This couple in the apocalypse is not easy to mess with

Chapter 602 End of Teaching
  Xiao Ya waits for her husband to finish saying this," then she said to the little guys.

What your brother just said is also what I want to say to you.

In addition to those, I have mentioned to you before that love is the simplest and most complex emotion.

And his level of complexity is definitely beyond your imagination.

For example, one person likes another person, and the person the other person likes also likes other people.

You ask, isn’t this very complicated? What is the reason for the complexity? “Can you figure it out?

In fact, the reason for this complexity is very simple, that is, these people's views on love are different from those that your brother and I told you before.

For example, a person clearly knows that the person he likes "likes not himself, but another person.

And if this person still doesn't give up his love for this person, he still pursues this person wholeheartedly.

Then when these people come and go as they like, it may develop in a good direction, or it may develop in a bad direction.

So the best way forward is for them to wake up on their own.

So that you can get together with the person you really like and the person who really likes you, and live a happy and sweet life.

And if it develops like a bad side, then these people will fight to the death because of their emotions, and love will produce hatred, causing one tragedy after another.

In addition to this, there is another point: for example, a person who is relatively open about emotions “does not recognize the true self or the person he likes” before choosing a partner.

So that you can blindly form a family or become a partner with the person you like.

And after this person forms a family or becomes a partner with the person he likes, and lives together for a period of time or several years, he suddenly feels that he and the person he has become a partner are not suitable to be together for a long time.

Then they will choose to separate from the person who has already partnered with them, so as to find someone who is truly suitable for them.

In addition to people who think this way, there is also a person who has become a partner with another person or the same kind.

After living with another person for a period of time, this person suddenly fell in love with another person and no longer wanted to be with his current partner.

But if he wants to be a partner with the person he likes now, then he will find a way to separate from his current partner and form a partner with another person.

Of course, doing so is also a kind of betrayal, and it is also a blasphemy against love.

In addition to the above two points, there are some people who are more casual in their treatment of love.

These people will have a close relationship with each other "as long as they meet someone they like" or feel that it is okay.

After getting along for a while, "when both parties feel that it is not suitable again, they will leave and look for the next target."

This kind of person is the kind of person that your brother and I look down upon the most.

Because your brother and I both feel that such people are not worthy of true love.

A person who truly understands love will definitely respect himself and love himself, and will never make fun of his own feelings, or indulge himself in order to satisfy his physical desires.

Then if he does this, he will not only offend the people he really wants to love in the future, but also offend the people who really love him. It will even cause great harm to the person who really loves him.

So if a person treats his feelings and his body that way, he will cause harm to others because of his feelings.

Likewise, you will be hurt by what you do in this relationship.

Therefore, when it comes to emotions, a person must be pure and self-loving. While respecting his own body and mind, he must also respect his true lover.

Speaking of which, don’t you all feel that emotions are too complicated?

That’s why your brother and I told you our views on relationships before.

Because our views on relationships and your brother's are "completely different from those of the people just mentioned, and this kind of thing will never happen to us. As we said to you before, we will never let ourselves fall in love." A person whose heart belongs to someone.

No matter whether this person will change his mind and like us in the future, we will never like such a person.

Because we know what we want and what kind of person we should like and love.

Nor will he cause harm to others because of his own feelings.

Not to mention casual contact with someone of the opposite sex "or any intimate actions or words, because for your brother and I, these are disrespectful to each other" and it is also not what we want.

Of course, these also have a lot to do with our possessiveness towards each other.

But in addition to this, there is another reason: if someone of the opposite sex is really good to you, it is beyond the kind of kindness between normal friendships.

And now that you know that the other person's kindness to you "has gone beyond the scope of friendship and family affection."

You still respond enthusiastically to the other person, or do intimate actions or say ambiguous words with the other person.

Then if you do this, "no matter whether people who have other concerns about you will be hurt or not, even your true lover will be hurt because of your actions."

So when you encounter this kind of thing, when you are unable to respond to the other person's feelings, you must immediately cut off any contact or relationship with the other person.

You can't owe the other party any favors, let alone let the other party do something for you that you can't repay.

Only in this way will you not hurt the other person, yourself, or your true lover.

"So in the future, if you encounter this kind of thing, you must cut it off. You must also put yourself in your partner's shoes and think about it carefully. Will these things you do cause harm to the other person?"

And apart from this, you can owe any debt in the future, but you must not owe a love debt, because the cause and effect involved in love debt is too deep, and it is not easy to repay, nor is it that easy to repay.

So the things I just talked about will never happen to me and my husband. It didn’t happen before, and it will never happen in the future.

And only by fundamentally cutting off the occurrence of this kind of thing will your life and path of cultivation become smoother.

Xuan Ye waited for his wife to finish saying this, and then said to a few little guys.

In addition to what our sisters said before, there are many more complicated things in love and ways to get along.

Even your sisters and I have not seen them all until now.

But these all happen to people or similar people who cannot see themselves or others clearly.

So as long as you can truly see your own heart and see clearly whether other people's character and style of doing things are suitable for you.

As long as you see these clearly, plus the key points that my wife and I have told you before to prevent you from making mistakes.

Then you will never be in the situation we just talked about emotionally.

Xiao Ya waited for her husband to finish saying this, and then said to the little guys.

"So" when you grow up and meet the person you like or your significant other, you must face your feelings calmly.

"You must not fall into it just because of impulse", and you should also think about what your brother and I said to you today.

When it comes to looking at love, the only things your brother and I can give you guidance on are what we said before.

"The rest" Even if we still have some opinions, they are all similar to what we said before.

I believe that after listening to what we have said, you will definitely have a lot of doubts and questions.
  But these are not important. It is normal for you to have questions and confusions. You just need to remember these words well now.

When you experience more things in the future, coupled with careful understanding and study, you will truly understand the true meaning of what we are saying today.

(End of this chapter)