Traveling to Daliang Kingdom starts from falling into the water

Chapter 694: Marry and obey your husband
After a woman gets married, she obeys her husband and belongs to his family. She cannot go back to her parents' home whenever she wants. Most of them go back with their families on the second day of the Lunar New Year.

Even if my parents' and my husband's families live in the same village, there is no chance to go back to my parents' home before dark on New Year's Eve.

As a daughter-in-law, no matter how good your mother-in-law is, on this day, the men in the family go to the ancestral temple to worship their ancestors, and the daughter-in-law always has to do housework and prepare the New Year's Eve dinner, so she has no time to leave.

To go from the east side of the river to the west side of the river, one has to pass by the end of the village if one doesn't take a shortcut. Zhou Banxia would be very conspicuous, especially with maids and servants in front and behind him.

"Sanyah, come back to your parents' home. Your father is smart. Your daughter is getting married right under your nose. The road is slippery. Please walk carefully."

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"Who am I talking about? It's our San Ya. Slow down, slow down. Haha, you are such a polite kid. I won't keep you here anymore. Be careful when you walk and keep an eye on others."

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"Grandma, it can't be wrong, it must be Sanya from my second uncle's family. Sister Sanya, grandma told you to slow down, grandma said you must be pregnant with a big fat boy."

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"It's Sanya, where are you going? Look at me, hahahaha, I won't ask you to come into the house and sit for a while, go back quickly, kid, you are too particular."

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Zhou Banxia walked and stopped along the way, talked and laughed a lot, said a lot, and got a lot of food, the most common of which was fried meatballs.

Except for Maixiang and Maidong who were needed to protect Zhou Banxia, ​​the rest of the maids and old women were either holding or carrying an earthen basket.

Look, she is almost at the door of her house, and the aunties and sisters-in-law from the houses in front and behind her are asking their girls to run over with baskets or large bowls.

It's really enthusiastic.

After going up the steps and entering the courtyard, Zhou Banxia finally had the opportunity to wink at Mai Dong, indicating that she should go back and bring some snacks and silk and pearl flowers.

"Mom, I'm back."

The doorman announced that the aunt had returned home. Li did not react for a moment that it was her third daughter who had returned. She wondered why her eldest daughter had come back today.

You're already pregnant, why don't you be like San Ya and make her and her husband less worried!
"Sanya, it's Sanya you're back?" Li almost thought she had seen it wrongly. "Your father and brother are all in the ancestral hall right now. What are you doing back?"

That’s what you’re asking!

"Slow down." Zhou Banxia looked at Li who was walking quickly with amusement, "I can't miss you, dear mother. Relax, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law asked me to come back to check on you.

I haven't been home for a while, and I want to come back. Originally, your uncle said he would accompany me in the afternoon, but I think it's better to come earlier so that I can spend more time with you.

When your daughter-in-law comes home, I, your daughter, will no longer be popular, so I should go home more often in the next two years so that you can love me more."

"Get up early. Dajiang is only fifteen years old during the Chinese New Year. He should get married at eighteen at least. Besides, I don't know where my wife is. Maybe she won't get along with me even if I find her."

"No." Zhou Banxia took Li's arm and walked up to the upper room, laughing softly, "Dajiang said long ago that you are not compatible with him, and he will not marry you.

When we choose a wife for Dajiang, first of all, we need you and my father to be happy with her, especially you. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have lived together for a longer time, and we are looking for the eldest daughter-in-law, so how can we not give priority to you. "

Having said that, a grown-up son is no longer under the control of his mother. Didn’t your father-in-law want to marry your mother-in-law? How can I, as a mother, go against your brother?
Considering that there were a row of maids and servants around, Li endured it and finally refrained from saying it out loud, shaking her head, "It's fine as long as your brother likes it.

Your father and I agree that as long as the family tradition is upright and the girl is willing to live with your brother, I will treat her as my own daughter. "Don't!

My father's words are highly credible. If you say that you treat your daughter-in-law as your daughter, my uncle Qi will be scared to death. It is better to say that a daughter-in-law is different from a daughter, one comes in and the other goes out.

Once you marry into the family, they are your own family. The one who will stay with you for a long time is not your daughter, but your daughter-in-law. You will not force your son to marry a daughter-in-law who can give birth to grandchildren.

"What are you laughing at?"

Li just noticed that the maid was holding something in a earthen basket and was about to turn around to ask her daughter who gave it to her when she saw her third daughter secretly laughing.

"Well said!" Zhou Banxia praised immediately, "My mother is sensible. With a good mother-in-law like you, our family will be able to prosper for at least three generations."

It’s still her daughter San Ya who can talk.

How nice to hear!
Li smiled complacently, and suddenly remembered that she had promised the child's father last night not to be too cocky, so she had to hold back her smile and put on airs, replying slowly.

"How can I explain this? I have experienced how painful it is to have a wicked mother-in-law. When I become a mother-in-law myself, I will not let myself be as vicious as her.

Your father was so filial before, but he wished that she hadn't given birth to him. Her son didn't care about her at all, but mother only has two sons, how could she let your brother abandon her.

Besides, our family has finally lived up to the good life we ​​have today. I don’t know how much hardship you have endured. Even if I am not very smart, I will not let my daughter’s efforts go to waste.

You have been thinking about your brother supporting the family since early morning. As long as your brother's wife is okay and not a troublemaker, I will learn more from your mother-in-law.

Even if you can't make your mother-in-law smile from ear to ear when she sees you and make your life happy, your mother will still treat her daughter-in-law well and treat her as her own family.

Anyway, if I hadn't done anything wrong, you would have let me be bullied by your brother's wife right under my nose. I don't believe it, but your brother believes that you won't let me get angry."

very good!

Finally I understand, it's worth it for your daughter to come here even though I'm pregnant and worried, "Of course, you are my real mother.

I myself can't bear to see you suffer any injustice, so how can I let you suffer any humiliation? Besides, our family is definitely looking for a good child, so how can we not look for one carefully? "

As she spoke, Zhou Banxia stretched out her hand and waved it backwards, signaling Mai Xiang to lead his men to retreat. However, Mai Xiang seemed to have misunderstood her meaning.

Seeing that the others did not follow into the hall, but he stayed to help Mai Xiang take off her cloak, Zhou Banxia thought about it and decided not to let her go down.

In fact, her mother was still there, her biological mother, living in the main hall of her own home. There was no need for the four of them to stay by her side all the time.

"Let's sit over there. It's warmer there, and the brazier is close by. As for the search, don't let your father hear it. Actually, I think Lian Jie'er from Doctor Lin's family is very good."

Li whispered the following words into her daughter's ear. Zhou Banxia was startled when she heard it and turned to glance at Mai Xiang.

Mai Xiang understood and stood guard at the door, as if waiting for the maid to bring tea.

"Mom, do you like Lian Jie'er?"

"It's not like whoever mother chooses will be hers. How could Doctor Lin's family be so wealthy that they want a husband? Why would mother choose Hui Jie'er?
Mother just thinks that if Doctor Lin and his wife don’t mind marrying into our family, their sister Lian is more or less a doctor, and Dajiang is weak, which is just right for her.”

It’s my mother!
This was exactly what she had thought at first. Zhou Banxia covered her face and laughed, "Then why don't you think that if Dajiang wants to be an official in the future, Huijie would be better?"