When the female supporting role has a beauty system

Tan You: "It can't be said that he really doesn't like you, he just doesn't like you enough."

"Yes, he just doesn't like me enough," Yi Ru smiled: "You know people are greedy, especially in love. I like him so much and give him such passionate feelings, so I undoubtedly want him too. There’s feedback.”

"I want the same sincere and passionate feelings, but Zhao Zhao is like a glass of warm water. He can't give me this. His work, hobbies, colleagues or family will always be more important than me."

"I have always been ranked behind these, and it became even more so when I had a child." Yi Ru sighed: "But in order to create a stable and harmonious family atmosphere, I have to suppress all these sournesses in my heart."

"Because in the eyes of outsiders, Zhao Zhao is very good. He doesn't smoke, drink, or go to bars, and he doesn't flirt with women. He is even very good to his children and my parents. It seems that he is perfect from top to bottom."

"But only I know how tiring it is to be with him. I always have to match his pace. When I told my parents about this, they didn't understand at all. Instead, they blamed me for not knowing that I have a husband like Zhao Zhao. Contentment.”

Tan You thought for a long time: "Emotional matters are really complicated, but as the more urgent party in the relationship, you should pay more. And these are all given by you voluntarily, even if the other party does not give you the same feedback, you We should accept it calmly instead of feeling sorry for ourselves like we do now."

"After all, it's a choice you make."

"I'm not speaking for Zhao Zhao, because you are asking for love from others, which in itself is forcing you. Whether a person loves you or not should not be your initiative to ask for it, but his voluntary giving."

"Of course, Zhao Zhao is suitable for the kind of person who doesn't love him. Because she won't be jealous, won't look for trouble, won't pick problems, won't make trouble unreasonably, won't cling to him, whether he looks for it or not She, she won’t mind, he likes to go there and he doesn’t mind even if he dies, anyway, it’s the same with or without him, he’s sensible and generous.”

Yi Ru smiled: "What you said sounds good, but there are some logical errors. Since we don't love each other, we won't be together."

Tan You: "So you should think in a different direction. You crave love in marriage and hope that the other person will love you more every day than before. But marriage is more about responsibility. This is the conflict between you and Zhao Zhao."

"Maybe, it's just a mess anyway," Yi Ru rubbed her hair like a chicken coop. How could it be the same as when Tan You first saw her?

"To be honest, when I first met you, I thought you were really good at pretending and so hypocritical." Now that we are familiar with each other, Tan You speaks more freely.

Yi Ru was a little embarrassed: "Isn't that something that can't be changed for a while? Only now I realize that aside from those external shackles, I am really free, as free as I want to fly."

"In good conscience, Zhao Zhao has never been inferior to me financially. I can't pretend that I don't know this." Yi Ru rolled on the bed and came face to face with Tan You.

"But I always feel that he is too wrapped up in himself, and no one can understand his thoughts. It is actually very painful for partners not to be in tune with each other."

"One party is unwilling to say it, and the other party can only linger outside the other party's heart forever. It's actually very painful."

Tan You: "I think when you get along with Zhao Zhao, you habitually praise him very high and put yourself in a very low position. This is wrong."

"I later discovered that it's just that habits become natural," Yi Ru later reviewed her emotional and marital experiences: "Now I understand not to fall in love or get married with a man who is too mature."

"The other person is indeed mature and stable, but the other person can see through you, and you never know what he is thinking. This is the saddest thing. Maybe when I took the initiative to approach him, he was still laughing at me for being too naive. ." Yi Ru didn't cry either, but thinking about those past events, she couldn't calm down after all. After all, we have been entangled for decades, so where do we say we just let it go?

Tan You: "A wise man will never fall in love, and a fool will shed a river of tears."

"That's right, I am that fool." Yi Ru stretched his muscles and said, "Now that I have nothing to do with Zhao Zhao, I have a pretty good reputation on the Internet. You don't know how happy I am inside."

"This word is really ugly."

Tan You: "So after talking about this time, don't mention Zhao Zhao again in the future. After all, he has quit the show a long time ago. Who knows where he is now? What kind of work is he doing?"

"Who knows? Maybe for me, it would be best for everything to return to the original point, because I have the right to make a new choice. And Zhao Zhao will also be able to find someone who can be close to him in the future. Please pray Be benevolent."

Yi Ru held her face in her hands: "It's just that he is doomed to regret. No one will love him as unfailingly as I once did."

"Yes, this is his biggest regret." Tan You said with a smile, "You always feel happy when you are loved."

Yi Ru: "When I tell you this, will I be suspected of spoiling the child? After all, you are only fourteen years old at the moment, so you are really young."

Tan You glanced at her sideways: "Thank you for remembering my age now. Didn't you just say it happily?"

"Hey, who makes you mature beyond your age? But to be honest, men and women have very different attitudes towards marriage. Many girls hope to maintain the sweetness of love after marriage, but men are not. They seem to All of a sudden, I felt that once I got married, I just had to take responsibility."

"There are differences in thinking," Tan You said calmly, but suddenly smiled wickedly: "The topic is too profound, so we won't discuss it. By the way, if you see Zhao Zhao again, what will you think?"

"What do you think?" Yi Ru thought for a while: "I don't know. Besides, the world is so big, how can you see him so easily? Besides, even if I saw him, I would feel calm, because in the end I didn't even have the strength to talk to him. ”

"It's best this way. I'm afraid you'll have a brain attack again."

Yi Ru: "No, I can't be so lame that I fall on the same man twice."

"You'd better be," Tan You didn't say much. Some people say they are independent, equal, and have freedom in life, but in fact she has not truly become independent. Deep down, she still wants to rely on her other half, that is, That kind of lack of independence in personality.

Tan You doesn't comment on whether this mentality is right, but as long as people accept each other, there is no place for Tan You to comment. In the final analysis, life belongs to others and has nothing to do with Tan You.

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