say whatever they think.

The number of people on both sides is not equal.

This time there were obviously more people on the opposite side.

Song Yanran felt so powerful every time she listened to someone's words.

"How do these people's heads grow? Why are they all so smart!"

Tang Xueli was not interested at first, but after listening for a while, she was attracted.

The discussion was unexpectedly exciting.

"Sister Xueli, if it were you, would you repay kindness or take revenge?" Song Yanran was completely confused after listening for a long time.

She didn't know how she would choose.

Tang Xueli thought for a moment and said, "Revenge."

Song Yanran: "Don't you feel embarrassed?"

"It's not difficult." Tang Xueli said half-truthfully, "I hold grudges."